Pain to the extreme, will be reborn.
The pain of nirvana is worth the beauty of rebirth.
It is not age that really makes people grow and mature, but experience.
The natural arrogance and can not be defeated, even if the world collapse, even if the pain of the bone, but also to nirvana blood, the end of the rebirth, to be reborn to return to the four seas are not into the heart of the eight wilderness six potential as floating clouds, and from now on a heart of letting go of all things fearless, waving a sword to cut the dust, a cup of cloudy wine in vain.
Thinking too well of life, you will fall very hard, think too bad of life, you will lose the courage to live, the real hero, is to recognize the truth of life still love life.
In fact, the most valuable thing in life is to be in the trough period of their own, it allows us to be more conscious of their own, to see the people around them, so that we have an epiphany, not to be complacent when the merits of the loss of fame and fortune.
The caterpillar, before transforming into a butterfly, has to go through a painful struggle to "break the cocoon into a butterfly". The fish in the sea want to jump high, the more you need to be deep potential seabed, accumulate strength, fly into the sky.
The night before dawn is always the darkest and longest, but as long as you can stay up, you will eventually see the dawn breaks, and eventually see the most beautiful sunrise and the sun.
The same is true for people, who can bear the pain of nirvana before they can enjoy the beauty of rebirth.
The transformation of life depends on oneself.
Regardless of what we are experiencing at the moment, perhaps you have been nine deaths, perhaps you are living in the "hot water", do not be afraid, will pass.
Just like strong tea, can survive, in order to emit a strong, refreshing aroma.
Everyone walking in this world has their own responsibility and mission, all the good and bad things that happen, will come and go.
Bitterness is the truest color of life.
Every encounter in life, everything is the best arrangement, and then the hard days will pass.
After the difficulties, there will be a great success; continue to work hard, and eventually become a great tool.
In a person's life, there will be very many bumps in the road, when you try to get through, it is a small achievement.
Those who are brave and fearless can always ride the waves, nirvana.
The legend of Phoenix Nirvana says that the phoenix is the messenger of happiness in the world, and every five hundred years, it has to carry all the unhappiness and hatred accumulated in the world, and throw itself into the blazing fire to burn itself, and the end of life and beauty in exchange for the peace and happiness of the world.
Similarly, they can only be reborn with a better body after they have undergone great pain and suffering in the flesh.
This story, and its metaphorical significance, is known as Nirvana in the Buddhist scriptures.
Everyone goes through valleys and headwinds, but if you are able to persevere and swim against the wind, you will be greeted by the light of dawn.
Every successful person will experience the pain that makes his life difficult to forget.
Just like Mencius said, "Therefore, the sky will send a great task to the people, but also, must first suffer their will, labor their bones, starve their bodies, empty their bodies."
So behind the glory of every successful person, there is pain that you have not seen.
If you are experiencing the trough of life, please be sure not to give up, as long as you can carry the pain of nirvana, tomorrow's sun will warm your heart.
Maybe now you are struggling, are experiencing the coldest winter in life;
Maybe you are disappointed in life, in the late night collapse, in the quilt crying;
But please, no matter how you have to hold on, the real strong, is those who see through the life of the helpless, and still chose not to perfunctory people.
If the phoenix does not experience the pain of nirvana, how can there be the beauty of rebirth.
The body is not bitter, the blessing is not thick, the heart is not bitter, the wisdom is not open.
The topmost ability of a person is to be reborn in Nirvana .
Zhu Yuanzhang said: snow pressure branches low, although low not mud, to the red sun, still with the sky.
In the face of the trough of life, want to cross over, it is really not easy, but as long as you cross over, you can be reborn, can be transformed.
Luo Zijun in My First Half Life couldn't get out at one point after experiencing being divorced.
Despite the help of her best friend Tang Jing, she is still fragile, haggard and depressed.
Tang Jing couldn't bear to watch such a Luo Zijun, so she forced her to re-enter the workplace.
When Luo Zijun re-enters the society, she realizes that in order to survive, the staff at the bottom of the hierarchy has to tear down their self-respect and pride, and even step on their feet, in addition to being attentive and patient.
The hardship of life, let Luo Zijun peeled layers of skin, but also let Luo Zijun inner stronger.
With the help of Tang Jing and He Han, Luo Zijun turns around with difficulty, and makes a qualitative improvement from material to soul.
She transformed from a housewife to a professional woman, realizing her magnificent transformation and glowing with the beauty of independence and self-confidence.
Later Luo Zijun said: the road to their own step by step, bitter to eat their own mouthfuls of food, cramps and skin in order to get rid of the bones, in addition to no shortcuts.
The road has to be traveled by oneself, the pain has to be eaten by oneself, and the pain of being cut off from the skin has to be suffered by oneself.
In Lu Yu's interview with all the people, even the most successful people, there have been disillusionment, have been pressed the pause button, and have felt that life has been dark to the dark.
But they all carried the pain of Nirvana and reached new heights.
In martial arts movies, those highly respected masters would go into seclusion every once in a while. When they come out, there are always new and more powerful moves coming out.
The eagle is the longest-lived bird in the world, averaging 70 years.
But when it is 40 years old, its beak and talons, including its feathers, are so badly aged that it has to go through a painful rebirth if it wants to live, and after it has survived, it can live for another 30 years.
