This problem, there are a lot of life, are the result of their own life style, behavior, and can not do to people and goodwill and other reasons.
People who are poorly connected generally have the following problems.
They are so superior that they never communicate with those who are poorer than themselves, and over time, when you need someone else, they don't bother to pay attention to you! Often make jokes about others, and when others make similar jokes about you, they turn their backs on you. Too conceited, often listen to the wind is rain, or other people say on the rebuttal, for the rebuttal and rebuttal, can not put forward a better opinion! Self-righteousness, often think that others should follow their own ideas, when others refute the direct anger, it is easy to offend others! Too sensitive, others because of a small thing accidentally offended you, jumped the wall, a big temper. The first thing that you need to do is to get a good deal of money from the government, and then you have to pay a lot of money.
If you are such a person, you must change a little bit, do not always because of small things to offend other people, treat people a little more kindly. More communication with people, do not always be on top, communicate with each other can solve a lot of small things, can make each other's information symmetry. Speech and demeanor is measured, too cold others think you have no manners, too hot others think you are the people who go with the flow. More help others, with others convenient, is also with their own convenience. The first thing you need to do is to get a little bit more in touch with your friends and family and quit jumping over the wall for a little bit of trouble.
Some people have said that there is an old man, in the agricultural society as a captain, decent, fair, the villagers' reputation is very good. The old man has four sons, all out of work, of which the oldest three promising, the early years of small contract labor developed, earned a little money, the crazy up, the folks did not put in the eyes. Over the years, in the village to do some show off the "boss" thing, he returned home only one purpose a show of wealth. Every time he came back, like a bee attracting butterflies, far and near the neighbors of the buddies around the home, set up a few days of wine field, people do not leave the field does not disperse. In the village temple on a back incense can easily be a few thousand, meet the village outside the village of social fire, basketball team, square dance an effort to smash the money to "money big" pull popularity, to "smash the gold" brush sense of presence. The villagers, despite the tricks "big money" reward and sponsorship, but no one appreciate the "boss" of the love, but the heart of the resentment.