In the commodity economy society, there is a certain gap between the rich and the poor. People’s blind comparison has caused many people to feel psychologically unbalanced. The material living standards of the Chinese people have improved, but some people have not. In order to achieve a sense of happiness and happiness, contentment has become a spoken word of many people. As everyone knows, contentment and constant happiness are a kind of ideological realm in life, and it is also a way of life pursued by people with quality. This means that contentment and constant happiness need to be guaranteed by people’s quality. For those who do not have ideological realm and quality, People can only talk what they say, and what they know and what they do are inconsistent. Even if they say they can't do it, they still live very tiredly. So, how can we achieve contentment and happiness? The following four points must be achieved:
1. Only an indifferent and peaceful mentality can be content
People live in real life, especially in this era of many temptations, most people's mood He is very impetuous and likes to compare with others, such as salary, food and drink, and fun. Every comparison reveals a psychological imbalance, which makes life very tiring and miserable. These are all problems caused by comparison. Confucius said: A gentleman acts according to his position and does not want to be outside of it. When he is rich, he acts like a rich man; when he is born poor, he acts like a poor person. This means that a gentleman is content with his current position and does what he should do, and does not envy other things. When he is in a wealthy position, he does what he should do when he is rich. When he is in a poor position, he does what he should do when he is poor and humble. things. In this way, people will not complain, they will be proud and contented, and there will be less distress and worries. Being a human being requires an indifferent and peaceful mind. With such a mentality, you can be yourself, do your own things well, walk your own path, and live your own happiness and joy. This is the mentality of contentment. Life.
2. Only a simple life
2. Only a simple lifestyle can lead to contentment
The material living standards of modern society have improved, and people are busy making money. Busy with their own survival, living in the frequency of fast-paced life all day long, some people are busy socializing and socializing all day long, which makes life lose the original meaning of life pursuit, but it is difficult to change your habits. To change, you have to use A simple life is the only way to replace this busy socializing and communication. People are like this. They pay too much attention to material life and the external content of life. People live tiredly, live without themselves, and live for others to see. Yes, this is unsatisfactory. For example, if you live in a small house and want to upgrade to a larger one; if you have a small car and want to upgrade to a luxurious one, your material desires are getting bigger and bigger, and it is difficult to be satisfied. You can only use a simple lifestyle to subtract from your life. No matter how luxurious the bed is, it is just for living. For sleeping; no matter how splendid the house is, it is only for living in; eating delicacies from the mountains and seas every day is not good for your health. Therefore, a simple lifestyle can not only save money, but also make people healthy physically and mentally, and also make people contented. Why not Why?
3. Only by pursuing spiritual enjoyment can one be happy
Human enjoyment requires both material life and spiritual pursuit. To a certain extent, a person can only live a spiritual life after having enough food and clothing. It is greater than material life. People always need spiritual pursuits. Only spiritual happiness can make people feel relaxed and happy, and feel the beauty of life and the happiness of life from the heart. God has given everyone 24 hours in a day, which is fair. In fact, 24 hours in a day, except for a few hours of work, busy daily life and sleep, most of people's time should be used for spiritual enjoyment and pursuit. It can be seen that , the importance of spiritual enjoyment to life. In real life, truly happy people are those who pursue spiritual enjoyment, whether they are cultivated in singing and dancing, or obsessed with the enjoyment of music, chess, calligraphy and painting. With such spiritual pursuits, they can not only enrich their lives, but also Elevate the taste of life, enhance spiritual realm, and improve character. This is the happiest person in the world and a person who is always happy.
Four. Only those who struggle and work hard
Four. Only those who work hard and actively can live a happy life
It is not easy for people to come to this world. Now that they are here, they will be happy. To live well and live freely, you must establish your ideals in life and establish the goals of your life. Once you have your ideals and goals, you must work hard and fight. The happiness of life requires both results and process. Successful people are happy. In the process of struggle, whether it is success or failure, it is an experience in the life of the struggler. These are happy, enterprising, positive, and meaningful lives. If a person does not struggle and work hard, there is no hope. , Without goals, such a life is as terrible as without sunshine, without vitality, and without a future. In this way, life has only negativity, no positivity; only complaints, and no permanent happiness. Life needs constant joy, which lies in the fact that the party is always happy in the struggle, and always happy in the struggle. In this way, the sun is new every day, and the hearts of the strivers are full of sunshine and hope, and they live happily and more happily.
Emond once said: "Life is not a feast of material things, but a cultivation of the soul." In modern society, for everyone, material enjoyment is not the whole meaning of life, let alone life. The ultimate goal, the pursuit of spiritual enjoyment is the essence and original meaning of life. If a person wants to be content and happy, he must be less blindly compared and focus more on being himself; he must have less material enjoyment and more spiritual pursuits. Only in this way can he maintain tranquility, not forget his original intention, and be content and happy!