I think probably every girl will be troubled that after they get married and integrate into another family will be a little awkward, do not know what to do.
And from ancient times mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts have not been broken, so I think this is a lot of girls have a headache. In the end, how should we solve the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, in the end, how should we get along with the mother-in-law?
First of all, I think you can never take your mother-in-law for granted what she does to you, and you can't think that you've become their nanny after marrying them, and then you don't take yourself seriously all the time.
I think you can't treat your mother-in-law as your own mother, because your mother-in-law you can say anything, you have any temper, you can just send out, at home you may be reckless, omnipotent, but as long as you have your mother-in-law's place, you must be a little bit of constraints, that is, you can't be too free to fly self.
Then in the place where there is your mother-in-law, you must not order your husband to do this and that you can not yell at him, because your husband, after all, is your mother-in-law painstakingly raised, so to see you scolding him will certainly be a little uncomfortable. And then you may have a particularly big conflict over something like this, so I think it's better to pay attention to this aspect.
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is really a particularly difficult thing to deal with, so I think you have to pay attention to it after you marry. Try to have any problems are communicated to solve, do not quarrel. Then no matter what you say, the tone and attitude try to be a little bit better, do not give people the feeling that you are particularly fierce, and then speak particularly difficult to hear.
It's not easy for a girl to leave her home, where she's lived for decades, and go to another family, where she has to integrate into their lives and follow their habits. I think this is still quite difficult, so I think all men should be a little bit better to their wives, because after all, she has made great sacrifices in order to be with you.