01 retired teacher desperately spend money, either to buy this or that!
Mr. Zhang retired for three years, the hands of a few thousand dollars per month of retirement pay four, their own food and drink do not worry. The two sons have become a family, we live not far away, usually have a thing nothing will get together to eat.
But when the kids aren't around, he sometimes feels quite bored. When a few old friends met, they organized a tai chi group to enrich their retirement life.
Then they went to the park every day to practice tai chi, which made Mr. Zhang feel much better. The practice of tai chi to buy some clothes, Mr. Zhang usually not much Internet, let his son to help. At first, my son didn't say anything, and then I bought a sword for practicing, and my son said that these things are useless and so on.
In fact, the total **** did not have a thousand dollars, practicing Taiji teacher's money is also Mr. Zhang's own money, each person paid 800 dollars, then the son said that it would be better to save their own eat some good food.
In addition to the later buy clothes this matter, Mr. Zhang heart is very uncomfortable, their own earned money, in order to spend money on this hobby for the elderly, what can not be. I've been depressed for a while, and I'm almost out of breath.
In fact, because of this matter angry really not worth it. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products in the world, and you'll be able to do that. As a child, we buy toys, buy snacks spent parents how much money, now they are old occasionally have a hobby, do children should support.
However, the ability of each family has the size, since Mr. Zhang himself has a retired salary, their own money to spend nothing bad, do not care about the real children's children do not care.
02 Help your daughter to bring up children for three years, just want to go abroad for a trip.
The aunt downstairs was a unit worker when she was young, and her salary was not low, but she had five insurance policies and everything, so she didn't have to worry about her children.
After her retirement, she helped her daughter bring up her children for three years, when her mother-in-law's family just had a young son who couldn't take care of the college entrance exams.
After three years, the child was old enough to go to kindergarten, and the daughter's mother-in-law was able to take care of the child. Auntie on their own back to their own home, finally can be relaxed, she intends to travel with the boss out of the country travel.
When I was young, I was busy with work and children, and the old couple always wanted to go abroad to see, but I never had the chance. Now it's hard to be free, she enrolled herself in the senior group abroad.
The year before last, she went to Thailand and brought some mangoes and other things to her neighbors. Whenever she talked about traveling abroad, she was very happy. She said that she saw that the sirens were more beautiful than some of the girls, and that the hot and sour soup they ate was so delicious.
Last year, I was ready to sign up to go to South Korea, and my daughter said that South Korea is all about young people. Most people go to the purpose is to buy cosmetics, the elderly to go and tired and sleepy, real nothing fun.
If you're not careful, you'll be cheated by a group of tour guides, who will trick you into buying this and that, and say whoever's mom or dad bought a bunch of supplements. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you'll be able to get your hands on some of the best ones.
Everyone goes out for different purposes, has different moods, and sees different things. The old man just wanted to go out and see the world. For example, to see what people eat what flavor, to see people dress style, taste the local customs and folklore.
The purpose of spending money is to open the eyes, to have fun, afraid of mom and dad were cheated, you can do a good job in advance of the strategy, such as what things can be bought, what things can not be bought.
After a lifetime of living, parents are also people, they have their own judgment. As long as what you say makes sense, they should also consider, left and right stop, will make the elderly heart uncomfortable.
Besides, if you want to spend money on something, you should do it according to your ability, after all, how much money do you have?
03 Like square dancing, every day to jump is not ashamed!
Ms. Liu used to work in the bank, after retirement benefits are good, she can travel around, but also have better hobbies. But she fell in love with the square dance, but also the more you dance the happier you are, organizing a group of old ladies in the community in front of the community to get a dance team.
She also has a son, just married three years, son with her to live. Usually the young couple work from work, Ms. Liu is responsible for home health, and cooking. As long as the son and daughter-in-law before work to prepare dinner, after dinner she could not wash the dishes to go dancing.
The family dishes sometimes son wash, sometimes daughter-in-law wash. I don't know when, but my son often whispered to her that the dancing was a nuisance, and that it was not a good idea to affect other people's rest.
At first, Ms. Zhang didn't take it too seriously, she said that I handmade every night at 8:30 pm on time, just an hour of activity, and can affect who ah, who went to bed so early.
Later, her son simply hid her dancing stereo. She asked several times, the son only said when, said the same neighborhood colleagues, know that his mother is the leader of the square dance, the impact is not good.
Because of this, Ms. Zhang and her son did not speak for several days. In fact, the so-called impact, but the public said the public, the mother-in-law said the mother-in-law has a reason, the neighborhood is more young people, the night than like the outside noise.
But the elderly, there are no other activities hobby, dance a body and mind stretch. Under the condition of not affecting other people's rest, really should not be desperate to block. Square dance is also a movement, can be strong, can also stretch the muscles, the elderly often participate in sports, at least can play a role in physical exercise.
Whether it is spending money to buy hobbies or not, go out and travel or not, jumping square dance also, but it is a form of senior life.
Just like our young people, not to chase the drama is to brush the phone, which is also a form of life, but the premise is not to affect other people, but also to live their own taste, is a healthy state of life.
The elderly have these desperate to do things, is to show their love of life, the best children do not care.
The French writer Stendhal said that old age is honored as one of the most beautiful privileges of the human spirit.
The elderly life should not be lonely because of old age, they need friends, need to socialize, need to psychological communication and exchange. We do sons and daughters in addition to being able to give the best filial piety is to support, can give parents to spend how much money does not matter, the important thing is not to give him face.
We give more to give a little respect, life a little more beautiful.
Life's greatest fortune is that everything is still in time, there is a saying that the trees want to be quiet but the wind does not stop, if you wait until the day when the parents are not there, and then go to regret, everything is late.
Not as good as with while they are alive, less tube a little, less say a little. Parents' happiness is our greatest filial piety