Many older people like to dance, because square dancing can exercise, but also to communicate with other people. Many people will complain that their mothers-in-law only focus on square dancing, no intention to bring their grandchildren, then together to see how to effectively communicate with their mothers-in-law. 1, take the initiative to send gifts to please the mother-in-law ?
Since your mother-in-law likes to dance, you can take the initiative to pick out some square dance clothes and give them to your mother-in-law to show her that you support her. At this time you have to politely communicate with your mother-in-law, tell her that her grandchildren have no one to take care of them at home, and you are worried about the safety of your grandchildren every time you go to work, and this is when your mother-in-law will understand what you mean. 2, respect your mother-in-law, think differently
We also need to respect your mother-in-law's hobbies, and we should know that your mother-in-law is not taking your grandchildren for granted, and she is willing to help us to bring us should be grateful. So you can tell your mother-in-law that you can trouble your mother-in-law to help you with your grandchildren during working hours, and that you should not take your grandchildren to the square dance when the park is crowded and complicated, and that you can take over the children with your mother-in-law when you get off work in the evening, so that she can go out to the square dance in the evening. If you are afraid that your mother-in-law will be wrong, you can let your husband to communicate, after all, it is easier to communicate between mother and child, you do not have to be afraid of offending your mother-in-law. Your husband to communicate both to achieve the purpose, you do not have to offend the mother-in-law, two birds with one stone.
Everyone in the family has mutual respect, mutual understanding, and politely express their needs in order not to cause conflict. Smart women know how to skillfully resolve family conflicts, while stupid women will only cause conflicts, thus making the family full of quarrels.
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