This is the true meaning of nirvana rebirth, the process of how painful and lonely, how lonely and helpless, and finally how brilliant, how warm and brilliant.
The top ability of a person is to be like an eagle, experiencing severe pain, with hope, nirvana rebirth.
It is impossible to be reborn in nirvana without experiencing excruciating pain, without the experience of coming back to life from life and death encounters, and without the body and inner heart aching to the bone, numbing and losing the sense of pain.
The world is full of people in different situations.
Some people are born into poverty, or family of origin or their own existence of some kind of defects, such a life is different from the ordinary people's difficulties, if then self-exile, self-degradation, the results can be imagined miserable.
There are infinite possibilities in life, if you resign yourself to fate, you can only follow the script arranged by God and do nothing; if you are brave enough to rebel, you may be able to break free from the cage of fate, nirvana.
Life has been teaching us to grow, the process of growth may make us bruised, but also because of the injuries suffered, suffered, we have become stronger.
The process of growing up is so painful that it's hard to turn the page after being reborn in nirvana.
Every time, in the wandering lonely strong; every time, even if it is very hurt also do not flash tears. I know, I always have a pair of invisible wings, take me to fly, fly through the despair.
The song was once a smash hit across the country, and it also created an ordinary girl, Shaohan Zhang.
But at the peak of her career, she suffered the biggest disaster of her life.
A series of changes such as family members turn against each other, friends betrayal, as well as one-sided public opinion condemnation, so that she eclipsed the entertainment circle.
Slowly, Zhang Shaohan has become stoic and strong, no matter how big the difficulties, gritted teeth to meet the challenge, no matter how much pain, will only be digested in the heart alone.
In 2018, she re-stood on the stage of "I am a singer", at this time, she is more and more dazzling, more than before, there is more of a can not be ignored aura.
Her ten years of profound singing and near-perfect stage performance, those popularity and attention that have been suppressed by public opinion for many years have been regrouped to her.
Don't mind the bumpy road ahead, life is already winding.
For each of us, life is not so much smooth sailing, there will always be some bumps in the road, perhaps from work, perhaps from the family, perhaps from the friends around you, and perhaps from your closest people.
If the first half of your life is a mess, then the second half of your life must be reshuffled, do not be afraid to find the original self, remember, you have nothing to lack, the lack of a renewed courage.
There is no one who has cried in the long night, not enough to talk about life.
Every experience that makes you suffer to the point of despair and helplessness, and about to die, is a prelude to a part of you that is about to be born, and is the beginning of a new self to be born.
Wayne Wayne, a Canadian mentor, once spoke of the famous "black hole theory".
Life is happy and fulfilling, and the smoothness of life is the desire of everyone's heart, while the impermanence of life is always accompanied by fear, anxiety, and control from time to time, and many people try to escape from these.
The real growth is to move forward with courage and awareness, even into the black hole, to meet the unknown in life.
Staying in the darkness of the unknown is very hard, it can be unbearable, even inescapable, so take advantage of this opportunity to transform, no matter how much it hurts.
When you are able to own the pain, be grateful and accept to accompany your past self, your heart will become courageous and will become a person who really loves himself.
People who are in anxiety and fear all the time are actually not really in the darkness, they have not allowed themselves to really break down, and it is only by experiencing a breakdown that you can break through and experience a life that is even more joyful than the one you had before you entered the darkness.
A true breakdown will cause you to be uncontrollably tearful, angry to the point of smoking, mad, hateful, sad, and scared to the point of shaking all over.
You will feel like your whole heart is breaking and your body is going to crack.
Not a bit of pretense, not a bit of protection, not a bit of armor, only a feeling of vulnerability, aggression, helplessness, exhaustion, extreme pain.
It's like falling into a black hole that consumes a lot of spirit and energy.
Despite falling into an abyss, you have reached rock bottom and can only bounce back and soon see the light.
Allow yourself to go into a state of collapse so that you can make your ego die and it will submit.
It is then that a wiser you will emerge to guide you and birth another new you of wisdom and power.
That you is the real you.
Maybe you are still in deep pain, but please believe that the pain to the extreme is reborn, no can not get through, only easy to give up their own.
Believe that you will be able to get through this difficult time and create a more resilient self.
King Wen of Zhou was detained when he deduced the "Zhou Yi";
Confucius compiled the "Spring and Autumn Annals" when he was in a difficult situation;
Sima Qian was corrupted and wrote the "Book of the Grand Historian";
Sun Bin was brutalized and plucked out his patella, but he wrote "The Art of War";
Zuo Qiu was blinded, but he made the "Statements of the Nation";
Qiu Yuan was exiled, and he wrote the "Li Sao";
Most of the 300 Psalms were written by sages in anger.
The pain is so great that it leads to rebirth.
There are three thousand diseases in the world, only pain is not curable.
The process of nirvana is destined to be excruciatingly painful, like a tadpole growing limbs, like a caterpillar breaking out of its cocoon and transforming into a butterfly, like a flying eagle pulling off its claws, like a phoenix bathing in the fire of nirvana, and like a celestial master ascending to immortality.
The pain proves that you are rising, the pain proves that you are breaking through, the pain reaches the limit and you are reborn.
Please believe that to sink to the bottom is to be reborn.
The more you suffer, the more you have to be calm, and the more you can bear the pain of nirvana, the more you deserve the beauty of rebirth.