Do you have a particularly poor person around you, pretending to be richer than anyone else?

At that time, no one was not convinced that he was, and now I think of the mood or some sigh.

When I first entered this company, I was playing to the old room, the first time I met with him, less than ten minutes to him in awe.

"I don't use a cell phone, don't look for me after work". A very simple sentence, finished the old room smiled a little, I was surprised to hurry to look at him again. Old room more than fifty years old, medium build slightly blonde, cut the plate inch head, simple and neat clothes, expression always calm and relaxed. Not exactly a silent person, but the words are not much, no matter what can be, three words to finish the point to close the mouth.

"No, Lao Zhao gave me a cell phone installed, I will put in the office," the old room took out the boss to give him with a cell phone, said faintly. In fact, I myself is also this kind of person, of course, the grade is much lower, but to his practice is also "oh oh" two sound, said know.

Later in the work, he had to admire him: whether it is Italian customers, or Japanese customers, and even Indian and Bangladeshi customers, he can communicate directly with them, without translation.

All the machine tools will operate, have the level of processing workpiece, who want to take a temporary leave, there is an emergency, he can operate his own finish. His tool drilling nozzle grinding is particularly good, a lot of teachers have long begged him to help grinding tools. The level of welding is the first in the company, no one can compare with him.

The most exaggerated is his memory, our company's products, although not much, the main products are only five or six, but each product is less than two or three hundred parts, more than five hundred parts, adding up to thousands of parts. He could tell how many parts there were for each type of product and how many parts were missing at any time by memory alone. This point is too powerful, we are computer and special software and forms, and often get it wrong, he never missed.

Sometimes on the form, but how can not find the part, ask him, he can immediately tell you, where the part is placed.

Such a comprehensive quality, it is simply the existence of God, there is no one who does not serve him, even the boss in front of him are shorter than three points, regardless of the fact that he never answered the phone. The old room or do not smoke, do not drink, do not play games, do not socialize do not gamble, do not take care of lesbians, off the shift to go home to the man.

I have a distant cousin, also in our company, earlier than I came three years, although the old room in addition to business, not more than a word with her, but the cousin is still colorful, told me many times, the old room of the legendary life:

The old room is a Hong Kong people, the liberation of his father returned to China to participate in the construction of the city, was settled in Shenzhen. Later, the old room is the year of the resumption of the college entrance examination, the top student of the college entrance examination somewhere in Shenzhen, read the Latin major, the university took English, Japanese. After graduation as a Japanese translator, later contracted the Geological Bureau of the subordinate factories, and then after that to our company.

The old house has a set of ancestral home in Hong Kong, and also has real estate in Shenzhen, and there are dividends every year. This is a proper super tycoon level, the whole company the rest of the family property, may not add up to his more. The old house is very particular about the food, only eat farmhouse food, only drink mountain spring water.

Every Sunday, he will take his eight-year-old son, early in the morning to run to Guanyin Mountain, back and forth more than thirty kilometers, are carrying a large water tank, loaded with spring water home. This is something that a lot of people have seen with their own eyes.

The above, I have not only heard my cousin a person said, but also heard countless people say. In fact, I know two loopholes: one is the resumption of the college entrance examination is 78 years, his age is not right, a difference of five or six years, the second is that although his Japanese is good, but than I am still close to all of them, I have studied in Kagoshima for half a year, the old room of the Japanese language is obviously not yet to the level of the interpreter. But I didn't say anything to anyone, I understand in my own heart is good, say people and nothing good.

Such a flawless person, two or three years ago, but was found to have embezzled public funds, not much, on the thirty thousand dollars or so. The boss and I found it hard to understand what a person like Lao Fang would do with such a small amount of money.

Talked to him once, asked him to get the money back, and then take the initiative to resign this matter is over, or may be the police. I did not expect the old room said: will resign, but no money. He said he left, and then he did not go to work for two or three consecutive days.

Really not afraid of the company to sue him? It made us quite speechless, but he did not have a phone, can only go to his home to find him. After going to the big surprise, I and the boss wide-eyed small eyes, are open mouth, a long time can not close.

