MJY said she was invited to a wedding by her only female classmate in our same village. She said she didn't want to go back, the cost was so high. Then added, but then thought she has so few classmates that she feels this will be the only one who will invite her to the wedding.
The tone was full of regret! Everyone wants to participate in the idea of some important moments of some people, is the so-called "sense of ceremony", some things are very small, but did not do, more or less a little regret! I said I understand, just like I didn't go to Wook's wedding last year.
Finally, I said, I invite you later, if I accidentally married out. She gave me a blank look and said it was too far away. I said, that there is still Ling Feng, you and she is not very good? She will invite you later.MJY replied: "She is in the first year of college, may be like you, a long time later, time too long anything may not be possible, may be later, I and her feelings fade, she married also forgot to invite me it."
I used to think that marriage is a distant word from me, after all, I have been very shameless to think that I am still small.
Now every weekend will be in the circle of friends to see the wedding photos, it turns out that a few years of age within the same age, have entered another important stage of life - marriage and children, most people look very happy look, but also look at the look of the old many years. I can't help but sigh: those who still call me a little girl moncler aunts are not lying to me?
Some people also occasionally say: "It's time to talk about it, now hurry up and pick, when you're on the thirty-year-old good are not your share, not so good people will still pick on you, smack you older ...... "" Don't just focus on the Work work work, marry not even if you later earn much money is useless"...... These words are estimated that many people have heard it, seemingly concerned, full of intimidation. In this era, it seems that people of the same age are getting married and having children, and single people are guilty.
I often ask rhetorically: "With whom to talk? What to talk about? How to talk?" Exasperate the other party into speechlessness, because in fact they do not know. And I don't blame them, after all, most people live in a marriage of time, it does take up a very large part of life, enough to explain its weight. However, fake or genuine, some people really care about you, some people just want to gossip about you.
In fact, which woman will refuse love? It is only that the God of Love is busier has not yet taken care of us. A life so long, a lot of things do not need to rush to finish. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way, and then you'll be able to get out of the way.
- Brush up on two years -
My sister's child recently turned two years old, remembering that when she was born I was still graduating and looking for a job, and nowadays I often work from nine to eight, and it's rare to work from nine to six, and I can't guarantee a rest on weekends. Every day to see the program, write copy, with pictures, typesetting, and colleagues to communicate, modify and then modify, patience was advertisers abused for a while, and sometimes need to go to the weekend with the activities ...... brush for two years, time is really fun!
I remember two years ago to prepare for graduation, chat with a sister, when she worked for almost two years, some tired and confused, I am full of expectations and very confused worried, apprehensive, somewhat afraid of two years after the arrival of their own will be bummed out, nothing. Now, I actually also arrived at that time sister's "almost two years after graduation", but also really nothing. But there is a kind of "original but so" feeling!
Two years a variety of changes some, but also do not feel than two years ago, vicissitudes and so on. Sometimes I'm told that I'm lacking in heart, sometimes I'm told that I'm too simple, but it's the same thing. I've always been lucky to get by with the idea that no one will just let a person down for trusting them.
- I can smell the grass again -
Time is not a magical thing, some people are tired, some people are hot, and sometimes they can be the same person. Recently, the work is relatively busy, did not have a good rest, the cold dragged two weeks finally well, suddenly grew the first wisdom teeth, and not so painful, last night they were pulled to dance square dance, mixed in the group of big moms to follow the chaotic dance, like a fool, surprisingly, jumped out of the sweat, and very decompression.
I've heard that Guangzhou and my hometown have been drenched in rain, and that the weather in Shenzhen is much more sunny, and it's storming tonight. Before that, my little sister and I also went for a ride, and my nose can smell the aroma of the grass and trees all the way again, soothing!
Last night chat, Yibao said a sentence, waiting for you to come to Guangzhou. Let me remember more than two years ago I went to the internship, not too happy, she said to me at school: "dry not happy to come back." Haha, when there is nothing, do not want you to be too aggrieved, a little what time, still the same, this friendship, two people are careless, can give are 100% sincere. Fortunately, we will all eventually become stronger, in the continuous attempt to find a suitable way to live.