Two people met at 1988. After 20 years of love running, you have been married 13 years since your wedding in Bhutan in 2008, and their feelings are still very good.
On Tony Leung Chiu Wai's 58th birthday, Carina Lau also showed a video of Tony Leung Chiu Wai skateboarding, with smooth movements, like a "skateboarding boy". He also specially invited a bunch of friends to celebrate his birthday.
In the eyes of many people, the personalities of Tony Leung Chiu Wai and Carina Lau are like "ice and fire". Tony Leung Chiu Wai concentrates on acting and is quiet when not acting. Carina Lau's personality is a little impatient, and he likes to join in the fun.
Tony Leung Chiu Wai doesn't like socializing. When not filming, he likes to stay at home. When he is unhappy, he will run to the square to feed the pigeons. Life trivia and social interaction are all handled by Carina Lau.
They have been together for more than 30 years, but unfortunately they have no children so far. Carina Lau also admitted in an interview that he had given up the idea of having children long ago, and made this decision because Tony Leung Chiu Wai didn't want to have children.
Although Tony Leung Chiu Wai doesn't like excitement, he has always been very keen on Carina Lau. I often choose gifts for Carina Lau, but every time I give a gift, I have to pay a little attention.
He likes to hide his talent and let Carina Lau discover it himself. This little romance still exists after many years of marriage. No wonder Carina Lau is so tolerant of Tony Leung Chiu Wai's willfulness.
Even if Tony Leung Chiu Wai doesn't want children, he will not hesitate to respect his choice.
Carina Lau is 55 years old now, and she is past the age of having children. She once said frankly in an interview: "I have given up the idea of having children. The reason for making this decision is because Tony Leung Chiu Wai doesn't want children. "
Out of a sense of family responsibility, Tony Leung Chiu Wai chose not to have children and became a "Dink". As the only child in the family, he needs to take care of his mother, sister and lover Carina Lau.
1990, Carina Lau was kidnapped, which was a great blow to her. At that time, Tony Leung Chiu Wai cancelled the engagement and stayed with Carina Lau all the time, which became her most solid backing.
Tony Leung Chiu Wai once said, "I can't take care of more people. There is a little thing in Ling Chia. I'm already worried. What should I do if my child is me? "
This should be Tony Leung Chiu Wai's special love for Carina Lau. Now, two people still have the same feelings and live happily. Perhaps "Dink" is the most suitable lifestyle for them!
"Getting married and having children" is the most common way of life, but with the development of multiculturalism, many young people begin to accept new ways of life, and "Dink" is one of them.
Many people don't agree with Dink's lifestyle and think that children are the continuation of their own blood. If there are no children, what about the future pension problem?
And many people think that when you choose to be a DINK when you are young, you will regret it when you are old.
"Dink" lifestyle is contrary to the traditional "three unfilial, no great future". I think this kind of people covet their own enjoyment and are unwilling to bear the responsibility of raising a baby.
However, many people choose to be "Dink" precisely because they want to be responsible for their children's future and feel that they can't give them better education and living conditions, so they choose not to have children.
Although Dink doesn't have his own children, he also has his own plans for his parents' pension. He doesn't need to bother his parents to help him with his children, so that his parents can enjoy their old age better after retirement.
A distant cousin of mine chose Dink's lifestyle. She lives in Beijing with her brother-in-law, and her life is very stressful. She doesn't want her children to suffer with her.
My parents were very opposed to it. Every time I go home for the New Year, my cousin is "nervous". Later, I found that I couldn't convince them, so I left with them.
Cousin's parents have no burden to take care of the baby. For example, life now is also very chic, dancing in square dance, having nothing to travel, and retirement life is also quite chic.
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