Generally if a woman is not happy, do not care if she is in a marriage, are wanting too much, too much overestimation of themselves and their own lives, thus leading to their own feeling of unhappiness. In fact, girls do not devalue themselves, break through the traditional concept of the pursuit of self and their own happiness is quite good, but if you are overly pursuing a material life, do not even consider their own actual situation, then no matter how you live, will feel that their own life is not as beautiful as other people's happiness, people, contentment is always happy.
So we usually still know more about themselves, in a more practical range, to pursue their own happiness it. Never shed tears because of other people's love, we have our own love. I think certainly will ah, because whether or not it is a middle-aged woman, long-term labor would have been easy to old, I suggest or less labor good, less worry, more exercise, such as jumping square dance or something, which can slow down the aging, of course, the most important thing is the mentality, be sure to be happy every day, as the saying goes, smile a little less than ten years, it.
Of course it is, you should pay attention to the conditioning of the body, proper rest, and strengthen the exercise. The real happy woman, inner peace, contentment, know how to thank, with people, know how to cherish, so will not cheat. And happiness, not with material conditions to measure, some people do not have a high income, the family economic conditions in general, but couples love, children understand, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well. Happiness is inner peace and fulfillment. Happy women have a positive view of life, they realize their life goals in stages and are never overly ambitious. Successful time, to be able to wake up self, tell themselves there are greater suffering waiting for themselves; in the frustration of time, can always encourage themselves, as long as to overcome the difficulties of hope in the front.
Of course it's good to be happy, happy to be able to be happy every day ah, can feel the simplicity and sweetness of life, no longer have trouble. The understanding of happiness is different for everyone, but happiness is what people expect. Some people live in happiness, but live in pain; some people live in pain, but feel happy all the time around themselves. Happiness and unhappiness to a certain extent depends on people's knowledge and understanding of themselves and their lives, and very often it is mediocre.