Gong Hanlin and his father's story 1 1996 Winter is the saddest and darkest time in Gong Hanlin's life. In February of 65438+, his mother's lung cancer cells spread all over her body and she was admitted to Shenyang People's Hospital. However, he had just transferred from Shenyang Quyi Troupe to Beijing China Radio and Rap Troupe, and was in the sprint stage of his career, so he had little time to accompany his mother.
Gong Hanlin: We will be father and son in the next life. Although he asked the hospital to hire the best doctors and use the best drugs, he failed to save his mother's life. 1997 Just after New Year's Day, my mother closed her eyes forever, Gong Hanlin was tightly wrapped in grief and regret, and my father became old overnight 10 years old.
The son has to be raised and his relatives are not there. Never let regrets fall on his father again. After the mother's funeral, Gong Hanlin and Jin took their father to Beijing and vacated the room with the best lighting conditions as their father's bedroom. However, both of them are national first-class actors of China Radio and Rap Troupe, and they often perform all over the country. In addition, their son Gong Tiankuo is studying in England, and only his father is left at home. In Beijing, the father who has no acquaintances and friends, the living space is limited to that set of 100 square meter house.
Once, when Gong Hanlin and Zhu Jin came back from a performance in Hebei, they saw their father squatting in front of the fish tank and talking to the goldfish. A little pain passed through his heart, and he thought his father should be lonely. After discussion, the couple decided to find a daughter-in-law for their father.
The next day, Gong Hanlin bought a suit for his father, accompanied him to the hairdresser to dye his gray hair black, and gave him a razor to shave his beard clean. He pulled his father to the mirror and said humorously, "Dad, you look young 10 years old!" Father looked at himself in the mirror and grinned.
Subsequently, Gong Hanlin signed up for his father to participate in the dance team of the community nursing home. However, half a year later, my father did not "call" with any opposite sex. Gong Hanlin decided to take the initiative. After screening, a retired university teacher, Aunt Wang, came into his sight. In 10, Gong Hanlin accompanied his father to see Aunt Wang. Before his retirement, his father was a famous actor of Shenyang Quyi Troupe, and Aunt Wang was an intellectual woman. Both old people are very cultured and speculative.
However, two months later, my father told Gong Hanlin with regret that he and Aunt Wang had broken up. Gong Hanlin was surprised, and so was Zhu Jin. She thought her father-in-law was afraid of giving them trouble, so she cut off contact with Aunt Wang. She said emotionally, "Dad, you don't have any worries. You live with Aunt Wang, and we will treat her as our mother. " Father shook his head sadly: "Son, donkey love is not what you think." Dad and your mother have lived together for more than 40 years and have deep feelings. There is no room for other women in dad's heart. "
The Story of Gong Hanlin and His Father 2 Since 1990 Gong Hanlin stepped onto the stage of CCTV Spring Festival Gala, his sketch of cooperation with Zhao of action art has been deeply rooted in people's hearts. Gong Hanlin is thin and elegant; Zhu Jin is tall and enthusiastic. To outsiders, Gong Hanlin must be bullied by Kim everywhere.
In fact, anyone who knows Gong Hanlin and Kim knows that the couple's personalities and looks are completely different. Gong Hanlin is impatient and outspoken; Zhu Jin is gentle and quiet, not in a hurry. But other people's guesses made Gong Hanlin feel humiliated, so when he got along with Kim, he showed the strength of men everywhere.
The range hood at home needs to be upgraded. Zhu Jin suggested buying a European brand machine, while Gong Hanlin insisted on buying a Chinese one, so the couple had an argument. The father wants to persuade his son and daughter-in-law not to quarrel over such a trivial matter, but rich life experience tells him that it is best for elders not to interfere in the affairs between husband and wife.
Not long after, Gong Hanlin and Kim Jong Il quarreled about keeping pets again. Gong Hanlin shouted at Zhu Jin, "There are three people in our family now, and there will be four as soon as my son comes back. What pets are there? " This sounds harsh to my father: they are arguing for me because they have been here for a long time.
