According to the past tradition, it is normal for blind date men and women to have a meal together, and the bill is naturally the man's? Responsibility issues? . However, everything should be measured, especially in the serious and important matter of blind date. We must not act willfully. The man should show a decent atmosphere, and the woman should be diligent in housekeeping, even if it is not natural. Pretend? Show your image.
If you don't even want this image, just eat and drink, what's the difference between that and blackmail? If we know that this practice will attract disgust, why should we try it boldly? I think there is only one answer: take blind date as a cover and cheat to eat and drink is true!
First, listen to your mother and go on a blind date. Did the lady order? Run away? According to media reports, Xiao Chen, a member of a blind date platform in Ningbo, Zhejiang, complained to reporters that he was 32 years old and not married, so his family was very anxious. His mother went around looking for someone to blind his son. I didn't expect Xiao Yan, a friend and daughter who danced square dance together, to be single and a kindergarten teacher. My mother thought it was appropriate, so she asked Xiao Chen to meet her. Maybe this marriage will become a success.
Under the pressure of his mother, Xiao Chen had to have dinner with Xiao Yan. The location was chosen by Xiao Yanxuan, a relatively advanced Japanese food store.
In order to make a good impression on women, Xiao Chen arrived at the appointment place in advance. As he sat down, Xiao Yan was a little scared, thinking that the consumption here was definitely not cheap, and no one could stop it, but on second thought, this kind of consumption was acceptable when we met for the first time.
After waiting for more than half an hour, the woman finally appeared. So Xiao Chen asked the lady to order very gentlemanly, and Xiao Yan was also very sophisticated and frank. After a while, she ordered a lot of dishes and didn't ask Xiao Chenxi if she liked it. Xiao Chen vaguely felt that this big meal might exceed expectations.
Second,? Celebrity? Style photos were staged, and after the first round of food girlfriends had fun on the same stage, Xiaoyan began to take photos with her mobile phone. Is this reminiscent of Shanghai? Celebrity? Fighting for a single group, all efforts are for that photo. It may be more important to take photos in a circle of friends than to find love.
Because what happened next proved that taking pictures was the key, because Xiaoyan was full after only two bites, but in fact, the food on the table hardly moved. Xiao Chen warned that there was a lot left, but this woman said she was losing weight.
Since it is to lose weight, why do you order so many dishes? Chen Xiao's heart was mixed and his expression became ugly, so the two became unusually silent and the atmosphere was very embarrassing. However, Xiao Yan, who witnessed this scene, quickly broke the silence, saying that he had a girlfriend nearby and wanted to call her and ask Chen Xiaozheng for advice.
Xiao Chen wants you to order so many dishes, so please come and have some more.
This time it came really fast, but this scene frightened Xiao Chen, not one girlfriend, but four girlfriends. Excited for a while, she started the second round of ordering food.
And repeat it? Celebrity? Xiao Chen looked shocked when Feng took pictures. How can this be a blind date? I am an outsider!
Finally, at the end of the dinner, Xiao Yan and his girl friends seem to have discovered the existence of Xiao Chen and asked Xiao Chen if he wanted to go to the bar for another drink. Chen Xiao had obvious resistance in his heart, so he shook his head to settle the bill.
3. Refusing to pay the full amount is sprayed? Wonderful? Anger blackened women and was praised. Xiao Chen found the bill stupid. A meal is nearly 5,000 yuan, which makes Xiao Yan feel very wronged. It was nothing to pay the bill, but the woman's behavior made him feel cheated. This is a big head. So I told the front desk of the hotel that when the girl came out to check out, she would transfer 1000 to Xiaoyan, which was regarded as AA system, regardless of the consequences of being vilified.
In the end, Xiao Yan gave a good spray, saying that Xiao Chen was a stingy and great man. Women have to pay for blind dates, but this time Xiao Chen hacked her and never saw her again. Although everyone in the square dance circle later knew about it, Xiao Chen said that she was cool and had no regrets.
Most netizens agree with Xiao Chen's practice, because this is obviously a fruitless date. Why waste people's money? Obviously, he came to blind date with an abnormal mentality. The man doesn't have to be a big head, it should be AA. Of course, some netizens think that the man is doing something wrong and should pay the bill anyway. Maybe women are testing men.
Fourth, cheating on eating, drinking and drinking on a blind date is not a case. In real life, there are many contradictions caused by blind date, eating and drinking, and spending money indiscriminately. Earlier, some media reported that the 29-year-old boy was very angry and left the scene directly when the woman took 23 relatives to dinner and the total consumption exceeded 20,000.
In the end, the man is only willing to pay more than 4000 yuan for two tables, and the rest will be borne by the woman. The woman explained that it was to test the man's mind, but I didn't expect it to be a test? Exposed? Yes
5. Love needs no test. Blind date should be learned first? Being a man? Only deserve to have love. Many people feel good about themselves and always want to test whether others are sincere or false, but in fact this is disgusting behavior. Everyone meets by chance and has never met before. Why test others?
As the saying goes, a friend of a gentleman is as light as water. The real blind date should be to look at your eyes and talk about your own thoughts. The point is not what to eat, but whether the other person is the one you want. If the material test is always considered in the process of blind date, how to judge whether there is fate? This kind of play is really not worth loving.
Conclusion Blind date is indeed a channel for many people to find love, but we must keep our eyes open. Some people are not meant to be loved in this life. Since you have chosen a blind date, you should be more pragmatic, more sincere and less routine. Why do you know that you have become a big head and still can't slip away? It's meaningless to be sprayed!
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