1 Giving the kids to the mother in law's mom is called looking toward the mother in law? Selfish? Don't be ridiculous, okay?
2, judging from what you said above about the distance from her flat to your home and hers, your two families actually live very close to each other, and you can probably meet up with them after dinner when you go to the plaza for square dancing. Your mom wants to enjoy bringing up her grandchildren? Have you ever asked your mom? Do you know how hard it is to bring up a child? The daytime work at night with the child, not to mention your mom, even our young people are almost unable to eat.
3, most women will have post-partum depression after giving birth to a child, so don't expect your wife to get along with your mom. The best way for a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along is actually to respect each other.
4, your wife is smart enough to extract to circumvent some of the mother-in-law problems. You said yourself, your parents are still working, so bring your wife and kids home every weekend, isn't that the best? You are a really bad person. You should be thankful that your mother in law is willing to take your kids.
5, of course you will want to live in your own home after you get pregnant, ask your mom, when she was pregnant with you, did she want to go back and live with your grandma or your grandma?
6, you are very selfish, you have always been in your position to say your wife, you do not forget, you have been living with your mom, but she is not, she can not do as natural as you close. You keep saying your parents are good to her, that's just what you think is good, right? She's so resistant, something must have happened. Have you tried communicating with her?
7, what do you mean by marrying you, you have to take care of your family more? That really sounds particularly annoying.
8, you are a mommy's boy, identified!