Some data show that the divorce rate is rising while the marriage rate is falling. Combined with some of the situation of friends around, Della believes that divorce may be mainly due to the following reasons:
1. Social factors. With the status of women becoming more and more important, the sense of independence is constantly being awakened, women are no longer like the ancient times, three from the four virtues, submissive, they have more choices, within their own acceptable cost of divorce, divorce is also more and more tolerated by society. From this point of view, divorce reflects a certain degree of independence and bravery of modern women, dare to jump out of the comfort zone, pay more attention to inner feelings and self-development, can be said to be a good thing.
2. Couple relationship. Couple is the core of a small family, if a marriage towards the end, the biggest reason is definitely on both sides of the couple. Before marriage to you a variety of pursuit, extremely pampered, so that many girls mistakenly think that after marriage can also be happy and sweet, and grow old together. But the determination of the marriage relationship, the family other relationships and things are also quietly changing, both sides of the family of origin, the arrival of children, the focus of the person will also be shifted. If the changes are not synchronized, it is easy to cause conflicts and disagreements, accumulated, and eventually formed a dead end.
3. Family conflicts. Of course there are some couples who have always had a good relationship, but the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts are very intense. This situation is actually unlikely to divorce, after all, every woman has a ledger in her heart, although it is difficult to get along with your mother-in-law, but after all, your own husband over a lifetime, not your mother-in-law. But also does not rule out some mom's baby man, all things listen to mom, no opinion. Even if he is full of love for you, but also against the "blind obedience".
Of course, everyone's marriage situation is different, dare to be alone in the arms of the people I love, is my favorite state, no expectation, no pretense, each other attached, but also independent of each other.
Wishing you happiness and bravery.
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