Humble Mother's Love
Playing a child, his mother is a humble image in his heart.
When he was five years old, his father fell ill and spent all of the family's savings, but ultimately did not get well. After his father left, his mother became the only one he could rely on.
During the day, his mother took him to work in the field, and at night, the simple kang became the comfort of their mother and son. He loved to lie in the warmth of his mother's arms and listen to her tell those little stories that she had repeated so many times. He thought that such happy days would last forever.
But when he was seven years old, his mother sent him to a closed elementary school in the township, and then ignored his bawling and left.
From then on, he could only be picked up by his uncle once every half a month.
From then on, he could only be picked up by his uncle once every half a month, but every time he went home, he could no longer see his mother, and every time he cried and shouted to his uncle to ask for his mother, he always said, "Your mother went to earn money, how can I feed you if I don't have any money?
Gradually, he didn't cry or make a fuss, but he hated his mother from the bottom of his heart.
A year later, the mother finally came back.
The next day, he was taken by his mother on a long-distance bus, driving into a strange city. It turns out, already 32 years old and can not read a word of his mother, spent half a year in the city to learn to barber, and around the money to open a barbershop, a little profit, he received him around. The mother said that everything she did was because of him, the temporary separation, in order to be able to give him a better environment to survive, and a long time together.
He was then sent to a private elementary school by his mother. Just when his relationship with his mother had just improved, a chance bump into her collapsed her image in his eyes.
That day after school, just as he entered the store, he saw his mother get up from the sofa in a panic, a man still sitting there, and then glanced at him with a very impatient expression and left unhappily. Subsequently, many times in the store, he bumped into different men on the mother, but the mother in addition to instinctive dodge and currying awkward smile, never do any resistance, look so humble and helpless. Every time, he saw his eyes burning and his fists clenched, but every time, his mother would signal him with a nervous look to go inside and do his homework. He was filled with contempt and disgust for his mother's cowardice. There were even a few times when he fiercely yelled at his mother, "If you ever do that again, I'll leave the house!" The mother's eyes instantly overflowed with tears, and only after a long time did she cowardly say, "Son, we have to live!"
At that time, he did not understand, his mother's humble and they have to live what is the connection, is not to live without dignity? Since then, he began to fear and even hate to go home. He was so happy that he had to study hard to get out of the house.
At the age of 18, he was admitted to a university far away from his home, and in the eyes of his mother, he left without looking back. After graduating from college, he chose a city farther away from home to develop, and married and had children there. In the past few years, he only symbolically went home to see his mother a few times. And every time his mother saw him come back, her face smiled like a flower.
Over sixty years of age, his mother looked extraordinarily old, so old that her hair was white. He looked very touched, but how can not be affectionate to his mother, that has always been the birth of the distance between him and his mother pulled very far. In fact, since he became a father, the mustiness of his mother has begun to slowly dissolve, especially with the gradual growth of his son, his attitude towards his mother is also gradually changing.
The other day, he hesitated to take his mother from his hometown to his side, but unexpectedly received a phone call from his cousin, who told him that his mother was terminally ill and was dying, and he hoped that he could go back to see her one last time. When he rushed back to his hometown in a hurry, his mother was already as thin as a bone on the sickbed, even the strength to speak is gone. The first time I saw this, I was in the middle of a conversation with my mother, and I was so happy to hear that she was able to get to know me better.
On his deathbed, his mother gave him a 60,000 yuan passbook, which she said was all her savings, knowing that he was now ready to buy a house, and that's why she refused to go to the hospital for treatment. Afterwards, the mother took his hand, used his last strength to say: "Children, I know these years you have been blaming mom, but you know what? We have to survive, survive on what? It's not the store that mom owns. If I offend my customers, how can I support you? In order to you, mom can endure anything, but mom has never done anything out of the ordinary ...... "Finished, the mother closed her eyes forever.
