I was simply amazed that a single girl, fighting like this in an unfamiliar city, felt that she did not want to die.
This good friend, is my internship when I met, we two are the same hometown, so we are extraordinarily cordial, she has a very good character, very good at taking care of people.
She grew up in a bad home, her parents are not much culture, rely on odd jobs hard to put her to the university. During college, she has learned how to make money. She said that at that time she vowed to bring her parents to the big city to live, to buy them good food, good clothes, but also to take them to see the world!
In order to this dream, she got up earlier than anyone else, slept later than anyone else, studied the products carefully every day, grasped how to handle customers, how to make customers satisfied, how to increase the repurchase rate ...,
In this way, by hard work and sincerity, her team's sales rose miserably, and she was the champion of the sales every quarter. Soon she was promoted to the post of deputy general manager of the sales department, let the people around her envy and jealousy for a long time. When her career was going well, she unexpectedly quit her job! The reason was that she wanted to start her own business! Many of her coworkers secretly rumored that after she left the company's big tree, she would surely be drowned in the sea of business, and they were waiting to see her jokes.
When her first business failed, she cried hard. When the tears have not been wiped clean, she decisively started the second business, with amazing speed again in people's eyes. Watching her busy day and night, I was ashamed! It was very disturbing! I was still struggling with what to eat for breakfast when she was already on her way to taking her parents to see the world!
When most people are doing nothing, spinning in the mire of life, there are still a small number of people who are constantly breaking through and taking action to defend their original dream! Perhaps you may say, she is young, well read, the body can carry, you can not, a handful of old bones also tossed out a bit of fame.
Is this really the case?
My sister-in-law, 43 years old this year, in our local state-owned enterprises as executives, annual salary is quite high, is the pride of our family. We often communicate with each other on the phone, often give me to talk about her side of things, people around me, on my outlook on life has a great impact. Not long ago, my sister-in-law called me to ask me, she is going to be ready to practice writing, asked me to support her not! Ah? ...It turned out that this decision of hers was strongly opposed by her family. Every day after work, as soon as she got home, she went into her house, never leaving the house, not visiting friends and relatives, and not chasing dramas and making food! Non-stop reading and learning, and recently bought a course online, just like a student as a class, hand in homework, every day to adhere to the punch card, this toss, the family looked at the heartache ah, at first thought that the sister-in-law at best look at the book, we did not care so much, and then look at her riveting enough strength to take it seriously, hard to bite the words. It is very much against, are more than 40 years old, which still have the same energy as young people, which can still stay up at night, blind toss what ah, when the body do not want it?
My heart was actually shocked when I asked my sister-in-law why she wanted to write. She said excitedly, "I'm already in my 40s, and I feel that life is boring and uneasy, and the young people around me are always jumping around in front of my eyes, and I feel that I'm going to be eliminated from society! I can't just stay up until I retire and then bring up my grandchildren or square dance with a bunch of old ladies! I don't want to live like this!"
We talked a lot and I really admired my sister-in-law for having such courage!
My sister-in-law has been infrequent to call me, and when she was on the phone again, she excitedly told me what she had learned, which big shot she had met, and how she was ....... Between the words, I could see the smile spreading on her face and the light shining in her eyes.
This reminds me of a sentence I saw in my circle of friends: dreams really have nothing to do with age, only you are willing, when to start is not too late!
We are all ordinary people, all our lives in the melting pot of society floating, stumbling, always hoping that someone to pull us a hand, why? Those who can really realize their dreams, is to rely on step by step down-to-earth out of the road to success, there have eaten countless bitter, stayed up countless nights, have suffered countless hostility and ridicule, there is the family's lack of understanding, in the experience of countless strikes, but also insisted on proving themselves with action, so that people that is respectable, but also lovely!