We have more than 20 years from acquaintance, acquaintance to companionship. Time flies or really fast ah, think back, during the university's first formal relationship should also be we together in a cafeteria duty week, we eat together after washing hands with your clothes wipe your hands. I don't know what you thought at the time, whether you think this crazy girl has a problem. At the end of the evening study, sometimes we go back to the dormitory together, socialize more, talk more, slowly familiar, and then gradually we became good friends on the study. As a science student, the face of the first year of the history of the revolution and other important courses, I am really a little anxious, often modestly ask you to teach the problem, each test I was very nervous, often review to midnight, fortunately, the first semester down my grades are still ideal, I remember that I didn't get a scholarship, poor to the sports and English, I don't remember whether you got. Then I gradually adapted to college life, and many times get a scholarship, but also won the three good students. I graduated second in my grade.
We are all guaranteed students, may be this invisible link also put us together, there is still a pride in the heart can not hide it, do not have to participate in the college entrance examination can go to college, in the heart of the heart are still high on each other a glance. Later we often study together, sophomore to choose the direction, entangled in the choice of economic or legal, I do not know whether it is affected by your influence, and you chose the same economy, because I am a science student, learning math since I think it can be. And then you said, the law can be learned at any time, the economy is not the same. I don't know whether the choice is right or not, these years you are still engaged in teaching economics, I have forgotten almost, maybe this is fate, if I had chosen the law, may not have the present family. We are the two schoolboys in the 96th grade economic class, often compared to learn, but also often get the teacher's praise. I remember the sophomore summer after the political and economic examination, we all got the highest score of 85 points, Prof. Wang hard to praise us a pass. That is the end of the term, we fell in love, spent some time together, but the beginning of the new semester I proposed to break up, for many reasons, found that you have a lot of small defects, no real contact did not feel, close contact with those defects are exposed, at that time, I was still a pursuit of perfection, can not tolerate the flaws. There is also the consideration of the future graduation allocation I have to stay in Siping, you have to go back to Jilin, it is impossible to come together. (Facts proved that later you stayed in Siping, I went to Changchun. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it in a few minutes.)
The next we are all quiet to spend the rest of the university life, during which you have had pain, there have been low, but we are normal people, are not overly aggressive behavior. The first time, I was busy preparing for graduate school, you in the department to help, but also have no time to take care of each other. When I came back from winter vacation, I failed the exam and prepared to look for a job. Participated in the interview of Changchun Dayang High School, once passed, now think about it, should not go to participate in this interview, and then you also participated in the interview of the Zhejiang High School, by mistake, fell out of the selection. Most of your classmates have found jobs one after another, and you have no information. I don't know if it's mother nature or what is at work, began to worry about you, and then finally had a notice of school retention, over and over again to help you listen to the class, to give advice. Eventually you stayed in school, and we came together once again. Classmates laughingly called us twilight love, maybe it is. You stayed in Siping, but I went to Changchun. At that time, you suggested that I spend money to go to the four, I do not recognize, after so many years of study, I do not recognize the money to find a job, so stubborn I finally chose to go to Changchun, and so began our year-long love affair between the two places. This year is our hardest year, but also to enhance the love of the year, we run in Changchun, Siping two places. As long as there is time for you to go to Changchun with me, and even sometimes send me to Changchun, you immediately take the car back to Siping, a year to accumulate a thick dozen of 200 phone cards and train tickets is the best testimony to our feelings, but also become the talk of the friends. During this period we received a marriage certificate on May 28, 2001, I also graduated from Changchun one year after the resignation, full-time review of graduate school. During this year, you worked part-time and part-time at the same time, and you studied with me until late at night. The first thing I did was to get into the school's graduate school in 2002, and I owe it all to you. Without your company and encouragement, I wouldn't have made it.
