How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? There are always various relationships in our life, such as husband-wife relationship, parent-child relationship and mother-in-law relationship, which are all very important. There is no shortcut to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but there are some ways to make the relationship develop healthily. So, what are the ways for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along? How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law 1 1 Whether you love it or not, you should at least know how to respect the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The most fundamental point is that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't really regard each other as their own family. If you are a newly married woman, whether you like your mother-in-law or not, first of all, you can't love her as much as you love your mother. Please at least respect her, even if you are not satisfied with some of her living habits and behaviors, respect their self-choice and give each other some space. 2. Love your husband and cherish the happiness of your family. Everyone says that most mother-in-law will think that daughter-in-law has robbed her son of love, so never show love to her husband in front of her mother-in-law. In fact, on the contrary, when the mother-in-law sees the sweetness of your husband and wife, which mother will have the heart to bully you and embarrass him when she sees her son so happy? Therefore, properly showing your love for your husband in front of your mother-in-law will make her like you more. 3. Be good neighbors and don't make enemies with others. The older generation pays the most attention to the reputation between neighbors. Therefore, if possible, try to make good relations with neighbors and leave a good impression on them, so that mother-in-law will feel very proud in front of neighbors. Daughter-in-law is the representative of the whole family. If you have a good reputation outside, she will have face, and naturally it is impossible to give you a look. 4, can do housework, even if it is rarely done, every mother-in-law wants her daughter-in-law to be an expert in family management, but now many girls don't know how to do housework. If you want to be a good wife in the eyes of your mother-in-law, you don't have to be good at housework, but at least you have to be able to do some simple housework, even if it is rare, especially in front of your mother-in-law. Let her see your determination and entrust your son to you. How to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law As a son and husband at home, we must be good at reconciling the relationship between wife and mother. If you accidentally have a conflict, you don't want to let each other go, and you can't save face and apologize to each other. Then at this time, you need a man to mediate between them and say something nice in front of them, such as family and everything, so as to solve the contradictions between them, which can play a great role. If your mother and wife are really quarreling, then it's time for you to appear as a husband. You should have the courage to transfer the contradiction to yourself, take the initiative to be a punching bag between them, and try not to let them take it out on each other, because in any case, you are also the son of your mother and the husband of your wife, and naturally they are not easy to talk about. When there is a contradiction, men should come out and stir it up properly, as an advertisement says, which may be familiar to everyone. My mother says Chinese medicine is good and my wife says western medicine is good, so at this time you can only say that the combination of Chinese and western medicine is better, because at this time you can't say one side is good in front of two people, which will only make the contradiction between them more serious. So we can only mix it up and adopt the method of "two don't offend" to alleviate this situation. A neutral man's position in the family is also important. Never help a parent or wife. Don't take sides. Don't give people the feeling of marrying a daughter-in-law and forgetting her mother. Don't give the impression that you only want affection and don't love your wife. Remember to buy a gift for your wife on March 8th or Mother's Day. Many inexplicable things often happen to women, and there is nothing between them that cannot be solved. The key is to see how we handle it.