Working hard is not about living the life you want, but about staying away from the life you don't want.

College friend Changchang posted a few more photos of her outing in a group formed by a few of our good friends.

She went to South Korea with her mom two days ago, and this time she went to Xiamen, all by herself with a backpack. In the time when I and other bitterly entangled with the various choices of life and life, she has long completed the turn around magnificently and started to enjoy the state of life.

The photo of her standing on the beach, her back to the sunset, her hair fluttering in the wind, wearing a beautiful dress, a wonderful figure, backlighting her, hazy especially beautiful.

But who would have thought that two years ago, she was still in Inner Mongolia, a power plant doing a small accountant, take a month two thousand dollars in salary, every day and the factory workers, wearing fat blue rags overalls, live every day want to eat a piece of fruit have to run to a place far away to buy life.

Now she is a master's student at the Central University of Finance and Economics, and when she interviewed with a securities company, she beat out many graduates from the Qingbei University and got an internship in the investment banking department.

All of this comes from her choice not to give herself a way out, and her desire to desperately escape from a life she doesn't like.

In college, we were in the same class and lived next door to each other in the dormitory, so we were naturally closer.

In the four years of college, she was like us ordinary girls, living her own life, shopping, watching American dramas, occasionally skipping a class, worrying about the four or six grades, staying up all night for the final exams, and helping to convey a message as a group secretary.

Without the experience of those bulls on campus, there is no internship experience that can be said to be out of the mouth, the university is too easy, the exams did not get in, coupled with that year is known as the history of the "most difficult employment season", when she began to look for a job, it is already a little late, interviewed a number of them, have not succeeded. Later, the family was able to trust someone to help her find a small accounting job in an electric power enterprise.

The electric power enterprise is a good enterprise, the state-owned enterprise ah, stable, but to stay in a suburb of Inner Mongolia for a few years before it is possible to transfer back to the city. Although the smooth is not a rich second generation, but the family level of well-off or can reach, let her go to the kind of hard place, every day, yellow sand flying, and no relatives and friends, she is really not willing to heart.

But there is no way, many times in life, your final choice, in fact, there is no choice. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on a new job, and you'll be able to do it in a way that's easy for you.

In this way, she had no choice but to sign the contract, a person on a ten-hour train ride, opened her life in the suburbs of Inner Mongolia.

Starting to work Changchang was not happy at all. Professionals like us, we signed most of the banks or accounting firms of a kind, these for accounting graduates would have been very good. We are all on the same starting line, but when we see that everyone is signing up for a better job than her, she said that at that time, compared to her own job, she was really not happy every day.

Her work environment is in the factory, every day to wear and workers the same overalls, which is simply a particularly big test for her love of beauty.

Most of the accountants in the factory are over 35 years old, they are comfortable with the status quo, basically want to rely on the unit pensioners, talking about the topic of smooth a sentence can not be inserted into the mouth.

There are very few recreational measures around the workplace, and even going to a supermarket is a long way to go, so I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to spend the two thousand dollars that I've just spent!

If we hadn't heard that there were some policy changes in the organization, we might not have been able to go back to the city for a while, but we might have been able to work in such an environment.

At that time, she suddenly began to despair of the future, she thought she was only 24 years old, is it possible to live like this for the rest of your life?

At that time, she suddenly began to despair of the future, she thought she was only 24 years old, is this the way to spend your life?

Chang Chang clearly heard her inner voice shouting "no", she knew that the life she wanted was very far away, but the current state is her least favorite state of life.

Sometimes, working hard doesn't necessarily lead you to the life you want, but it can help you get rid of the life you hate.

Chang Chang decided to try to change this state, quit his job, and focus on going home to prepare for graduate school.

The process was grueling.

The family didn't understand, thinking that it was a very stable job, and that it was too risky to give up such an iron rice bowl to go to a graduate school, which is still not a sure thing.

The people around us also questioned the sound.

These are the first time I've ever seen a person with a high school diploma, and I've never seen a person with a high school diploma, so I don't know if I've ever seen one.

