It has caused a heated discussion among netizens. The highest praise is of course that marrying the wrong person is even more terrible. If you marry the wrong person, you will be angry for life. If you don't get married, you will be lonely at most. Anyway, I would rather be lonely than suffer indignities.
Not long ago, my former landlord, Aunt Li, was ill in bed, so I specially bought a fruit basket to visit her home.
Aunt Li's house is very deserted. His wife is out dancing in the square dance. Aunt Li can't hide her loneliness when she mentions the old man. Not long after, Aunt Li's wife came back from dancing, holding the breakfast she just bought, but not Aunt Li's share.
Aunt Li asked the old man to cook some millet porridge, but the old man refused. Don't you just have a headache? Spoil in bed all day, and have to wait on you. Get up and cook by yourself.
Aunt Li, who has always been competitive, said with tears that when people are old, they will often get sick. If they marry the right person, they can help each other. Marry the wrong man, No Country for Old Men.
The door slammed and the old man left. Aunt Li told me the story of their youth.
Forty years ago, Aunt Li married the old man at the instigation of her parents and matchmaker.
After marriage, Aunt Li discovered that Zhang Jun loved gambling. During Aunt Li's pregnancy, Zhang Jun often gambled all night. On one occasion, Zhang Jun, who lost her eyes, took Li Aunt's dowry to pay off her gambling debts.
At that time, Aunt Li was pregnant, not only going to work, but also cooking at home. On the day of labor, Aunt Li was still working in the workshop. After the baby was born, she was sent to the hospital with a stomachache.
After the child was born, Aunt Li sent the child back to her hometown and worked harder. She was promoted from a worker to a team leader, and her salary also increased a lot.
A woman's good job doesn't mean a good marriage, until she came back from work early and caught Zhang Jun fooling around with another woman. Aunt Li was heartbroken and thought of divorce.
So the seven aunts and eight aunts took turns to discourage divorced children. Besides, divorced women have a bad reputation and will be laughed at by others, which will affect their promotion. Give him a chance, it will change in the future.
Aunt Li has lived for thirty or forty years with the belief that he will change. It was not until the white-haired body became worse and worse that she finally realized that a leopard cannot change its spots, and there were not so many stories of the prodigal son returning.
"Give him a chance and he will change" is a self-hypnosis sentence. The older he gets, the more he knows that he will not change, but will get worse.
When I left, Aunt Li held my hand tightly and said that people who are happily married are old, which is called growing old together. An unhappy person, the older he gets, the more painful he is. Endure it for decades, and in the end, you will find that marriage without temperature is a bleak evening scene.
I will always remember aunt Li's eyes, and I have deep regret in despair.
Many people think that young couples are always together, and young couples are quarreling, but when they get old, they know how to care about each other. Only when I met Aunt Li did I know that young people can't get along well, but they will be more difficult to get along with when they are old, so it is a lifelong regret to marry the wrong person in the end.
After watching the reality show "Flowers and Teenagers", I fell in love with Summer Xu. She smiled with two small pear vortex. I checked online, and she is 48 years old, standing next to the female star born in the 1990s, but she has no sense of disobedience.
Summer Xu is a woman who has never been married in her life, but she lives like a girl over half a year old. Work when you want to work and travel around the world when you don't want to.
After she finished filming the reality show, many keyboard men attacked her, saying that she had princess disease and was an unmarried old woman.
Summer Xu didn't fight back, but insisted on sports, beauty, travel and friends gathering to make life interesting. I have seen photos of her college reunion, standing among her classmates, and she is obviously ten years younger.
Summer Xu said that over the years, he has never forgotten his initial attitude towards life and things, and maintained his initial curiosity. Perhaps it is this mentality that has kept him young for many years.
I think it is because of Summer Xu's carefree attitude that he can live so freely.
When love comes, brave enough to love won't get married just to get married. The attitude towards marriage is that lack is better than abuse. If you don't meet the right person, you'd rather enjoy life than dismiss yourself casually.
When my cousin was 28, she found a rich second-generation boyfriend. Cousin wants to buy a piano, but boyfriend says talking about money hurts feelings.
The rich second generation boyfriend bought himself the most expensive clothes and the latest camera, but he took her to buy cheap goods. Keeping your mouth shut means that his father is rich, but it doesn't mean that he is rich. Talking about money means not loving him.
Finally, he took her home to meet her parents, who were not enthusiastic. They always say that the air in your country is very good, and we can drive there for a holiday when we have time.
They have been together for less than half a year. He goes to the bar every day, and his cousin is beaten as soon as she objects. His parents also looked down on her, and their words were full of ridicule.
They broke up. From then on, my cousin decided to work hard, study hard in her spare time, take various certificates and be a better self. Cousin spent ten years in the empty window, and she was in no hurry to precipitate herself.
On her 39th birthday, she finally met her Mr Right. On the wedding day, she said that if she didn't meet the right person, she would rather live alone for a lifetime than start a marriage casually.
Only an unsuccessful marriage can be truly happy. Because the cost of marrying the wrong person is really much higher than the cost of never marrying.
If a woman marries the wrong person, it will ruin her half life, if not her whole life.
Women will encounter many bad things after marriage. They get up earlier than chickens and go to bed later than pigs. Pregnancy has a pregnancy reaction, the child has to do a lateral incision, and the caesarean section has to sew eight layers. Which one is not housework, confinement or child care?
If you marry the right person, your husband will be considerate and take care of you. If you marry the wrong person, he will not only be considerate of you, but also bully you with his mother, so you won't have children? You are the most hypocritical childless woman!
Unmarried women must open their eyes to see the Chu people remarry before they get married, because it is easier to hold your hand than to grow old with your son. Someone casually said this sentence, but only achieved the first four words.
Some people say that if marriage is a besieged city, then love is a house in a besieged city. Men and women who don't have a house to live in can't stand the wind and rain, and they either run away or die.
So whether you are in love before marriage or after marriage, your marriage will last for a long time, because you have a house full of love. Either seriously enter the besieged city or become a chic single aristocrat. Don't regard marriage as a lifeline to save singles.
Suhomlinski once said that if you get married in a hurry, you are willing to take unfortunate risks.
Women should always marry love and personality, not houses and cars. Don't get married hastily because of face. Because marrying the wrong person is more terrible than not marrying 10000 times!