Our own busy, the elderly with children, how to do to reduce the harm of the elderly with children?
The first thing we need to have is a grateful heart. If we start out thinking that the elderly are harming our children, it's hard not to have problems. I read a report on the Internet, about the elderly with grandchildren to depression, in fact, many elderly people are not so willing to bring grandchildren, why? Originally toiled all his life, to the age when you can enjoy life, but also to bring a child, and the child's mother and father are very preoccupied, this is not good that is not good, but their own career for the sake of the child, and not good to shirk.
So, should we not stand in the perspective of the elderly to think about what we can do to assist them to take better care of their children on a day-to-day basis, rather than coming up with a harm reduction.
To respect the attitude and the elderly to communicate some of their own ideas of parenting, at least let the elderly know your bottom line, and try to make some of the reasoning and her clear, after all, their era did not have access to any knowledge of parenting, if you do not speak, they may not think about it, so it is important to communicate upfront or on a regular basis.
The physical strength of the elderly is limited, the kind of activities that need to run after the child as much as possible to do it ourselves, usually you can buy some simple educational toys to put at home, so that the elderly can take the child to play.
Occasionally take the old man out to play or buy some gifts to the old man to show your appreciation, the old man feel your goodwill, nature in the issue of childcare will also listen to your views more. On the issue of childcare, we and the elderly are not opposites, on the contrary, we are cooperating with each other, in order to take good care of and educate the children, we work together.
Every afternoon tea time, do something for self-growth. ---by MaMa Afternoon Tea?
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