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Mr. Lee and Mrs. Lee are a famous couple in the neighborhood, and the two of them even go to the market to buy a dish, all of them have to hold hands together, sweetly spreading dog food.
What outsiders can see is the old couple's companionship, mutual dependence and mutual love.
What people don't know is what kind of trials and tribulations, disagreements and hardships they went through during those decades of marriage before they managed to come to this day.
Mr. Li's name is Li Fu, 70 years old, and his partner has been married for 40 years, but he is particularly short-tempered, but also some selfishness and indifference.
The two of them have been living a life that is really quite stifling, especially during the first few years of their marriage, when they were literally soaked in bitterness every day.
Particularly after two consecutive births of a girl, her mother-in-law looked at her in a really cross-eyed way, all kinds of bad eyes.
Da Niang Li suffered a lot from her mother-in-law's glare and cold treatment.
In the eyes of her mother-in-law, Li Daniang is doing everything wrong, take a broom to sweep the floor, her mother-in-law suspected that she did not sweep clean, she washed the clothes, her mother-in-law suspected that she cost water, she cooked, her mother-in-law suspected that she did not taste good.
And, when her mother-in-law is eating at the dinner table, Li Daniang has to wait, when others are finished, there are leftovers, she can fill a mouthful, there is nothing left, she can only starve.
The mother-in-law is so difficult daughter-in-law, moncler outlet store, he is only the mother of the order from, once did not give daughter-in-law said, this indifference.
02
Daily, the mother-in-law has to secretly wipe away a few tears behind her back, and in this family, she is really quite angry.
But she still served her sick mother-in-law until she left this world without a word of complaint.
Not two years after her mother-in-law's departure, her husband Li Fu began to work on the unhappy, in the unit held a bellyful of fire, go home and drink a little wine on the use of alcohol to play crazy, temper.
Either the table was overturned, or the dishes were thrown everywhere, soup and water spilled all over the ground, he did not care, but also reprimanded the daughter-in-law did not have the eyesight to clean up the untimely.
The two daughters were scared to death when they saw their father, especially when he was drinking and acting crazy.
It was all Dame Li who stood at the front line of being attacked by Li Fu's anger, helping her daughters to withstand the outbursts of temper from her husband, not daring to retreat even if she was hurt.
As soon as she hid, Li Fu made even more noise, disturbing the neighbors, and she was even more humiliated, so she stood alone, endured, and persevered.
Husband Li Fu this person, in the early years in the eyes of Li Daniang, is a selfish ghost.
Then the family life is overstretched, Li Fu want to drink, each time to buy half a catty of peanuts to drink. He didn't leave a single one for his wife and children, crunching them, and eating them all in his stomach.
The two daughters hid in the inner room, through the window cracks, eyeballs looking, greedy drooling, but also can not eat a grain.
They have a very strong opinion of their selfish father, and are not close to him.
This is also later, Li Fu's attitude towards his daughter-in-law, a major shift in one of the important reasons.
03
Many men are more mature when they are older, but when they are younger they are more naive and don't know how to love people.
With the passage of years, the years are growing, the children have left home to study, the family is left Li Fu and daughter-in-law two people, he began to become sticky.
Middle-aged, parents have passed away, the children have their own future, and he is not close, even the phone does not give him a call, his heart is empty.
The heart of Li Fu, only to see his wife, to be able to get down, do not think about it.
Knowing that his daughter-in-law is important to him, he is more and more dependent on her, sticking to her.
At the same time, he also began to care for her, cherish her, go along with her, everything is willing to listen to her daughter-in-law, temperament also convergence, people have become more gentle.
To put aside in the past, he early in the daughter-in-law painted big red lips, wearing a big red dress, wearing a big hat out of the square play, on the angry.
But now his temper has changed, tolerance has become higher, not only did not lose his temper at his daughter-in-law, but also accompanied her to go to the square dance.
This was something that before, he could not even think of happening to himself. Nowadays he accepted it quickly and transformed completely.
He figured out that his daughter-in-law's good, know that she was not easy before, a hundred times to accommodate himself. He could repay his daughter-in-law one-tenth of her goodness in his lifetime, and Li Fu could also feel gratified.
Therefore, he was more and more tolerant of his daughter-in-law, patient. In the blink of an eye, more than ten years have passed, daughter-in-law became an old companion, the relationship is getting better and better, and became the envy of the people of Li and Li Da Niang.
He said: ? I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do, but I'm going to be able to do what I need to do to make sure that I can do it.
The person he was talking about was his old partner with whom he had spent most of his life.
Even the old partner is used to living in poverty, everything is good, put the house everywhere piled up rags things, a piece can not throw, he put up with it.
No matter how many stumbling blocks, how many disagreements have occurred nasty, hand in hand through the storm, with today's together.
04
He said, two people living life, there is really no special secret, nothing more than tolerance and patience with each other, the most important point, is to persist for a long time.
But this? The most important thing is that the most important thing is to be able to hold on to the same thing for a long time. Very test people, especially on the freedom of marriage more and more tolerant today, we are not willing to commit themselves, not moving to the Civil Affairs Bureau to do the formalities, divorce.
Said so, not against divorce, but that do not easily divorce, mutual marriage, is not so easy to come by.
They have not experienced the pain of each other, how can we have a pearl-like, radiant love?
It's a good thing that you don't want to pay, you just want to get it, and it's a good thing that you don't want to get it.