This question reminds me of the "Greenland" incident some time ago.
The woman cheated on the executive, and after obtaining the promise of 30 million dollars, not only do not feel ashamed, on the contrary, also particularly comfortable to share with their husbands the whole process of their own derailment, including her and the third party to get along with some of the details.
This is the first time I've ever seen a woman who has been in a relationship with her husband. Either the woman is really stupid, or the woman is ready for divorce. Just like the Greenland event you protagonist, she stupid? A returnee's minimum judgment is still there, just by the interests of the blindfolded. When she has greed in her heart, she is often blinded. If the woman is not really stupid, cheating also took the initiative to tell their husbands, then there is only one reason: she is ready for divorce. Everyone knows that cheating is the bottom line of marriage, but all men/women who cheat will try to hide the fact of cheating until the moment when the paper can't hold fire. The first thing you need to do is to take the initiative to confess to your significant other, and then be prepared for the outcome of the confession. Most couples end up divorced, and the marriages that don't are languishing, waiting for the day when they can't take it anymore. There are very few people who truly haven't forgiven their betrayed wives or husbands. These people, either do not care about each other, so do not care whether the other cheated. Either they are not ready for divorce and choose to make do with what they have. Since she knows the result of the confession, still honest, it means that she has long cared about the possible results. Because you know that cheating is destructive to a marriage, even if you want to get back on track, you'll have to come clean as a last resort, such as when you're forced by your lover to get a divorce and you don't want to get a divorce. Wife cheating also told her husband is what psychological? The fact is, there is nothing, just want to return to the family. I'll talk about my situation as a person who has been there. Since I dare to say here, I am not afraid to spray, in fact, cheating is not what the flood beast, too common. My husband is a construction project engineer, often traveling in the field, and I do room service in a hotel in Shenzhen, 8:00 a.m. every day to work, 4:00 p.m. from work, after work back to the dormitory to sleep, wake up to get some food, go to the square square dancing. Once, after dancing to the market to buy fruit, was about to buy a single, was told by the boss has paid, fruit boss smiled and pointed to a person handsome man. It looks like, quite handsome, should be a lot smaller than me. I'm really embarrassed, pull out money to him, he did not accept, plus his WeChat transfer, he confiscated, said I was a fan, especially like to see me dance. In this way, from strangers to familiar, no defense I was attacked by him, the first time, I feel sorry for my husband, I once wanted to cut off, but then the ghosts and he was together. He and I secretly lived together in Shenzhen for 3 years, and in 2019 in my son in Chengdu to get married, my husband's project in Guangdong is also basically completed, my husband and I went back to our hometown, and he was deleted. After organizing my son's wedding, I confessed to my husband the secret hidden in my heart, I said that now my son has become a family, I am sorry for you, we divorce. I did not expect my husband not only did not blame me, but also forgave me, he said, before accompanying me too little, he was alone when he went out and had a fling, and will not let me alone again. That night, we seemed to return to the first love. The above is the authorization of the pro-life authorization of the Jing Yue finishing release, the name of the main character is hidden. Quiet moon talk you know: Perhaps, in the cognition of most people, only white-collar, elite will be spiritually empty, will be derailed, and the fact that the opposite, white-collar elites derailed the cost of higher, such as a period of time in the event of the Greenland and the president of the Mrs. what. In fact, not much, and ordinary people derailed a lot, just more secretive, no one knows just. People are not sages who can not be fault, turn back in time, but also self-redemption, if there is still affection between husband and wife in the return to the family may be the best choice. What do you think? (END) Wife derailment also told her husband is what mentality? I think there are at least three reasons. The first is the reason for wanting to divorce. The relationship between husband and wife is not good ah, the husband does not work, do not treat themselves well, but he does not want to divorce, his wife really feel that the days can not go on, no choice but to expose themselves to the short, say their own cheating past, with cuckolds in order to force their husbands to agree to divorce with her. The second reason for apologizing. Hubby is very good to himself, love and care for himself in every way, whether at home, or outside the home, he spoiled himself into a baby. And they are because of a certain capriciousness or other reasons, resulting in a derailment. Husband to their own more good, their own sense of apology to their husbands the heavier, in the long run, the wife deep inside the pressure will also he more and more heavy, this burden finally can not carry. She had to tell her husband, hoping that he could forgive himself for a moment of confusion. The third reason for revenge. The husband is out there all day long hooking up with three, the wife repeatedly persuade ineffective. The first is that it is not a good idea to have a good time, but it is a good idea to have a good time. The wife was so angry that she decided to return the favor and let him pay for the feeling of being a cuckold. Just like Song Dandan derailed after the year, immediately called Yingda, told him that he also derailed. So, she also through the Internet chat, met a man, and finally also successfully cheated. After cheating, as soon as she got home, she told his husband. It's all about revenge, it's all about seeing how the husband feels when he knows his wife is cheating on him. So, men want their wives do not derail, first of all, they have to be clean, and also mutual tolerance, otherwise, nowadays, the social temptation is so much, it is difficult for women to do from one to the faithful. Friends if you also agree with my point of view, please pay attention to the comments Oh ...... Oh, really huh! Wife derailed, but also told her husband, there are two possibilities. The first one: is to drink drunk, drunkenness. The second kind: this kind of day can not live, they have been derailed, you look at it? Really masterful! This woman is derailed within marriage. Even if she how to look away, after all, is a kind of privacy, and not yet divorced, should be avoided, is also taboo. It did not occur to me that she told her husband. Then there is a possibility that she is drunk on alcohol, and the matter of her own derailment is not hidden from her husband, because of the wine and spit out the truth! Then this wine drink more, the trouble came. Ask: which man is willing to plant grass on the head? It should be that this woman does not want to live with her husband, and once proposed to divorce, but her husband did not agree. So the woman took action. Tell her husband about her cheating. In this way, the woman gets the divorce she wants! Because, she thinks a man can't be easy on his wife for cheating on him. Really in order to achieve the goal, to the point of unscrupulous!!!!
