Chapter1
In this life, the only people who are good to you without any purpose, without seeking anything in return, are your parents. It's a favor that needs to be cherished by you.
Other than that, other people's good, it is not necessarily because of love you, may be want to get something from you, may be under the banner of love you, so that you let your guard down, and then give you a fatal blow.
When you're dealing with people, you need to be more mindful of what you're doing. If you believe in a person's words so easily, you're going to get hurt sooner or later.
There are many people who are good to you, but not every one of them loves you; there are many people who are bad to you, but not every one of them hates you.
Good and bad are opposites, and good and bad are your own measure, and it is your own emotions that influence your judgment to think that some people are good and some are bad.
By being swayed by your own feelings, it is easy to make wrong judgments and thus misunderstand others. You treat yourself as an outsider and then observe the good you get, and you will realize that people who are good to you are not necessarily doing so because they love you.
Chapter2
Is being nice to you really loving you? Sooner or later you will realize that the person who treats you well is not necessarily doing so because he loves you, but perhaps for other reasons.
To be nice to you is because you are profitable
Some people are born with a golden key, and the conditions are so good that people are red in the face, and most of the people who are scheming to do something wrong will take the people who are in good conditions to be their target, and use fake love to exchange for the benefits they want.
Those who want to take shortcuts will treat you well because of your superior condition, and he will create an illusion for you to think that you have really met your true destiny, and after you fall step by step, he will ask for you.
You've got to be in love, so you've got to be in love with him, and he's got to be in love with you, and he's got to be in love with you, and he's got to be in love with you. Once his purpose is accomplished, he may no longer have that good face.
Don't wait until you've been hurt to realize that you need to understand that the people who are good to you are not necessarily because they love you, but perhaps they are interested in your wealth, and they are profitable to you.
To you, is to seek stimulation
There are many men, the marriage as their own cage, the outside world, as their own stage. In order to be able to release on the stage, he will hide his true situation.
A man's mind is very complicated, you think he loves you, but in fact he can't even be honest. He is good to you to gain your trust so that you will stop questioning who he is. He's only being nice to you for the thrill of it, not to love you.
When the shit hits the fan, he'll put all the blame on you, leaving you to carry the curses and be scorned. He won't pity you for your tears, he'll just rub salt in your wounds.
By then it will be too late to see his true colors. Don't be easily confused by his good, so you can protect yourself. You have to know that the people who love you truly will not stand by and watch you get hurt.
To you, it is to control you
This situation is mostly in the company colleagues, colleagues are good partners side by side, but at the same time is also a competitor, in order to climb up, we can do anything.
Some coworkers are so nice to you that you mistake that for love, just to control you and make you available to him. Your resources will become his, and your credit will become his.
He stepped on you to climb up the ladder, and when he reached his own goal, he turned his back on you. If you don't want to be controlled, don't accept a person's goodness so easily.
You will understand sooner or later that the person who is good to you is not necessarily because of love for you, but may be to control you, in order to seize your credit. Be more mindful so you don't fall prey to someone else's schemes.
Chapter3
As the saying goes: ? The most important thing to remember is that you can't be a good friend to someone else. If a person suddenly treats you well, nine times out of ten, he or she has some other purpose.
Don't be so stupid as to be sold, but also laughingly help count the money, you sooner or later have to understand, the person who is good to you, not necessarily because of love you.
The person who really loves you will not only be good to you, but will also think of you in every way to make you better. The people who are only good to you but don't have anything to give are simply using you, don't be fooled.
The human heart is hard to guess, who does not know the smile behind the face, hiding what kind of side. The first thing that you need to do is to be aware of the fact that you are not the only one who has a good relationship with a person, and you should be able to protect yourself from being hurt.