His home is a very old-fashioned two-story building, belonging to the Geological Bureau, very old building age, has been very dilapidated. His family lives on the first floor, around the relatively empty, his family opened a few small vegetable plots. The old room mother seventy-eighty years old, poor health, still every day planting vegetables, pick some herbs to sell; old room daughter-in-law is not good health, long-term need to recuperate and take medication, every day to do housework and take the child; the old room old daughter is daughter-in-law's ex-husband, is now reading high school, it is estimated that because of her tuition fees are relatively high, the old room is greedy for the money; he also has a small son is reading elementary school.

The old room income can be counted, in the third-tier city monthly salary of eight thousand, almost equivalent to the income of ordinary dual-income workers. But his family of five, two long-term medical care, the remaining two in the study, completely rely on him alone, it is really more difficult.

Conclusion:

In the end, the old room resigned, the money matter is not settled, the boss said: "Forget it, really fight the lawsuit, not to mention not necessarily win. Even if he wins, he'll be arrested, and what about the remaining four members of his family? The only thing I can say is that it's not a big deal, and I won't be able to see him in the future.

I said, "Yes, if he really wants to be greedy, he is definitely more than that.

It's not a big deal, it's a big deal, it's a big deal, it's a big deal.

I just think he is very incomprehensible, with his ability and quality, put the right posture, get more income is a very simple thing. For example, working three hours overtime a day until 9pm - the boss has asked him several times to pay him half his salary, but he won't do it.

There are also several times when people need to go abroad on business trips, to Italy, India, Bangladesh, Myanmar, etc., and they need to go to people with higher overall qualities, and no one is willing to do that, so the boss finally had to go himself. If he is willing to go, so many times the subsidy, all add up to several hundred thousand.

Speaking of his life is quite miserable, good Hong Kong people do not do, back to this side of Shenzhen. Shenzhen is also quite good, but he left himself, he left Shenzhen less than three years, Shenzhen began full construction. In this side of the actually can, he contracted a factory, and it is not easy to get up, but all of a sudden, and was restructured and laid off. The first thing I've learned is that it's not just a matter of time, it's a matter of time, and it's a matter of time.

The old room almost did not brag about himself, his words are very few, but can say to the point, three words to make things clear, so his words we are particularly careful to listen to, the impression is also particularly deep. He also did not deliberately brag about himself, are other people in the blow, say a couple of their own, said a very short and not parse, but there are countless people to help him brain complete.

The highest state of lying is: nine sentences of truth with a falsehood, so that even if others go to verify, verify to a few sentences are true, but also all believe.

They don't say it clearly, let others think about it, as long as they think of it, it is easy to be convinced. Even if someone corrects them afterward, and there is sufficient evidence, many people only believe in what they think, and will not believe in what others say.

All of these human weaknesses have been utilized by the old room to the fullest extent, but unfortunately he was unable to break through, his own human weaknesses. His family life is so difficult, he should be more active, but he chose to lie flat.

Speaking of "especially poor, pretending to be richer than anyone else", the Small Qian who wears a sable in the summer definitely deserves the title.

Xiaoqian is a former colleague of mine.

She looks average, average, average, average body, average business ability, only one thing is not average:

loaded.

I don't know if it's because of the low self-esteem of the childhood character carved into the bone, grew up Xiaoqian, all aspects of the want to pretend.

We simply analyze the four aspects of clothing, food, housing, and transportation.

Dressing up, Xiao Qian is not ambiguous.

What brand name, tide brand, luxury brand, all to the body whole.

You can't see a single piece of clothing that doesn't have a logo on it.

International brands LV, Prada, Gucci, CHANEL, the bigger the brand pattern, the better.

If there's no obvious logo or logo on the dress, it's basically a waste of a purchase for Siu Sin.

Truth be told, working-class me, I'm not sure what these international brands are worth.

But from her mouth to learn, a pair of what Valentino high heels have to be four or five thousand.

The other day, she wore a strange dress, the same kind of air-filled bags that are stuffed into delivery boxes to prevent items from breaking.

Colleagues joked: part-time delivery.

She scoffed and condescendingly explained: this is a luxury brand's new air vest, 26,000 yuan.

