How to find the right pace of life in college?

1. Learn your specialized knowledge. All the planning of college students, the first priority is to learn their professional knowledge. If you can't learn your own specialized knowledge, then you will not have a foothold in society, and you will be in a very passive position. The more solid professional knowledge, later whether it is to participate in the work or based on the research will grasp the initiative, but also the more active choice, rather than become a choice of "pawn". 2. Accumulation of other knowledge reserves. College students optically good professional knowledge is not enough, after all, can master the professional knowledge of the people are not the only one, and society is complex and multi-faceted, in order to better adapt to the needs of social development in the future, you also need to accumulate a lot of other knowledge reserves. The most basic embodiment of these knowledge reserves is to obtain a variety of certificates. For example, Putonghua certificate, English four or six certificates, driver's license, and a variety of other documents, etc., in the university stage to obtain these certificates may be very simple, and will not consume too much energy, but if you do not get these certificates during the university period, and later to participate in the work of the time, you need to pay a lot of time and energy to deal with these exams alone. In addition, in addition to these certificates, there are also some professional outside the "side business" also need to be involved. For example, financial knowledge, it can help you reasonable financial management; for example, the type of philosophy, so that you know the world from a macro point of view, you can open up their own thinking cognitively, to develop a more extensive state of mind. 3. Do career planning in advance. This is a lot of college students may be prone to make a mistake, that is, think only approaching the junior internship, only to start thinking about career planning things. In fact, often this time is already too late. Career planning should start from the first year of college. In many other countries, career planning is accompanied by life planning together, not just into the university to start preparing, combined with the actual situation in China, into the university and then do career planning has been considered late. In China, it is already too late to make a career plan when you enter university, because the choice of major, the knowledge to be absorbed, and the skills to be learnt are all decided by the career plan, not only by your parents' requirements or suggestions. So before it is too late in the freshman year, as much as possible to understand the type of careers in society, combined with their own reality, think clearly about their own career planning, and then according to their own initial career planning, to do the previous two points. 4. exercise social skills. The exercise of social skills can start from actively striving to be a class cadre, class cadres tend to contact more people, and are long-term contact with acquaintances, so suitable for people who are weak in social skills and interested in improving. In addition, you can also participate in some clubs, in addition to cultivating their own interests, but also to meet more strangers, open their own interpersonal circle. One thing to be reminded here is that the point about joining the student union is not suitable for everyone. Although joining the student union is better for exercising one's social skills, the affairs of the student union are complicated, and it is not recommended to join the student union blindly for those who are weak in all aspects and can't coordinate their study time well, while those who are strong in all aspects can consider it. 5. Participate in social practice. In addition to all kinds of school learning, actively participate in social practice, earlier contact with society, to understand the reality and complexity of society is very necessary. For example, tutoring, volunteer service, etc. In addition, those who have the ability to do so can also do a small business of their own interest, it is not important to make a profit or not, the emphasis is on the experience. In these types of social practice, trying to get more in touch with all kinds of people and industries in the society can help us understand the reality of the society more intuitively.6. Try emotional enlightenment. This is something that some people may enjoy and some are expected to be repulsed by it. Having a simple relationship in college is not a bad thing, and these types of needs can only be taken as they come, not forced. Means that when the feeling comes, do not deliberately avoid, greatly face to accept, each other to experience that kind of simple and beautiful emotions in the heart of the energy, to know, when life in the form of beauty to show its value, joy is good, pain is also good, so do not mind which brings you is happy or sentimental, after all, simple love is ultimately good and unforgettable, and this kind of Good, in the long years to come, will bring you unexpected energy. Of course, it does not matter if you do not meet, after all, the good will come, just a matter of time.