Now, college students fall in love problem is a serious unavoidable reality, in the young men and women gathered within the university, college students fall in love is a common natural phenomenon, including self-study, meals, walks, etc. will see, then, why college students fall in love? The Campus Culture Department of Zero Investigation Association of China Academy of Weights and Measures carried out a survey on "About College Students' View of Love", which statistically concluded that 36.8% of college students are in love, of which 22.8% of freshmen, 36.6% of sophomores, 46.3% of juniors, and 52.6% of seniors are in love. Among them, 4.8% of college students are trendy and driven by herd mentality; 23.9% of college students have strong emotional needs in order to find spiritual support; 33.7% of college students have strong desire for the opposite sex because of physiological maturity; 31.2% of college students are influenced by the social environment; and 6.4% of college students are from other aspects. However, the completion of studies is the responsibility and mission given by the society to the college students in school, the students' vocation is to study, and it is also the condition for the college students to go to the society to fulfill their life.
What effect does love have on college students, this one is a controversial issue, but most of them believe that there can be three points of view: the first one is the power theory, which believes that there are more advantages than disadvantages, and that love can generate motivation, stimulate human potential, promote learning, cultivate emotions, and enrich the spiritual life; the second is the resistance theory, which believes that there are more disadvantages than advantages, and that college students are blind to love, and they can't freely manage love, which is prone to unstable emotions. Love, easy to appear unstable emotions, self-seeking trouble, at the same time, the university stage of learning tension, time is limited, that will consume energy, hinder learning, is not conducive to the overall development; the third is the theory of balance, that the pros and cons are balanced, college students love is the advantages and disadvantages of different people, generally favorable and unfavorable. In the life of college students, there are some people because of love and get the motivation to study, it is because they love relationship properly; there are some people because of love relationship is not properly dealt with and affects the study, and there are even some people because of this and make suicide things.
In fact, I think for college students, love is only a part of life, can find their love in college, and can be down to earth for life and struggle, it is only completed a problem in life, the more important is their own life after the problem. However, not every college student's love is so beautiful and wise, some people's self-control is poor, did not focus on the study of the struggle, all day for love and nonsense, such love is not only harmful to others, more importantly, their own ruined their lives. College students face the choice of love to distinguish between true and false, do not see flowers in the fog, should always put their own life in the first position, always keep a clear head, now seize the time to study well, otherwise wait until the future nothing is accomplished when said nothing. University is a person to face the society, the last lesson into the society, I once heard a teacher said, the university is half of the society, in the university not only can learn knowledge and skills, more importantly, you can understand the society, the future to do the preparation. I think if you take this last class well, it will be better for your future, career and life, so don't take it lightly. College has a big impact on a person's life and can even change it.
Life is composed of different parts, love is just a part of life, there are some people tend to put the cart before the horse, take love as the whole of life, put all the energy on love. In fact, life is everywhere in the scenery, when one's life is successful, love is also just one of the beautiful scenery.
I don't object to college students looking for their own love during their college studies, but college students looking for love should understand the meaning of love, recognize the nature of love, understand the basis of love, and correct the position of love in life, and correctly deal with the relationship between love and their own lives. College students should put their studies in the first place. Only by correctly handling the relationship between love and study can the power of love become a driving force to promote study, and the success of study will consolidate and develop love, and more importantly, it can lay a good foundation for one's own life. In short, love is a part of life, but it will not become the whole of the college students, the power of love for their own learning motivation, that will be beneficial to both sides.
On the contrary, there are some college students whose concept of love is clearer and puts their own life in the first place. Although I don't object to college students looking for their own love during their study period, I think it's better for college students to choose such a practice. The green fruit picked in advance, that will only taste its sourness; overdrawn life, the flower of life will only wither prematurely. Love needs to mature period, college students should be sensible to think about this issue - to put their own life in the first place, and reasonably choose their own love time: to the psychological development of relative maturity or outlook on life is relatively stable; or social experience is relatively rich and independent of the economy; and also wait until the completion of their own studies! The reason for this is that love is an important topic that every college student has to go through sooner or later in his or her life, and the right time for love is also very important for every college student.
Everyone's view of love is a matter of opinion. As a college student in the prime of life, he or she should focus mainly on study and give priority to his or her studies, and love should be subordinate to studies, so that he or she can blossom into a beautiful flower. In the development of science, Mr. and Mrs. Curie, the two great scientists y in love with each other, but they are more enthusiastic about science, the sincere love between them and the loyalty of science together, resulting in a brilliant scientific flower - radium. Mr. and Mrs. Curie's achievements in the cause, can not be separated from their *** with the pursuit of the cause and struggle, they put their own life in the first place, the first life after love, which more laid the foundation of their sincere love.
In short, college students only know love and life, understand love and life, learn love and life, first life after love, that can make life more full, rich, wonderful and meaningful.