There is an old saying that it is difficult for mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law to get along with each other, and this saying also tells a fact from the side, that is, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship in marriage, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship has always been a difficult problem, even though the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is becoming more and more balanced, daughter-in-law's position in the family is increasing day by day, can be separated from her mother-in-law, but a lot of families are still there is serious mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war.
The role of the mother-in-law in the marriage is more and more non-existent, because young people have young people's way of life, nowadays the young people are particularly self, they do not allow others to dictate, however, there are many mothers-in-law do not know the reason, always like to interfere in the young people's life, the contradiction is so generated.
Nowadays, young people like to live separately from their mothers-in-law, and some of the new age mothers-in-law who have grown up after also choose not to live with the young people, because they want to have more time to enjoy the old age, they can go to the square dance can also go to play Tai Chi, in short, not to be involved in the young people is also a wise choice, the young people and the old people's lives are gradually separated from the old people, do not live together only to retain the necessary emotional communication, the new age mothers-in-law can not live in the old people's lives. The necessary emotional communication is retained, and it's good to come and go on New Year's holidays. Analyzed from these perspectives, the role of the mother-in-law gradually loses its status in the lives of young people, and also becomes more and more non-existent.
Thinking about it, I understand, if it is me may I get married and mother-in-law will not choose to live together, first of all, different ideas, 5 years on a generation gap, not to mention the difference of several decades, and secondly, the mother-in-law will always be to the husband, mother-in-law think daughter-in-law should be three from the four virtues of the husband, but now young people's marriage is not like this, most of the husbands are in the home cooking and cooking, so that the mother-in-law knows that the mother-in-law will not be able to do anything. The mother-in-law knows what's going on, so it's not good enough.
In summary, the role of the mother-in-law is becoming less and less important in this era.