Why does the old man value favors so much?
Although we are not old people yet, I still want to analyze it from the perspective of an old person
1. Loneliness and loneliness
The old man is old and has worked hard all his life. , at the end of life, there is no need to fight for anything anymore. Fame, fortune and everything are just floating clouds. I just want to enjoy the life in my later years. If the elderly do not cultivate some hobbies in their later years (playing cards, chess, squares, etc.) (Dancing, etc.) to pass the time, sometimes it is quite boring, so what they pursue is the enrichment of emotional life and hope for the company of others.
As people get older, young people go out to work. As old people get older, what they fear most is loneliness. Only children are close to them at home. Therefore, there is a saying of "rejuvenating the old". They will be as innocent as children, but their appearance is no longer glamorous. They are old and young, laughing and making trouble, and their lives are considered comfortable. When they are with children, they feel cheerful.
The most important thing for people living in this world is not only food, clothing, housing and transportation, but also getting along well with the people around them. Therefore, the older people are, the more they care about the emotions between people.
Second, the body is fading day by day and needs care
The old man is no longer young, his forehead is covered with wrinkles, his eyes are blurred, and his vision is also unclear. Gradually, the days They are getting more and more bored and rarely go out to play. Sometimes, there is nothing they can do. Even small actions such as pouring them a glass of water or helping them when walking are powerless. They need care and desire, both physically and mentally. However, today's young people are busy in various occasions and cannot care about the elderly when they are at work. They also have to take care of their children after get off work. They have no extra energy and free time. It seems that the care for the elderly is not spent on their children. Much.
As young people, we must be kind to the elderly no matter what, respect our elders, never forget our roots, understand the elderly more, and let them spend their old age peacefully.