Middle age has always been a topic that everyone can't escape, sooner or later we will all come to this point. Starting from this job, I gradually realized that I am no longer young, not because of the decline of my physical fitness, but because everyone around me is too young.
Nowadays, it's hard to tell a person's age from her looks, so after my new job started, I didn't feel too different from the people around me, and I usually worked and chatted smoothly.
Until one day when we had lunch together, we talked about our own birthdays, and I realized that the girl next to me was 95 years old, and in an instant I felt that I was already old, 88 years old, and she had a gap of two generations, and looked at the face of that energetic, as if looking at the society that I had just entered, and I became a middle-aged person, and I secretly defined myself.
Whether you want to admit it or not, the middle age is a very embarrassing thing, upward mobility has been insufficient, began to consider buying a house, buy a car, get married and have children, go out to dinner are mostly socializing, and there is no longer that kind of dashing and casual.
The people around us have changed a state, not some mercenary, but only in the pursuit of success, although I do not know what the definition of success, but success as if it has become the only pursuit of life, busy through the year and a year, no longer go to the joke, no longer pull the idle days, China is left with the work of the office and go home to the three things, to say a good thing is called the desire to say a bad thing is called the young people can not integrate into society. The first thing you need to do is to get into the neighborhood of the young people.
People born in 1997 are already 20 years old this year, they will soon enter the workplace, we have been struggling for many years before the wave beat on the beach, people are a head of two hands, but we really do not think the same.
I can sacrifice my time for work, I can work overtime without pay, I can express superficial respect for the leadership, but many young people can not do this, they are capricious, they are presumptuous, they wantonly show their own personality, just like we once. At this time I really feel that they are the seven or eight o'clock sun, the world is theirs, not ours.
Because of the nature of the work demand, I often have to contact with a lot of college students, although from the looks of it I have not aged too much, but all the concepts have become obsolete, every point around me is always reminding me that I am a middle-aged person, no longer a young man.
Many people say that a young mind is really young, but a long time will wear out your mind, and not many people can maintain a young state all the time. Experienced more there is always gain and loss, with sadness and happiness, with bear and escape, is that we will learn to become more mellow. Life grinds us more round, is to let us roll farther. Now I have rolled very far, and can no longer feel the smoothness of the time when I was kicked and flew out.
Previously, I always felt that the world deceived me, and now I realize that the world never deceives anyone, he was originally like this, just we can't see its true colors. Middle-aged, not the definition of society to us, but our own feelings, that moment you really find life after 30 years is how fearful, time passes too quickly, life presses people breathless, only a little bit of inertia to drive us forward, but this power will eventually disappear, this time we are the fastest, but the ripe fruit means he will be corrupt, the kind of fan scattered with the degenerate The atmosphere makes us feel out of place in the world, perhaps one day we will stop, huddle in a corner, quietly waiting for the arrival of old age.
Middle age is the best of times, and middle age is the worst of times, and if we can't go further, then we will sink forever. In this era of crying or laughing, spirited and self-sacrificing are the main theme of life, we have to do is to find the real themselves, so that in our old age, will not leave remorse, I hope to use our middle age for life to do the most perfect note!