When you see this lyric, do you have a melody in your mind?
In the 1990s, a song "The Tracker's Love" was sung all over the streets and was a smash hit.
Singer Yin is also famous for this single.
But the female lead singer of this song is not well known. Out of the public eye, she is quietly doing something more meaningful.
In 2003, she was the first literary and art worker in the entertainment circle to enter the SARS isolation area as a mourner; In 2008, she was the first military singer to walk into the "Wenchuan" disaster area to offer condolences.
She is Yu Wenhua, a famous soprano.
You may not be familiar with her name, but you must have heard her songs.
Her works are more popular than others, which is her rare initial intention as an artist.
Yu Wenhua is a national first-class actor and a famous military singer. People praised her for "embroidering with voice".
She always shines when performing. The gripping singing and expressive interpretation make people feel as if she was born on the stage.
But in fact, it was this step on the stage. She walked for a long time and worked hard. Behind all the glamour, there is unknown sadness.
When people live in this world, they will suffer.
Yu Wenhua is the youngest daughter in 1965. When she was born, her father was sixty years old. My family was poor when I was a child. The family can only make a living by farming and eat by the weather.
In her article My Father and Mother, there is such a description:
"I was born in an ordinary rural area in Hebei, and I have been a farmer for generations. The father's family is too poor to marry a daughter-in-law, and only the last father of the brother can marry a daughter-in-law. "
At that time, the family was too poor to buy snacks. When the father felt sorry for his little daughter, he would pick up some leftover apricot stones.
He always breaks the almond carefully, takes out the whole almond, soaks it in water to remove the bitterness, and then gives it to his daughter.
Her father hasn't been with her for a long time, and this little story between father and daughter is her exclusive memory.
Bitter almond is a sweet fatherly love.
In junior high school, the teacher asked each student to buy a pair of blue acrylic sweatpants.
Mom didn't say a word after listening, just staring at the corner.
Seeing her mother's blank expression, Yu Wenhua knew that the family could not afford the money.
Later, my mother borrowed money from a neighbor's house.
Yu Wenhua took a handful of money from his mother and ran to the supply and marketing cooperatives, only to find that:
With crumpled change and a steel shovel in her hand, she still can't afford a pair of four-dollar sweatpants.
Yu Wenhua said it was the first time she had tasted bitterness. But instead of crying, complaining or even feeling embarrassed, she suddenly understood her mother. She wrote:
"At this moment, I grew up, which is the beginning of my real understanding."
People's growth always happens in an instant.
From that day on, at an early age, Yu Wenhua began to study hard and vowed to find a way out for himself and his family.
Singing and studying have become her most important things. At the age of seventeen, she was admitted to Hebei Art School as she wished.
In the days of art school, Yu Wenhua's life is still very difficult. She can only afford the cheapest food in the canteen and has no money to buy decent clothes. Because of being shabby, I am often laughed at by some students.
At the most sensitive age of a girl, she silently endured all this and learned to be strong. She firmly believes that:
There is no obstacle in the world, as long as you get through it, it is light.
In the past three years, Yu Wenhua studied hard and finally got into China Conservatory of Music. After graduation, she successfully entered the Central Song and Dance Troupe, and her life became different.
Every test arranged by fate must have its reason. People just do what they have to do, and God has his own limits.
As someone said:
After different degrees of exercise, a person can obtain different degrees of self-cultivation and different degrees of benefits. Just like spices, the finer they are, the stronger the fragrance.
On the road of pursuing music, Yu Wenhua also gained love.
From 65438 to 0995, she married her first husband, music producer Fan Li.
The classic works "The Tracker's Love" and "It's windy and rainy with the sun in the sky" were written by Li Fan. The love between two immortal couples was once praised.
After a year of marriage, my daughter was born, and the family of three was happy.
Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. The marriage lasted only four years, and then it came to an end. Yu Wenhua, 34, became a single mother.
After all, divorce is a difficult decision for a woman, let alone at that time. During that time, she was once depressed, and it was reported that:
On the night of the divorce, Yu Wenhua had suicidal thoughts. If it weren't for her daughter, she might have left.
Bitterness and sweetness can be intertwined, which is the taste of life.
If life is unreasonable, no one can bargain with it Yu Wenhua has seen through this truth along the way.
She tidied up her emotions and went into battle light again. She always believes that as long as you bravely say goodbye to the past, life will reward you with a new beginning.
In this way, Yu Wenhua met her pianist.
At that time, the Internet was just emerging, and both of them experienced a romantic "online love". They know each other, but they are not familiar. In the process of chatting online, they only have a good impression on each other.
