How to spend the rest of your life if you are old and your partner is gone first and your children don't want to take care of you?

Everyone starts to get old when they are young, no one can avoid it, even if they love each other again, it is impossible to grow old together, there is always one person who goes first, in this respect, everyone is lonely to spend the last time, no one can avoid it.

We are 72 years old here, the body is very good, life has not found a partner, not married, more children, but he lived a very happy.

Dashing and happy all his life, he was a handsome man when he was young, and there were a lot of women who took the initiative to pursue him, but he didn't say yes, why? He did not want to harm those women, because of an accident, at the age of 25, he lost the ability of men.

In order to cure himself, his parents took him to see a lot of doctors, ate a lot of medicine, still no effect. However, he was blessed by the misfortune and became a doctor himself. He couldn't cure his own disease, but he could cure others' disease and see for others, and through self-learning he also became a country doctor recognized by the state.

In the countryside, he is an indispensable figure, what disease will cure, Chinese medicine, Western medicine, internal medicine, surgery, gynecology know, ten miles and eight townships of the villagers are looking for him, but also for many villagers cured the disease, the villagers in the eyes of the good man, good doctor.

But also earned a lot of money by seeing patients, bought a house in the county, free to live in the county for a few days, his most trusted apprentice, to help him take care of everything, he is now rarely to see a doctor, free to go to leisure and fun, very happy.

Square dance, smart phones, computers he learned to use, people old heart is not old, but also very optimistic, and not lonely, but also pay attention to the health of the body, from the outside, is an old man of more than 60 years.

Wang moncler outlet store, it is much worse than him, gave birth to five sons, but none of the sons filial piety him, young when he squeezed him, for the five sons to build a house to marry, the old, none of the sons want to care about him.

No pension, no pension money, all rely on the son's eyes, he can move to work on their own, once, sick, lying in bed for five days, no one cared, it is the village headman can not see past, afraid of death, called people to send to the hospital.

However, five sons who do not want to pay the medical bills, and do not want to take the old man home, the village head a son, a son to call, and even scolded, those sons are willing to see the old man in the hospital.

But for who pays the medical bills, the quarrel is endless, but is more than 5000 yuan, who say they are difficult, can not afford, will pay a few more dollars, less afford a few dollars, the noise is a mess.

Each said that they have suffered, dislike the old man, the doctor got angry, and then do not pay the money, their old man will be dead, those sons only to stop arguing, hurriedly pay the money, go, one more than one run fast, the old man left in the hospital regardless of the village head later on, the village head took a great deal of effort to open a number of parents, they agreed to take turns to provide for the old man.

In the old man's disease is not yet completely good treatment, the old man took out of the hospital, the old man's life can be miserable, tossed two months later, the old man died, those filial sons and daughters of filial piety become generous, big manipulation, reportedly spent tens of thousands of dollars, but none of them said that their filial piety, everyone behind the back of the scolding them unfilial son.

People are old, if this situation occurs, as the widowed elderly party, should be prepared for these five aspects.

First of all, to y realize in their own thinking, people's old age, sickness and death is God's will. It is the inevitable law of life, no one can live forever. Husband and wife, no matter how much love, but also never the same year, the same month, the same day to die, there is always a first death is certain. Don't be too sad, as soon as possible, from the grief out of the pain. Correctly face the fact of loss of companionship. The first thing you need to do is to get ready for the next stage of your life.

With this kind of mentality, you will not be in the pain of the loss of a spouse for a long time, so that they will soon be self relieved. People say that the mind determines everything, with this kind of mind, you can in a short time, jump out of the pain of the loss of companionship, so that their hearts return to normal, correctly face the loss of spouse after the orderly life.

Secondly, when their emotions are stable, according to their age, physical condition, economic conditions and other survival ability. The first thing you need to do is to consider whether or not you need to find a suitable companion to accompany you for the rest of your life.

If conditions permit, it is ideal to find a companion. This is a great way to get the most out of your life, and it's a great way to get the most out of your life, and it's a great way to get the most out of your life. The two people days, can be mutually considerate and care. In the house someone to chat not lonely, go out with someone in a good mood. Especially if you have a headache, fever or cold, there will be someone in front of your bed to bring you water and medicine. The three menus a day are guaranteed, and if you are hospitalized, there is someone to accompany you. This is the only best choice for a lost spouse.

Thirdly, if you are in a better financial position, you don't want to find a partner. The first thing you need to do is to choose a nursing home that has better conditions and first-class service. The good conditions and services, will certainly be charged high, but their own funds allow, can afford to pay. In this kind of nursing home to spend their twilight years, can also be said to be happy.

Fourth, the above two "two, three", if they are not as a choice. If you are willing to live on your own for the rest of your life, you can't be afraid of the arc alone. The body is fine, but when you get old and have trouble walking, or lose the ability to take care of yourself, you will have a lot of problems. Want to drink a mouthful of hot water, they can not boil, want to eat a delicious meal lei no one to do. It is really pitiful that if one breaks down and stops breathing, there is no one to report to in the first place. This is a very common example in our society.

Lastly, no matter what kind of lifestyle you choose, don't forget to make sure you have a healthy body after you lose your spouse. It is a universal human knowledge that good health is a blessing. Since you are a rich man with a lot of money, without a healthy body, money becomes paper. Even if you have money, you can't spend it. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.

Therefore, for every old man, health is the best experience.

This is the first time I've ever seen a person with a healthy body, and I've never seen one.

People say, the happiness of the elderly, must have five have four must have to have a happy old age.

The four have: a companion, a nest, an old capital, a few friends, a healthy body;

The four must have: the old have something to rely on, the old have something to do, the old have something to enjoy, the old have something to enjoy. To have these conditions, a healthy body is the prerequisite is a guarantee.

According to the question, the five suggestions for reference, please criticize and advise.

I'm 62 years old, I've been to the countryside, I've been a soldier, I've been laid off, and I've had a bad life: I've been married to two women. The second woman in my 5O years of age when I was laid off transferred away several hundred thousand deposits and broke up with me. I have not been afraid, continue to work hard to earn money. Now I've been retired for several years and have granddaughters and grandsons. I have a granddaughter and grandson, and a pension of more than 4,000, I like to be alone, free and easy. A lot of people introduced me to the female I was afraid did not agree, I feel - personal life is also happy, they will do the laundry will cook, on the Internet, comrades of the students group to play also happy, in case the day of the body can not be afraid of, early and late to go, we all have to go.