At that time, the smooth is completely backwater, she said she was a thought, since the choice, then choose a better, in case the test? The only thing that motivates her is that she doesn't want to go back to the old days.

With the intention of getting rid of her previous life, she worked harder than ever, because she had no choice. From the beginning of the preparation for graduate school exams, every day at 6:00 a.m. to get up to go to the library unimpeded; cell phone resolutely do not bring, almost can not find her during the day, she will have been in the study room to learn at 10:00 back; in the middle of the refused to anyone's invitation to go shopping to see a movie, and even uninstalled the microblogging, do not brush the circle of friends do not look at the microblogging.

More than half a year of hard work, she never slacked off, and did not think about what to do if she did not pass the exam, just like a small train full of power, keep running forward, just to put that bad day far behind.

Maybe after the real effort, life will be like a hang on all the way, God seems to such a child extraordinarily favorable.

Chang Chang's postgraduate studies were in the accounting program of the Central University of Finance and Economics. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers," he said. "I'm not sure if I'm going to be able to do that," he said.

Now, we can finally see that her friend circle is not basking in some selfies in overalls and self-deprecating words, but all kinds of company gatherings and photos of her own travels. I don't know if this is the kind of life she wants to live, but I do know that she is trying to stay away from the life she hates so much.

But not all people have the same drive and courage as her.

How many people like me, every day like a bitch like complaining about colleagues, complaining about the leadership, especially hate the current state of life, but let yourself really go to work to change this state of affairs, and then think about it, afraid of East and West. ...

In this world, in addition to buying a lottery ticket, where is the trial and error cost is particularly small but can quickly know the results of things?

Which one of the people who really made the decision and choice, not in the inner experience of eighteen heavenly thunder nine fire torment?

If you haven't made a choice and don't want to work hard to get rid of the status quo, it's not that your ideal life isn't attractive enough for you, but that you're still tolerant of your current situation.

Since you can tolerate it, you can complain about it, complain about it, worry about it, and get lost in it!

Mr. Classical, in "What's Possible in Your Life", said that when people face problems, they generally have the following state: face problems - security - seeking perfection - entangled in not choosing - procrastination - things get worse. worse (either you have to choose one or you can't choose either) - low self-esteem - more insecurity.

The inability to choose is nothing more than the fear of the uncertainty that comes with choosing, because people are hoping that the choices they have given up so much will lead to good and better results. In this world, not even a fortune teller can guarantee that the outcome of your choice will be good.

So many people are in the midst of entanglement and hesitation, and continue to live a life they do not like, muddling through.

If you really want to get rid of this state, you must do to yourself to the bottom of the decisive, I am to tell myself, I really do not want to do this job, in the dry down I may have to get depressed, so dare to boldly resign to go.

It's been a long time since I've had a chance to work on my own, and I'm sure I'll be able to find a way to make it work!

This is the first time I've ever seen a person with a bad attitude, and I'm not sure if it's a good idea to do so.

I don't know if I can live the life I want, but what prompted me to go forward is that I really don't want to live like this anymore.

No one can say the choice in the end right or wrong, consulting how many people are useless, the key lies in their own heart. You clearly have a voice in your heart to tell yourself that you want to go out, want to see the outside world, even if other people again advise you to stabilize you will not be willing.

Even if you listen to the opinions of the people around you and live a life that they feel is normal, you won't be happy, and you may regret it for the rest of your life in the ordinary life afterward.

Choose your heart, at least the worst will only regret for a while.

If you don't like the current state, you should try to change it. If you live with a lot of negative energy every day, you won't be able to see it.

Besides, many people do not really go to change their own or the environment to do something, most of the people are in the complaint, in the measurement, in the compromise, in the day to day vain to completely have no choice of the day.

I have tried to adapt to this environment and life, but more and more I find myself very hate this state, I can not adapt, so I try, just to get out of here, just to get away from those I am not accustomed to and can not do away with people.

There are times when you don't know why you're struggling, look at your surroundings and tell yourself that you can only leave here handsomely if you work hard.

Since you can not change the world, then change yourself to go.