People often say: "can solve things don't worry, can't solve things worry is useless." We need to take things as they come to face life.
Life if only happy, no worries, if only joy, no pain, if only smooth sailing, no thorns and bumps, then life is pale, we also lost the joy of life. Life is like a string of notes, if there is no stop sign, it will not be able to play a moving music, life is like a sapium tree in front of the window, self-generated self-fall between its own a rounded and full of joy. Look at the changes in the world calmly, and no matter what circumstances you encounter, you will be able to be at ease and satisfied. We should take things as they come, and cope with whatever comes our way, and there is no mountain of fire that we cannot cross. Whenever you encounter something and make an effort to get it done, you will be happy.
There is a girl named Chen Si, since childhood, she loves running, teenagers, but she has been back for the school countless track and field competition honors, do a long-distance running athlete is Chen Si's biggest dream. However, a car accident took away her legs forever, and Chen Si's dream of running was completely shattered! Chen Si, who was originally lively and cheerful, became quiet and reticent all of a sudden. Watching her classmates run and play, she felt an indescribable pain in her young heart. Chen Si even wanted to commit suicide. Later, a leader of the Disabled Persons' Federation took Chen Si to meet many disabled friends, all of whom were in wheelchairs, some of whom could play a good fiddle, some of whom could write well, and some of whom were even participating in labor processing. "They all became disabled due to accidents, but they didn't lose confidence in life. No matter what life has given you or taken away from you, as long as you can be brave enough to accept it, you can start a new life." During the conversation with them, a long-lost smile appeared on Chen Si's face, and she secretly thought in her heart, "I will definitely find something for me to do too!"
Shortly after this, Chen Si saw a video on the Internet of an American disabled person performing "wheelchair dance". The video showed a video of a disabled American performing a "wheelchair dance," and Chen Si was thrilled. Thus, Chen Si quietly followed the video to learn wheelchair dance, although there is no partner, but many can be done independently of the action or let her practice in style. 2008 December, Chen Si got a chance to go to Beijing to participate in the National Wheelchair Dance Training Selection. She trained hard and her skills improved by leaps and bounds. In the end, she and her partner won the third place in the International Wheelchair Dance Open. Not long ago, Chen Si received an invitation to the International Wheelchair Dance Competition held in Japan, and she and her partner won the first place with their outstanding performance. Chen Si said, "Since I can't change the reality, I accept it bravely and make my own peace. I can't run anymore, I accept it, it doesn't mean I give up on life, I still work hard, I can fly now." Chen Si in the wheelchair dancing beautifully, that wonderful feeling, let Chen Si feel like a big bird, is flying freely in the blue sky.
In the face of life's setbacks, we should not soak in the sadness and pain of the quagmire deeper and deeper; in the face of setbacks, we should not be overly obsessed with the pain of disillusionment, can not pull themselves out of the shadows; in the face of setbacks, we should not be long-term decadence and lost direction. Fear of reality, fear of difficulties, like a stick, stirring in your heart, when it is difficult to find peace of mind. Lin Qingxuan once said that living happily in the present moment and doing one's best is perfection. This is actually a philosophy of life of a wise man. The first thing you need to do is to learn to be happy with what you have, and to have a calm heart.
People live a hundred years, how much smooth sailing can there be? When you feel tired of life, perhaps you are too demanding on your own life, too many complaints about their own situation, complaining about the sky, so that they are in pain and can not extricate themselves. What is the point of this? It is wise to laugh at the pain, face life head on, face the setbacks and take things as they come. No matter what the circumstances of life, smart and open-minded people will face life with optimism and peace of mind. Therefore, as long as we try to do a good job of every thing we face, even if we do not create any splendor, but also can feel the joy of life and hope, but also can "get the fish can be happy, no fish is also happy!
There is such a fable, in ancient times, there is a man walking in the mountains, suddenly encountered a tiger, scared of his life, the tiger in the back of the chase, ran to a cliff, there is no way out, in the crag hanging on a vine, he rushed to climb, unfortunately, then he found a mouse is not far away from the top of the gnawing vines, look to be bitten off, and below the tiger is also eyeing, he was afraid of! He was terrified and anxious. At this moment, he suddenly found a bright red strawberry in front of him, he did not hesitate, put the strawberry into his mouth, slowly taste, things have come to this point, fear, nervousness, sadness and so on everything is useless, why not in the last moment, savor a delicious strawberry. So he lay down on the ground and waited for death. When the tiger saw him lying on the ground after eating a red fruit, it thought that he had eaten a poisonous fruit and that he would poison himself if he ate it, so it turned away. The man dodged a bullet. In the busy life, we sometimes need this kind of peace of mind, live, we have to see more of this beautiful world, more perception of the five flavors of life, more experience this natural things. When life is coming to an end there will be no regrets, because we have worked hard and appreciated.
Learning to take things as they come, you can easily thwart many seemingly invincible difficulties in life. The world is unpredictable, so there is the saying that the sky is the limit. Most people who encountered things that are not as good as they would like, say that the sky is not beautiful, the sky will be fooled, inhibit people. The process of life is the situation, an irresistible objective reality, you can only let nature take its course.
The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of the situation and how it will affect your life.
Living comfortably, living happily, living in style, we must learn to live with the situation. The peace of mind is a noble state of life, who can achieve this state, whose life is good, whose life is hopeful, in life can get the sun.