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This question is thrilling and magical.
The wife cheated and did not avoid, or intentionally or unintentionally told her husband, is generally so several cases.
First, she wants to see a man dying for her.Generally speaking, she is likely to be a more bewitching and sentimental woman, and very often able to rely on their own bad and strange means to clean up the man to be obedient - if she told you that she cheated on you, although you will make a fuss for a while, pain for a while, but in the end, you still settled down, and you "Forgive" her, and love her more than ever, you fear that she cheated again, so you want to use your better "good" to keep her. Then at this time, she is very proud and satisfied in her heart, which shows that she can eat a man to death, and this man is you.
There are some infatuated men also really will be such a woman to play, and finally not only forgive her, and love more than ever ...... This is the tragedy of men ah.
Second, if she gave you the initiative to talk about their own derailment, it is most likely to want to showdown with you.
In general, if the life with you and you still love and cherish, even if the real derailment, she will hide you to death, even if occasionally found by you, she will also be extremely negative, if the ultimate negative can not be said, then she will confess to you, said that from now on to change the past, and then completely disconnected from the object of derailment, QQ ah WeChat ah all the contact information are deleted.
Then if, on the contrary, she took the initiative to start giving you this thing, that is, she has loved the cheating object than you, and often can not always get together for the bitter, finally unbearable, to take this miserable fact to hit you, and then let you angry, the more the two more open, the more the more understand, and then split.
Third, if it is not the above two situations, then it is another more complex, sounds a little weird situation, she derailed and told you that she derailed, it is likely that she is in love with you.Derailment of this matter, if you look at the simple point, a "bad" word on the total child, but if you analyze the deeper words, she derailed for a reason, generally her emotional and certain aspects of the needs of the failure to get your attention and attention. She cheated and then told you about it, may be to stimulate you do not live to treat her, she hoped to attract your attention, in order to trigger your "possessiveness" and "love". In this case, the good outcome is that you are reasonable and understand this level, and you still love her, and then she got what she wanted, and then your life on a new track.
Which is the case, but also to be analyzed specifically.
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Because I love my husband too much, so I told him, I did not expect him to react so much, if I had known, I would not have said.
It was when the child was still small, I was alone with the child, but also to serve my mother-in-law, who is a frail and sickly old man, can not do anything, every day the greatest joy is to move a small bench to the outside sun.
I sympathize with her, she suffered a lot when she was young, was scolded by her husband, then she and her husband divorced, and raised the children alone, as a woman without a job is so difficult, heavy work dirty work have done, the body is exhausted, fell sick, waist can not straighten up.
My husband and I just met, is to see him can suffer, understand, understanding, and husband after marriage and children, husband in order to make more money, go to the big city to work, leaving us orphans and widows.Home things, are my own to get, once, the child had a disease, the whole body is too hot to touch, in the middle of the night, I was anxious to cry, to my husband called him to ask what to do? He called one of his buddies to pick up my child to the hospital.
10 minutes after the car arrived, we went to the hospital, he ran upstairs and downstairs to help a lot of help, so I was very upset.
After being discharged from the hospital, I made a meal at home, invited him once, after that, he came to see from time to time, to see what help is needed, once the TV broke down, told him, he rushed right away, he is the repair of electrical appliances, very good at it.
After that, we are more and more familiar with that year's Mid-Autumn Festival, the home lights suddenly did not light up, they get half a day can not get, then call him and tell him, he immediately rushed to, and soon found out where the fault is, in order to thank him, I gave him tea, fruit, busy, he said to take a break, gave me a cup of tea.
Then the mouth is very thirsty, picked up on the drink, who know drink down after the head dizzy, can not distinguish between north and south-east, fell asleep on the couch, woke up, only to realize that the man was violated.