I was shocked.

Around her a circle, carefully observed, sigh.

On top of that, she had worn ermine in the office on a three-volt day.

That ermine, worth tens of thousands of dollars I do not know;

I only know: if it is not the air-conditioning cooling effect is good, she will definitely be in place heat stroke.

The company manages one meal at noon.

Auntie Rice is a great cook - her flavorful fish-flavored shredded pork can make me dry two big bowls of rice without hesitation.

But Hsiao-tsing never eats at work.

She once insinuated that her aunt's cooking was unhealthy, overloaded with oil and salt, vulgar, and not at all upscale.

Downstairs, there are coffee shops, ramen stores, and dessert stores.

A cup of coffee is tens of dollars, a bowl of ramen is tens of dollars, an ice cream ball is also tens of dollars.

Xiaoqian ate with great relish.

But it doesn't stand up to scrutiny:

Are those coffees, ramen, and ice creams necessarily healthy?

I've never visited Hsiao-tsing's house, but I know exactly what brand of toilet she has in her mansion.

Because she's said it a million times in office chit-chat, her mouth is grinding out sparks.

What smart toilet, smart home, luxury decoration, superior location ......

All together, accounted for all.

And it is said that she also has two sets of large flat in the old city and the development zone, both more than 180 square feet.

Other coworkers questioned her bragging, and she immediately sat down and reasoned out how strong her family background was, and how strong her boyfriend's assets were.

The other coworkers were very impressed, or pretending to be impressed.

She commutes by public **** transportation (subway, bus) but has a deep stigma against cars under 300k.

You'd be embarrassed to buy an entry-level Mercedes, BMW, or Audi and park it under the company.

In case she finds out, you'll have to take her snickering comments.

You have to ask her what kind of car she drives, or what kind of car she has at home. She never answered positively, but the condescending tone of voice and tone of voice, and let you think: do not open a Bentley, Rolls-Royce, are sorry for her that price. The company has always been a dignified and elegant Xiaoxian somehow, uncharacteristically fly self, drink in the KTV table dancing.

At the end of the group building, she was lying on the KTV sofa, huffing and puffing, streaming lama.

I saw that everyone did not want to take care of her, and I couldn't bear it, so I helped her to the door and called a cab for her.

I'm not sure, I also sat in the back, intending to send her home.

In the car, her cell phone pushed over a message.

I didn't mean to pry into people's privacy, so I just glanced at it and saw the words "high imitation", "replica", and "1:1".

Not long after, her cell phone rang.

It was her boyfriend who called, and she lisped and said that she was almost home and asked him to pick her up.

Later, I met her boyfriend, who she described as "rich and powerful" -

A middle-aged man with disheveled and greasy hair, less than one meter seven in height, and quite a failure in body management, with a full brain and a big belly (a little bit like Simon Piao Piao on the Internet), wearing a suit with the words "XX Construction Team" on it, and a jacket with the name "XX Construction Team" on it, and the name "XX Construction Team" on it.

No one is born to be a rich man, everyone is from a penniless situation, rely on hard work step by step on the career peak.

So it's not a big deal to admit that you're poor and face up to your own constraints - it's even a better way to recognize your own position and motivate yourself to move forward.

It is terrible to be poor and vain.

Wrapping up your poor inner self with expensive things (not sure if they're real or not) won't get you anywhere in life, but it will make you lose yourself in the materialistic society.

Are there any particularly poor people around you who pretend to be richer than anyone else?

I used to know a man from Bangladesh, and he was blowing to the Great Northern Wilderness!

I know a man from Bangladesh, who is a great fan of the "Northern Wilderness"!

Bangladesh is very poor and backward, of course, there are rich people, but I know this is certainly not a "rich second generation"!

But he said his father is a doctor in Bangladesh, and his family owns several pharmacies and hypermarkets.

Every year, his father gave him a new car, and in Ramadan, his father would buy many cows and give them to poor people.

Later, one of his fellow villagers told me that his father was indeed a doctor, but he was a "traveling doctor", or a "charlatan" with no license to practice medicine at all!

His family has no pharmacy at all, let alone several!