Until this time, he finally woke up, his mother's humble just to raise him!
Instantly, he was in tears, tearing his heart out, shouting: "Mom, I'm sorry ......"
As long as you remember your good
He and she met in the network.
At that time, she just ended a relationship, is in the mood for the lowest. In a rainy afternoon, a net name "hero" of the man sent a friend application, originally, she is very little to add people, but look at the man full of net name, can not help but point to accept, they are so acquaintance. However, she was surprised that this is a little bit of light, but point out a heartbreaking online love.
She had very little online chat, but he had a lot to say. He not only humor, funny, wise, the most important thing is to understand, can always be just right to give her the warmth and understanding that she needs, his care, just become her special need to rely on. So, he naturally became her network in the most beautiful expectations, even his chat inadvertently revealed the domineering, in her eyes are a unique charm. I remember once, while chatting with him, she was also chatting with another person, when he knew, very angry, said: "In the future, I'm online when you have to chat with me alone, I'm not there when you can talk to someone else for a while, but only for a while!" His bullying surprisingly made her instantly feel happy, because in her opinion, such a kind of bullying is clearly a kind of care. Then later, they naturally fell in love online.
She is a woman who likes words, since the Internet love, will be in the space to write some happy mood text, and he, every morning on the first thing is to go to her space to see the log. He said, her log can let him feel loved happiness, such as if she did not update a day, he will ask why she did not write, but also because of his urging, but also has her daily log of persistence.
They are so happy online love, he will be every morning with QQ to wake her up: "Lazy girl, the get up. He will send her a good night message every night ...... love, let her sunshine again, and he, too, the same special enjoy the feelings, he said she gave him the feeling like first love, but better than first love.
However, such happiness lasted only three months. Later, she found that he was online less and less, and the time was shorter and shorter, and even sometimes a few days not online. His changes made her restless, and the explanation he gave was that the unit had recently been restructured, the system was tight, and he wasn't as free as he used to be, so he rarely went online. She would like to believe his every word, but she can not control their own emotions, can not restrain their own aggression, will always find a quarrel with him, she said that their requirements are not high, is the hope that every day to see his avatar light up a little bit, why he can not meet it? He said that such a request is too high for him now, because he is a man with a career and a circle of friends, it is impossible for him to meet her. His answer is even more aggrieved, and the number of quarrels with him is naturally increasing.
Finally, one day, he gave her XX message said: "I'm tired. "After that, no matter how she apologized, and begged for peace, the avatar there is no longer lit up, she called him in a panic, but the phone prompted his phone is out of service. Since then, he completely disappeared from her world. However, for some reason, since he left, she never hated him, on the contrary, every time she thought of the two people love each other, she would have a kind of reliving the sweetness of happiness. She still insisted on writing a journal every day, just by the words of happiness into the words of sadness, and then later, she found her journal was many space friends reproduced, the recognition of the netizens let her teenage that literary dream began to recover. So, she began to send to the website, was recognized by a number of stations, she boldly tried to go paper media, and ultimately, with her own share of persistence, one of their own words into the lead. She did not expect that his departure shattered her dream of love, but turned a corner and accomplished her dream of words.
Now, whenever he remembers him, remember that once made her heartbreaking online love, her heart only warm and grateful, she thought, if not him, she really do not know how to get through that difficult gray time, if not him, she could not have a warm and happy memories, if not him, it is impossible for her to have today's achievements. In a word, it is he who has changed himself, it is he who has accomplished himself, so whenever she thinks of him, her heart will have a warm touch.
Yes, when love has become a thing of the past, let us forget all the unhappy and resentful, only remember each other's good, then, this one love affair no matter to what time, bring you a unique warmth and beauty!
Interpretation of love
He and her marriage, is a typical product of parents' orders and matchmakers' words, which is still very common in the rural areas of the 90s.