The next morning, when Gong Hanlin went out to visit friends and Kim went to the market to buy food, his father left a note saying, "Dad won't bother you anymore. Go back to your hometown in Shenyang and live a good life." After that, he rushed to Beijing Station with his luggage on his back. When Kim came back, she was shocked to see the note on the table. She called Gong Hanlin at once, and the couple rushed to Beijing Railway Station.
They stopped their father at the entrance of the ticket office. Gong Hanlin said to his father, "Dad, Zhu Jin and I are not good to you. Why did you sneak back? " ? Aren't you kidding us? In a word, I pulled out my father's tears: "What are you arguing about?" Gong Hanlin was surprised and ashamed at his father's words. He didn't expect that the quarrel between husband and wife would make his father misunderstand.
Gong Hanlin sat down beside his father: "Dad, my quarrel with the Kim family has nothing to do with you. Don't think too much. " Father said earnestly, "Han Lin, you are a man, so you should be tolerant.". How can you bargain with your wife over trifles? " ? If the family wants to be harmonious and happy, everyone should know how to love and tolerate. "Father's earnest words made Gong Hanlin and Kim bow their heads in shame.
In 2005, my father was 76 years old and suffered from hypertension, heart disease and diabetes. Not only did he eat less, but his homesickness became stronger and stronger. He misses the old street in Shenyang and the fried noodles in his hometown ... In May this year, Gong Hanlin had to send the old man back to Shenyang to live with his sister's family.
Gong Hanlin and his father's story 3 Gong Hanlin's sister and brother-in-law are ordinary workers with low incomes. Gong Hanlin was very grateful to see that they had taken good care of his father, and tried to help him financially, which relieved his father's worries.
On New Year's Eve in 2007, Gong Hanlin flew back to Shenyang with Zhu Jin and his son, and was reunited with his father and his party on New Year's Day. At night, father and son sleep in the same bed. Gong Hanlin said guiltily, "Dad, I can't see you several times a year, and my heart is very uncomfortable." "Han Lin, in dad's mind, you are the most filial and promising child. Although you are not with me every day, you have brought happiness and happiness to thousands of old people in Qian Qian. Dad is content to have a son like you! "
On the third day of the first month, Gong Hanlin will return to Beijing. Just as he was about to go out, his father grabbed his suitcase and said, "Hanlin, will you stay at home for one more day?" Even if I stay for one more hour. "Gong Hanlin choked up and said, Dad, Zhu Jin and I are going to catch a plane to perform in Guangdong this afternoon, and I will come to see you at least three times a year. "Turbid eyes suddenly filled with his father's eyes, Gong Hanlin could not bear to look again and turned away.
On New Year's Eve in 2009, Gong Hanlin performed the Spring Festival Evening sketch "Soybean Yellow" and still took Zhu Jin and his son to Shenyang. At this point, my father has developed Parkinson's syndrome and can only sit in a wheelchair every day. On October 9th, 65438/KLOC-0, Gong Hanlin took time to go back to Shenyang to see his father. Because of Parkinson's disease, my father's hands and feet are shaking, it is very difficult to pick up food, his speech is rambling, and his pronunciation is getting unclear. When he left, his father staggered to the door, struggled to raise his weak arm and waved to him slowly. Gong Hanlin didn't know that this was a farewell.
1 1 One day, Gong Hanlin received a phone call from her sister before getting up: "Dad is dying, so hurry home." Gong Hanlin's heart sank and he hurried to Shenyang with Kim and his son. Pushing open the door, I saw my father's photo in the center of the living room, and there was a black veil around the photo frame ... "Dad, why didn't you leave without waiting for your son!" " Gong Hanlin knelt in front of his father's portrait, tears streaming down her face. ...
That night, Gong Hanlin and Kim held a vigil for their father. He said to Kim with tears: "After my mother died, I always had a faint panic, fearing that one day my father would suddenly go with her and we would not be around his old man." I didn't expect this. I am a big unfilial ... "
Tomb-Sweeping Day and Gong Hanlin went to Shenyang to visit their father's grave. Before the tombstone, Gong Hanlin had tears in his eyes, and his heart was filled with infinite grief. He said silently, "Dad, rest in peace. My son will remember your teaching and work hard. I owe you so much in my life. If there is an afterlife, let's be father and son ... "