There is no pharmacy in his house, let alone several, and even if there was medicine, it would be from the mountains!

There is no big supermarket in Bangladesh, but there is one in his house, which is more of a kiosk than a store!

In short, this man does not have a single word of truth in his mouth, he is just "bragging"!

He actually rented a house with a dozen people, and ate and drank very sparingly, and showed himself to be very rich in front of outsiders, and got a cut-price fashionable dress, and wore sunglasses and "pretended" to be a rich second generation!

I think it's ridiculous that people like this are so tired of living in a world of lies and pretending to be something they're not. Most of the people in Bangladesh are like this, they are poor, they come to a new world, they are afraid that others will look down on them, so they try their best to "whitewash" themselves!

I would be a fool to believe that!

There are people around me who don't have the money to pretend to be a big spender

He is a friend of my husband's, Zhuang, who mixes with friends all day long, and eats with this one today and invites that one to drink tomorrow. It is one or two decades of fellows who understand each other, just see through, not to say through, every day of the swollen face punch fat, and then gave him a nickname "Zhuang fat".

He likes to play with rich friends, thin family can not afford to play, the idea of credit card, overdraft consumption, no fixed income, but also gave him a lot of trouble on behalf of the late credit card is not on, continue to apply for another card, so that the reversal of the return of the money, one or two million of the quota is not enough for him to turn around. A do not do not rest, the major banks almost apply for the card again, every time you go out is programmed with the number of consumption, the card is remembered on the repayment date, overdue interest, so every day live in the repayment of the day, ride the eyes of the lesser of a dozen, every day, demolition of the west wall to make up for the east wall, a little careless, will be the hole more and more big.

The credit card money can not be replaced he will find a way to relatives and friends to borrow, the first time are good to say, borrowed no time to pay, but also no use of the opportunity to open again. In the end, friends will not lend him this bottomless pit. No money on the leisurely spending, he also pursued a high quality of life, every day three or four hundred small tea to drink, every time I see the hand of the cup are soaked Mao Jian, this tea must not be cheap. Meet the first to come to a "Huazi" smoking, a sports brand, children learn a variety of special classes, go out to the toilet also want to drive. Last time I saw him give my husband said to change cars, with the current Volkswagen Touguang replacement Audi Q5L, this is to see who drove a new car ah! The difference of hundreds of thousands of dollars, who will make up for it, the credit card is not maxed out?

Hubby listened to the very uncomfortable, thought you borrowed my 10,000 yuan two years have not yet returned, the heart does not count how you have the cheek to say that the car change it! Every time you let him pay back the money said fast fast fast, time and time again pigeonholed, are speechless to him, there is this 10,000 as a cushion, these two years did not open the door to borrow money.

Friends of the money can not wait, outside the money owed can not wait, New Year's period of time did not see him, and then from another friend that inquired about, he was a debtor's beatings, I heard that it is also very serious, in order to save face did not go to see him, do not want to take his short. A mention of money is also difficult to cry, their own holes or to make up for others can not help you, the years spent on the estimated owed to the bank of one or two hundred thousand, such a person is not poor more gas.

Now he is still often mixed with the "noble circle", can not extricate themselves, I really hope to come to a pouring rain to wake him up.

Thanks for the invitation

I'm like that. I am the poorest of the five siblings and the most generous.

It's a matter of personality. I'm the one who spends a lot of money. Buy things to buy a little better, perhaps because the speculation of people are more generous it, I do not know whether you people who speculate in the stock market is as generous as me?

Although the speculation also lost a bit of money, but spend money to nonchalant.

In the past few years, I've gotten older, and I've had less contact with friends, so I rarely meet this type of friend.

Especially with the development of the times, this kind of person is not too easy to pretend to have money, the real rich people's luxury cars are so brightly open in the side, you ride a big donkey always with the mouth blowing rich is not so much, not good to pretend.

But it seems that the further back in history we go, the more friends we have, and I've known a few people like that in my life.

Childhood I have a little friend , that year is about ten years old, the early eighties, each other are the township children, short-sighted, and almost did not have two dollars in the years. This little friend at first said that his family has a TV set, which is enough to make people envious.