The days of marriage are uneventful and happy, he earns money to support the family, she is a mother, so the marriage is also what she wants. The only shortcoming is that he never coaxed her, praise her. At the dinner table, she likes to ask him: today's meal is good? He did not raise his head every time, either saying that this dish is less flavorful, or that the dish is not tender enough, as if she did the meal is very difficult to meet his appetite. She would get angry every time she heard that, and would even gamble on being mean to him a few times. How could he not understand her heart? She just wanted to hear him praise herself, so that all the hard work for her would be turned into a kind of happiness, and it was her happiness to be able to give him satisfaction! However, in more than ten years, he had never said that her cooking was good, the sentence "not bad" was the highest praise for her! She didn't know if her cooking skills were really bad, or if he was just too demanding.
What's more, she's not sure if he's a good cook, or if he's just too demanding. Every time she sees her friends' couples showing love together, she has an indescribable envy and loss. They never celebrate their wedding anniversary, not to mention Valentine's Day and other foreign festivals. Sometimes she would intentionally tease him, "Hey, husband, today is Valentine's Day, and other people send flowers to their wives. He would pick up the conversation, "That's a young man's business, what's it got to do with us?" The first time I saw this, I was able to see the woman's face, and I was able to see her face.
Later, his organization closed down. Unemployed after he looked for work all over the world, has done salesman, temporary workers, and even tried to set up stalls to do a little business ...... Anyway, can earn money, he went to do, but every day hard labor, in exchange for the ticket is still difficult to make ends meet. She is not a vain person, more do not love to compare, but in the situation of not enough to make ends meet, will inevitably be born from time to time a little resentment, encountered when it does not go well, these grievances naturally turned into a sharp and mean language, splitting his head and face, regardless of the slamming to him. Every time I listen to her taunts, he is not smothered in smoke, is silent work, never with her contradictory, his stoicism so that she has a fire in the heart can not be ignited.
One day, he came back from the outside, very excited to her that he found a new job, the future of the family more than enough. She asked him what he was doing, and he said, courier. She was a bit puzzled, not knowing what a courier is all about. He explained to her that the courier is a daily door to door to send express mail to others, this is a good income industry, do a good job, you can earn more than 3,000 dollars a month it is a bit of hard work, there is no day off. Looking at nearly 40 years old, she was a little distressed: "Can you eat it?" "He was calm and confident: "How can't I eat? I have plenty of strength, enough to hold up the family!" His words, surprisingly, made her instantly tears wet eyes.
From then on, he got up every day before dawn, stomping on the electric tricycle to 20 miles away from the courier company to split the goods, and then full of downtown to the people to send express mail, but also to receive customers to send mail, busy until dark to go home. Hastily ate dinner, but also sit down to organize the day's delivery documents, to a pen scanning, photography, uploading, has been busy until late at night to finish things. She saw in the eyes, pain in the heart, but can not help him anything, the only thing to do is to take the initiative to undertake all the housework.
In his hard work, the days are getting better and better, but he is getting thinner and thinner every day. Looking at his weather-beaten face and the pair of wind cracked black hands, she said many times heartbroken, to not, we will change an easier job, less money does not matter, people do not suffer on the line. He smiled sunny: "Not afraid, as long as I can let you live comfortably, and then more hard work I am willing!" His sentence actually made her tears, looking at her pearly appearance, he suddenly showed his hands and feet at a loss. Looking at his silly look, she actually broke into tears in an instant, because she finally read his love, a "as long as you live comfortably, and then more hard I am also willing to", is not the best interpretation of his love for her?
So, she realized that there is a kind of love called - for you in this life, I am willing to work hard!
When you don't want to love yourself
When she met him, she was already a powerful woman in the shopping mall, and he was just a hairy guy who had just graduated from college. Her shrewdness and ability to make him worship, and his simple and lovely also let her heart like, although the two have a 9-year age gap, and she is a single mother, but all the obstacles in the front of the love is so insignificant, so in all the people do not look forward to, they are determined to hand in hand stepped into the wedding hall.
