In fact, the other side is doing this for a reason, we are in different environments, personal status is different, so the final choice will be different. Without knowing the actual situation of the other side, just relying on some one-sided news, rough observation and thinking, and can not simulate the other side of the optimal path.
2. Eagerness to take small advantages. After spending a lot of time, just to save a little bit of small money, complacent, but also happy to share their own experience. Even a simple decision can take days to "think through".
The truth is, you can't prioritize, you don't know how to get value for money. In some small things on the top of the consumption of too much energy, the really important things but do not have time to do.
3. Undiscriminating input, addicted to low-density, fragmented learning. Often feel that they have learned a lot, very rewarding, beat 99% of the people around them.
In fact, most of the content is gossip, paragraphs, chicken soup, handsome and beautiful short video, etc., not much nutritional content. Even if you see some fragmented dry goods, after a period of time basically forget, because not systematic, and will not go to review and apply.
4. don't get it, and summer bugs talk ice. You seem to have patience, you think about the other side, you want to rely on your own wisdom to persuade the other side, and you try to change the other side.
In fact, the other side of the cognition does not reach a certain realm, or the two people's outlook is completely different, and the other side of the talk more and more useless. It's like talking cat talk to a dog, and reasoning with someone who can't reason, it's pointless.
5.Work/class lazy fish, sneaky, but also complacent, that the boss, leadership, coworkers, teachers, classmates ...... are all fools.
In fact, the waste is their own time and future growth opportunities, everyone is not stupid, long-term, and will eventually let everyone feel disappointed, spurned.
6. They think they are very enthusiastic, like to help others, give favors, do things in the wind, often do not understand the situation on the rush to go up to help.
In fact, there is no eye, always give people a hand, and even people do not need other people's help, the result of a go, but destroyed the work of others.
7. Fortune, the pursuit of shortcuts. I thought I could be invincible after mastering the routine, and I expected good luck to come again after I succeeded once in a while.
In reality, the collapse of the three views, the loss of the moral bottom line, and even more wandering on the edge of the law, it seems as if faster than others. In reality, once the problem arises, there will be nothing, into the endless abyss.
8. A hard to pull out all the things they know, but also feel that they are very powerful, but also hope that the other side can also be sincere to treat.
In fact, the lack of heart, and sometimes even their own weaknesses are exposed to some ulterior motives.
9. Addicted to developing contacts. Always like to proclaim who they know, blindly aiming to know the gods, increase the number of friends, and enter certain high-end circles. Addicted to shallow networking.
The truth is, there is no exchangeable value in itself, it's all one-way links, and no one else knows him. Or just one side of the relationship, can not make the relationship further in-depth, but a lot of time is wasted.
10. overdraft body, for a little bit of money, for a little bit of honor, or other small profits, constantly consuming their own health.
In fact, the loss of their own health, to the later need to pay a greater price to "maintenance" and "repair" their own body.
11. Like to take advantage of small advantages, thinking that they are very clever, counting on others, never suffer, and take pleasure in this.
In fact, in the long run, we lost our hearts and minds, and in the end, we basically don't have any friends.
12. Obsessed with taking shortcuts, blindly seeking quick success.
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The truth is, focus on the skills, but ignored the process, a lot of things, need to accumulate, learning is not just to see and listen, but also need to have their own thinking, summarize, internalize, practice, reflection and a series of processes. Including some of the best books need to experience our own, and constantly improve personal thinking ability, summarize the ability.
13. Think a lot, can be called "deep thinking". I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it in a few minutes.
In fact, the worry is unfounded. Other people talk about marriage, it is associated with their own in case the time and the other half of the personality disagreement, divorce how to do? And in fact, none of them currently have a female/boyfriend.
14. Habitually staring at other people's mistakes, deny each other, elevate themselves. Always like to find each other broken, from others to find superiority, feel superior to others.
In fact, the time is wasted in some meaningless quarrels, for the sake of arguing, and very annoying. Slowly no one is around to play with him.
15. You don't know how to relax, and you're a hard worker, as if you're only working hard if you're utilizing every minute of your time. I've made a lot of plans and stuffed all my time to the brim, and I feel very fulfilled when I make plans.
In fact, the implementation of a very painful, this kind of a drum sprint can not last a long time, often halfway, but instead of making themselves more anxious. Even inefficient, three hours of output is not as good as an hour of people.
16. Everything seeks stability, extreme risk aversion, always want to have a foolproof plan, must be prepared to foolproof before starting. The slightest little accident, you feel out of control.
The truth is, you're always in the middle of a preparation, you're slow to get started, and you're blind to some of the good opportunities that come your way. Do not understand that the world is always changing, everything is not absolute, has its probability.
17. Blindly preaching, in the case of not understanding the other side, do not understand that the other side is suffering, blindly persuade the other side of the identity of the past. Let the other party to give up the pursuit of the dream, and then cited a large number of cases, until the other party eyes dimmed down, the life also lost hope.
In reality, it ruins people's lives and does them a lot of harm.
18. Over-interpretation, having learned some knowledge of human nature and the skill of reading people, you habitually and blindly interpret other people's behavior and think that you see through each other.
In fact, the blind application, they do not have a certain amount of experience and experience, but in vain a lot of jokes.
19. Refusing to share your good intentions with others, you feel like you're bothering them, and you feel like you know how to take care of others.
In fact, the other side of the special time to come over to give everyone to share things, he did not accept, but let people embarrassed, lost face. In the end, he was also out of touch with everyone, giving people an impression of being out of touch.
20. Always like to show yourself, show superiority. When others speak, they always refute each other and show their own knowledge.
In fact, the result is either to be stared at, or to be cynical, always showing off, and the result has become a typical case of the gun hitting the head.
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