College is the most honorable and feasible way for rural children to realize their dream of getting out of the mountains.
The first thing to do is to support the strongest beliefs of a rural family. People are not afraid to suffer, as long as the suffering can see new hope. The hardships of a rural family are far from being the moving and beautiful thing presented in TV dramas and movies. It may not be able to arouse public sympathy, it may be taken for granted, it is more likely to be familiar with ...... the kind of isolation and helplessness can not see the hope of nowhere to focus on is more common in rural families in a state of distress.
And reading is undoubtedly the strongest agent in such a rural family. Especially after the children's knowledge can be applied in their lives, it makes rural families believe that knowledge can change their destiny, and strengthens their determination to raise their children to be educated.
But this kind of sharpening is not only for rural children, but also for those who expect too much from the future.
Many people refer to college students coming out of rural areas as "phoenix men" and "phoenix women" ...... because they carry the high expectations of too many people in a family. The expectations of too many people in a family are too high. The whole family is counting on this college student to change the fate of the whole family.
In this way, the rural children in college, or in the workplace, obviously because of carrying too much of their own expectations can not be resolved and less a trace of ease, a comfortable. Especially with the bottom of the provenance into another class they are not familiar with and brought about by the inability to let go of things a state of humility.
But no matter what the end result is, going to college allows a rural child to enter the city in a very good position to feel the prosperity, and it is a major breakthrough in the development of a rural family's experience.
Working and studying to go to college