How to run our marriage?

How to learn how to run a marriage? We know that feelings are the most fragile things, so we need to manage this relationship well, and we also need two people to work together to manage it together. If one party gives up running a marriage and the other party finds it difficult to stick to it, how can you learn to run a marriage? How to learn how to manage marriage 1 1, and be thrifty? Urging thrift can prevent cracks in every marriage life because of the relationship between money and income, and it is also an effective way to restrict each other and save money. Because marriage is dull, so is money. If it is not mutually restrictive, the other party will borrow money. Even the ancestors who borrowed usury for two years may be defeated by some vanity of others. The meaning of thrift is not to let the couple spend nothing, but to let the couple spend what they should and should not spend. Although they have saved a little money, after a long time, they will be more and more able to buy cars and houses. So this is the advantage of thrift. 2. Learn to respect and put yourself in each other's shoes. Paying attention to each other is the foundation of married life. If you have no respect for each other, then this marriage must be wrong, even though you didn't leave without saying goodbye. Paying attention to each other is not to let him check his mobile phone in the early morning and let him go home. It's just that he must pay attention to each other before he wants to do something. If you can't pay attention to each other. You can try to put yourself in others' shoes and treat others sincerely. Because people don't know what happened to them, they can't understand it deeply. Only by putting yourself in others' shoes and treating others sincerely can you understand each other, that is, how to solve everything from others' point of view. That kind of marriage can last a long time. 3. Support each other and be the best you can be. The most comfortable state in love is probably: mutual encouragement, mutual companionship, mutual nourishment and continuous growth. Later, we became better ourselves, but still loved each other. One of the most important characteristics of marriage is to encourage your partner to grow up and encourage yourself to grow up. Help your partner achieve his goals and realize his potential in this relationship. Try to learn something beneficial to yourself and your feelings, so that you can have a better life in the future. It also helps you to see yourself clearly and get to know each other step by step. Marriage is a long-term practice. Too many couples enter marriage with sweet love, leaving only resentment and fatigue in the end. In the final analysis, it is only because of human laziness. Too lazy to communicate with each other, too lazy to share, too lazy to encourage both sides, too lazy to grow together. When we know how to manage marriage with care, care more about each other's feelings, listen to each other's voices and cherish each other's efforts, the relationship between husband and wife will naturally become closer and closer. If you just ask for it blindly, ignore the other person's contribution, and treat the other half with an evasive and indifferent attitude, then even if there is more love between husband and wife, it will eventually be exhausted. 4. Take care of the other family. During this period, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law was high, which seriously affected each other's feelings. Families should respect each other and handle differences together. There is no need to adopt a paranoid approach. Husband and wife should regard other people's parents as their own parents, care for them and attach importance to them. Solve the relationship between each other's families and reduce problems. Respect the elderly and use safe language. There is no need to have an immediate conflict with the elderly. Small things, small things, care for the younger generation, more tolerance. Each other's families should also know how to communicate with young people, and they should not blame them with the ideas of the older generation. 5. Proactive communication and communication. Career love should be realized under the conditions of communication and communication. People are not saints, so we should actively express our ideas. If there are any problems, we need to emphasize them and deal with them together. Otherwise, it will break out one day over time, which will easily affect the harmonious way of speaking between husband and wife. No matter what, don't threaten, listen to each other's opinions, discuss things wrong, and even correct them. We should know how to put ourselves in each other's shoes, make marriage more tolerant and understanding, take the initiative to understand each other's hobbies, concepts and values, and make marriage a harbor to avoid storms. How to learn how to run a marriage? 1. How to run a marriage and family? 1. If you want to make your marriage more perfect, don't lose your temper when you meet anything in your marriage. You must be calm when you do things, because you can't handle problems with a normal mind without being calm, so you must be calm when you encounter problems, don't quarrel, and two people can discuss and solve them together. Arguing is not only better than not being able to solve the problem. 2. In the second year, don't doubt that your partner is the most taboo in marriage. You always doubt whether the other party betrayed you, doubt each other, and don't give each other enough trust. In this case, the marriage will not last long. Since two people choose to be together, they should trust each other and trust each other. What are the methods and skills to manage marriage? When two people are together, they must learn to communicate with each other and express their thoughts and emotions. If you have any dissatisfaction or troubles, learn to talk to each other. Then if the other person talks to you, you should also learn to listen to the other person patiently and express your thoughts. Two people can discuss any problems they encounter. At the same time, the sexual life of husband and wife is also essential. Two people can make each other's feelings more harmonious and maintain a very happy mood through sex. In this stressful era, it is very happy to release one's stress under the tense pace of life, and it is also a particularly important method to promote the relationship between husband and wife. How to learn how to run a marriage 3 1 Husband and wife should not tell outsiders about family scandals, including family privacy, and even relatives and friends should keep their mouths shut. When a husband and wife quarrel, they must avoid the children. Otherwise, children will feel inferior and feel that their parents don't love themselves, which will seriously lead to fear of marriage and leave a lifelong psychological shadow. Whether the past is right or wrong, husband and wife should learn to understand each other. Whatever happened in the past, no matter who is right or wrong, let it go. Both husband and wife should spend time and energy planning the present and the future, instead of clinging to the past, otherwise they will be bound by each other's past, and blaming each other and exposing shortcomings is a taboo in marriage. What couples fear most is to take each other's efforts for granted. Once one party takes the other for granted, then we often don't know how to cherish each other's goodness. This will lead to an imbalance in the balance of feelings, and finally the feelings of the two people will go further and further. In marriage, women need to understand that face is a man's dignity. Face is a big deal for men, especially in important public places. Be sure to give men face, which is the foundation of a happy marriage. A wise woman will never expose her husband in front of outsiders, let alone humiliate her husband in front of everyone. You need to respect each other in front of outsiders, both men and women, and you also need to respect each other in front of outsiders. 6. Communicate every day and become a faithful listener of her husband, but in many cases, a man's desire to talk is gradually worn away with his wife's attack or unwillingness to listen. In this world, the most feared thing is that the husband and wife have nothing to say, and the home is terrible and quiet. Even if husband and wife go their separate ways, their feelings will become like strangers, full of suffocation. 7. Create a warm and clean home environment. When husband and wife live in a warm and clean environment, the relationship between husband and wife can be happier and more harmonious. 8. Be able to fully accept each other, accept each other's personality, temper, living habits, etc. Instead of trying to change each other, such a relationship is healthy and harmonious. 9. Children's education should cooperate with each other. It is normal for couples to disagree on the issue of educating their children. Both sides need to communicate and coordinate in time to better educate their children, and at the same time, the relationship between husband and wife can be better and happier. 10, both husband and wife do interesting things together. Doing more fresh and interesting things can promote the feelings of both sides, and at the same time, it can make your feelings further and sublimate.