Later, Yu Wenhua got married again, marrying her pianist Mr. Li Nian.
He is always polite, modest and gentle, and loves Wenhua and his daughter. After marriage, Li Nian gave up his career and became his wife's agent to concentrate on Yu Wenhua's acting career.
Running around, Yu Wenhua finally found his own happiness.
People are most likely to give up when they are in a trough. Then tell yourself: in this life, that's it.
In fact, life is no different from mountain climbing. Only by climbing higher mountains can we embrace more beautiful scenery. After experiencing the trough, you can harvest a better time.
Wang Wei wrote in "My Retreat in Zhongnanshan":
Go to water poverty, and then sit and watch Yun Qi.
Don't give up easily, or you will regret your long-term efforts. When it's hard, stick to it and life will be different.
Yu Wenhua, who focuses on work and public welfare, almost never appears in entertainment news.
Only for a while, suddenly appeared her affair with Zhu Zhiwen, saying that they were "closely related and used each other".
The cause of the incident is a photo of two people. According to media reports, this photo was taken in Yu Wenhua's home. She took a photo with Zhu Zhiwen in her pajamas, and they were laughing happily.
Later, someone took out a photo of Yu Wenhua going to his hometown in Zhu Zhiwen.
But many times, what we see is only the appearance, not the truth.
Yu Wenhua is really infatuated with Zhu Zhiwen, but this is his talent and simplicity, which has nothing to do with romance.
In the public's impression, "Brother Clothes" became famous on the stage of "Avenue of Stars". The man who brought him to the stage on the Avenue of Stars is Mr. Yu Wenhua.
Without her, there would be no "big brother" today.
They are just a pure mentoring relationship. Even less well-known, it was her lover Li Nian who first recommended Zhu Zhiwen to Yu Wenhua.
Li Nian saw the video of Zhu Zhiwen singing on the Internet and thought it was good, so he recommended him to his wife.
Yu Wenhua was immediately moved by Zhu Zhiwen because of his singing and his rare simplicity and innocence. This kind of Zhu Zhiwen made Yu Wenhua see himself.
I grew up in the countryside, and I love singing. For them, Yu Wenhua knows best how difficult this road is.
In order not to let Zhu Zhiwen's talent be buried, she decided to help him realize his dream.
After communicating with the program group of "Avenue of Stars", Yu Wenhua went to Zhu Zhiwen's hometown with the staff, hoping to bring him to a bigger stage.
When preparing for the competition in Zhu Zhiwen, Mr. and Mrs. Yu Wenhua invited Zhu Zhiwen to their home, and Yu Wenhua personally taught him to sing. The photo that caused the misunderstanding was also taken at this time, when Li Nian was nearby.
She never cares about rumors. Yu Wenhua knows:
Life is your own, there is no need to explain anything to others.
She just lives her own life, and she is as happy as ever with her family, and the rumors are self-defeating.
What can't crush you will eventually make you stronger.
04
After a few years, I was sent to a hot search because of "heartbreak due to yin".
On 20 15, Yin was arrested and imprisoned twice for taking drugs. After being released from prison for the first time, he decided to turn over a new leaf.
As an old partner who debuted together, I trusted Yin very much and thought that he was kind in nature, but he just went the wrong way for a while.
Faced with negative news, he was avoided by many people, but he really wanted to help him out of the trough. She took Yin to public welfare activities and put in a good word for him in front of the media.
This kind of friendship is precious.
Unfortunately, four months later, he was jailed again for taking drugs.
This result made Yu Wenhua very disappointed. But she didn't say much, didn't complain, didn't slander, and in the face of media questioning, she just silently turned off her mobile phone.
To say that people are right or wrong must be right or wrong. Inner peace is a person's top luxury. Yu Wenhua, who has experienced many ups and downs, has already developed such a mentality.
Between square inches, there is heaven and earth.
Now Yu Wenhua still lives the simplest life.
She loves life, likes to accept new things and always keeps a curiosity about the world.
She opened an account in Tik Tok, sang to everyone when she was free, shared her performances before and after, and occasionally posted some daily life.
Sometimes, Yu Wenhua will connect with "Brother Tai" to sing for everyone during the live broadcast, bringing joy to more people. This is the confidence of an open-minded person.
Along the way, Yu Wenhua experienced a lot, just to live a quiet life in middle age.
The real power is to know the truth of life and love it.
Just like Pushkin's poem:
If life deceives you,
Don't be sad, don't be impatient!
You need to keep calm in blue days;
Believe it, happy days will come.
My heart always yearns for the future,
Now it is often melancholy:
Everything is instantaneous, and everything will pass;
And what has passed will become a kind of nostalgia.