July 6, 2002, more than a month after receiving the notice of acceptance of graduate school, we held a wedding, I became a happy bride. At that time, you sat in the big Ben to pick me up in the rural mom's house, really let people envy a hand. Because I took off school, the life after marriage was a bit hard, but it was also our happier three years. After the second year of marriage, you also get into the Northeast Normal University graduate school, we began to live in two places, this time the difference is that you are in Changchun, I am in Siping. Those years were a time of separation, but for the sake of education and a happier life in the future, we could only endure such days. Good luck in my master's degree on the eve of graduation, I successfully stayed in the school teaching, our baby is also quietly gestation, although not quite at the right time, you have not graduated, still envisioning the continuation of the examination of the doctoral degree, but since she came to knock on our door, we should be well greeted. The time of pregnancy, although you are not often at home, but know that there is a little life in the company of me, a person is no longer so lonely, this is the crystallization of our love, is the continuation of our life.
October 8, 2005, ushered in our baby girl. Still clearly remember the time in the maternity ward, since the first night of pain, you have been accompanied, tossed a night a day, the bone seam is still only open three fingers, we are recommended to do a cesarean section, in order to alleviate my pain, but also in order to our baby quickly came to the world, you decisively in the families of the notification letter to sign. Soon, at 4:35 p.m., the first cry of the baby was finally heard. The doctor brought the baby outside the operating room, you couldn't wait to take the baby, didn't let the aunt who specially came to step on the baby to hold the baby, enough to see how much you cherished this little life. When I went back to the hospital room from the operating room, you carried me from the trolley bed to the hospital bed, your white shirt stained with blood. After the operation, I was kept flat on my back for 6 hours, and after the anesthesia wore off, the pain of the incision was really hard to bear, and you hardly closed your eyes that night with me. During the days I was hospitalized, except for going home to cook or buy some daily necessities, you stayed with us all the time, feeding, combing my hair, washing me, and helping me out of bed. The first day of the hospital, in order not to stretch my incision, you deliberately took the backrest chair from home, and six brothers together to carry me to the fourth floor, think about it at that time is really happy.
The happiest time for my daughter was the six years of my preschool years, and it was the happiest six years for us. During this period you are busy finished the master's thesis, and in the first half of 2007 completed the Liaoning University further training, completed the intermediate title assessment, the second half of the house with our own. Due to my grandmother's poor health, coupled with the fact that you went to further study, I was busy with classes, my daughter was sent to kindergarten at 19 months. In retrospect the child was a bit pathetic, but it did exercise some of her abilities. During the four and a half years of kindergarten, except for very rare times, we were always by our daughter's side, and our child grew up carefree and developed a cheerful, sunny, and optimistic personality. We personally transported our child to kindergarten and participated in all of her activities. In order to participate in language classes and kindergarten performances, we, who were not good at performing, actively participated and actively accompanied her, never lagging behind, and she performed in kindergartens and squares, and so many people envied our happy family. When my daughter graduated from kindergarten, she performed in Heroes Square, and again and again host, and again to say fast board, and dance, really is a brilliant hand. I know, my daughter can achieve today's results, inseparable from your support and companionship, without you this strong backing, I can not bring the child to play as you wish, to participate in a variety of interest classes, no matter what time to go home, you have been prepared to send a meal, at that time we are really very happy.
The six years of our daughter's schooling are the six years of our hardest work. There are old people on top and young people underneath, and it's really hard to climb the slope. These six years, we about the education of children, interest classes, make up the cultural differences in opinion more and more big, plus my school pressure, your work pressure, everyone seems to be in the crater, at any time can be erupted. In addition to the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, there are more quarrels, perhaps this is the real life. In spite of this, we are doing our best to run our home, these years, the child's second class is not less, whether it is interest classes, or cultural classes, spent most of our time and energy, you are still our strong backing. Famous people have said, "In addition to the life in front of you, there are poems and faraway places." Every year, summer and winter vacations, regardless of the distance, we have to take the child out of the door, on the one hand, increase the child's experience, on the one hand, but also to relax our mood.
This year we are forty years old, into the years of confusion, it seems that all of a sudden precipitated a lot, lighten up a lot, and no longer the pursuit of those nebulous things, hold on to the real moment, more understanding, less quarrels, and life is back to calm. This is our acquaintance of more than twenty years, real, plain and happy.
Hubby, thank you for your company all the way through life, thank you for these years of tolerance, tolerance of my nagging, broken thoughts, bratty willful, unreasonable. I hope you can continue to tolerate me until I am eighty or one hundred years old, and also tolerate our daughter as much as you tolerate me.
? Love your wife 2017.3.14