He has been gone, I cried and told my husband about it, he rushed back overnight, his eyes red, ready to explode, I hugged him, begging him not to do something out of reason.
Later, he asked that friend out, the two had a good talk, when I left, I saw my husband that friend limped away, and from then on broke the friendship.
A month later, my husband also took me to the city, my husband still love me as in the past, never mentioned it again, we live together in that city.
Now our family is in that city, and our children go to school in that city, I still love my husband, and we are still very happy.
(This is a good friend of mine told me her own story)
Wife to their own derailment, tell her husband, it takes a lot of courage, she cares about her husband, do not want to hide her husband, and do all kinds of preparations, if her husband really love her, is the original cool.
If the wife is not willing to tell her husband about their own derailment, and even hide it from her husband, their relationship is in danger, mutual trust, mutual honesty, is a husband and wife must do, otherwise, the two are very easy to produce problems between them.One of the most intolerable things between husband and wife is "betrayal". Wife "cheating" not only do not feel ashamed, but also told their husbands with a big grin, "You know what? I've been with another man on the good". As the saying goes, "kill but head point ground", two people in the end how much hatred between them to do this kind of mutual harm to the thing. From a certain point of view, the woman's behavior is really sinister or even "his heart can be put to death". After hearing his wife tell the truth, as a man's inner pain can be imagined. The next thing I'm afraid of is divorce and division of property.
We can not help but ask, in the end, what causes this woman in the betrayal of their husbands, but also have the courage to tell their husbands, is the woman really no shame, really not afraid of their husbands in the hear the news after the outbreak of beating her? Some things really are extremely fearful. Let's analyze it.
1, the woman with "derailment" to get rid of the marriage, to achieve their own certain purposes.
We say that in a married family, if either spouse is tired of the current married life. It is possible to ask for a divorce in a fair and square manner. Perhaps for some reason the woman is tired of the marriage and has asked the man for a divorce. It may have gone unanswered and that's why she did it. The purpose is to get rid of and end the marriage.
2, naked "revenge" behavior
There are a lot of marital families due to some reasons lead to the husband and wife do not get along, this time the man is very easy to "extramarital affair". This may be the case in this family. The man first betrayed his wife, in the case of being found and discouraged by his wife to continue to do what I do. After a long time, the wife is under too much psychological pressure for a long time. In the case of losing her mind in order to vent or to revenge, so also made this kind of hurtful behavior. And also confessed to his husband. The purpose is to let him also try to this kind of betrayal by their favorite person's taste.
Finally, my personal advice is that, no matter what happened between you and your husband, you really can't live with it and want to divorce, after all, is a husband and wife a try to do a good job. Don't vent your frustration and make yourself and everyone else unforgivable. Well, that's it. I hope my answer can help you, thank you.
The mentality of wanting to take a beating, the mentality of wanting to net out.
Telling her husband is to let him know that there are other people of the opposite sex who like her besides her husband, proving that she is still a woman with merits and charisma.
There is also the fact that he wants her husband to be jealous, to be able to care about her, maybe her husband has hurt her in some way, you are not good for me, there will be someone who is good for me, derailment is the result of cumulative disappointment.
And she was able to tell her husband that she cheated on him, but also a provocation, that she was not willing to lie to him, but also did not want to live a good life with him, to continue to live the initiative to her husband. See his husband can not use the actual action to salvage
But I think at least she is a daring person, did not choose to deceive her husband, also shows that she is a person with no heart, just want to prove a problem, to prove that there are still people willing to be good to him, so that her husband has hurt her husband's heart is difficult to count on a kind of revenge it.
Wife cheating still have to tell her husband, from the psychological state of people to analyze the words, there are the following kinds of cases:
1. Generally speaking, the cheating party must be as far as possible to hide the fact that they are cheating. Therefore, it is normal to hide the truth and abnormal to tell the truth.
2. Children and teenagers have a mentality of showing off that they have better toys, or external material things. This can be effective in boosting children's need for high self-esteem. Adults are not supposed to need to boost their high self-esteem by showing off, so the psychological age of such a woman is a pre-teen state.
3. If the woman's mental age is mature, it means that the woman's subject and object are indistinguishable. In other words, there is not enough wisdom. Only care about their own feelings, do not take into account the changes in the situation, as the person who got off the bus at the Badaling Safari Park. You can figure out who you are, but you can't figure out who your opponent is?
Therefore, the feelings and needs of such a woman are related. If you can meet the needs, you have feelings. If you can't fulfill the needs, you don't have feelings.
4. In terms of ability, the ability of such a woman to deal with team relationships is very weak. Basically, she is the one who is mobilized, not the one who mobilizes others. That means she is weak in controlling situations and, as a result, often does things that are incomprehensible.
Conclusion, the woman cheated and dealt with it in a counter-conventional way. It may seem like it is very frank, however, it just shows that this person has a great deal of psychological trauma in the course of his life, which is what led to this person, who is accustomed to dealing with relationships in a destructive way.