After marriage, he took care of her, she felt like the world's happiest woman: career prosperity, her husband is thoughtful, her daughter is smart and cute, she is like a favorite of fate, envy everyone around.
However, in the third year of her marriage, an accidental car accident brought all the happiness around her to an abrupt end. She lay in the hospital bed for a whole year, after the hospital, not only the career is gone, once the beauty and health also no longer exist, the sequelae make her have to take a lot of medicine every day, resulting in a serious deformation of the body. From the former strong woman all of a sudden turned into the present appearance, so that her self-confidence fell to pieces. As a result, she was depressed all day long and became more critical of her husband, always creating this and that kind of trouble in her family life to vent her emotions.
Her husband understands her feelings and cares more about them. He hopes that his love can help her regain her confidence! So for her unreasonable behavior, he mostly chooses to be patient and tolerant. However, his tolerance does not give her enough security, on the contrary, it will invite her to intensify the torture.
A decade has passed, their marriage is still in, but no one knows how much her husband has paid in this marriage, how much he has endured. When others asked him why he could last so long, he smiled bashfully, "Because I love her, so I married her, because I married her, so I have to be good to her all my life!" His answer touched everyone but her, because in this marriage, although he put up with her for more than ten years, but she did not buy it, she always felt that he was no longer as good to her as before, and she attributed all the reasons to her own before and after the fall.
Later, because of a small matter, she actually filed for divorce, and he couldn't let go. In order to save their marriage, they went on a TV mediation program.
Throughout the mediation, she was always sad and full of grief. After listening to their story, everyone was touched by her husband's 17 years of perseverance, and felt that their marriage was really not easy and should be cherished. Instead, she insisted on divorce, and when the host asked her why she had to get a divorce, she was full of complaints, "Because I'm not a strong woman now, and my body is out of shape, and even more so, I have no face, and he can't see me anymore, and doesn't pay attention to me anymore, so there is no point in the existence of our marriage anymore."
After listening to her words, a mediator laughed: "In fact, what you said all stems from your lack of confidence. You feel that your face is gone now, your body is gone, your career is gone, so you don't deserve love anymore. In fact, the fact that your husband was able to hold on to this marriage for 17 years shows that his love is still there. You complained the whole time, but your husband didn't have a single complaint, which means it's not that he doesn't love you anymore, but that you don't love yourself anymore. If you want your marriage to continue, the first thing to change is yourself. From today, you have to learn to discover the joy of life, for example, you can go out of the house to square dance, to do charity, or to have a trip with your husband. When you get out of the house, you will find that the sunshine is still beautiful and life is still good. And when you love life, your mood will also become beautiful, and at that time you will look at your marriage again, look at your husband, you won't have so much dissatisfaction and complaints, and your marriage will naturally be happy."
After listening to the mediator's words, she pondered. Her husband came over and held her hand and said, "Wife, I'm here, don't be afraid! In the past, I have done something wrong, I hope you can forgive, I will double the good to you in the future. Believe that I can help you out of the haze in the bottom of your heart, so that our marriage is more happy and beautiful."
Listening to her husband's confession, she finally showed a smile, but then in an instant put away the smile, and then a million grievances to all the mediators, "He still owes me a word!"
"Huh?" Her instant transformation let the mediators were very surprised, and then suddenly realized, asked in unison: "Your husband owes you is three words, right?" Her husband immediately said, "Honey, I'll add two more words, I love you forever!" Her husband's heartfelt confession made her smile instantly.
In the end, she and her husband held hands and made peace. At the end of the mediation, she said that in the future, she must be a confident and self-loving woman, and enjoy the beauty of life and marriage.
Yes, when a person doesn't even love himself, he can't see love in his eyes, and he can't feel love in his heart, so he just complains. So, be a confident and self-loving person from now on, because happiness will never fail a person who loves life!