Can't squeeze into the world don't squeeze,
Can't go down the road don't go,
Unworthy of love don't love ......
A relationship of unsuitable, in fact, often from the very beginning can be seen pretty much, and combined with a two people The first thing you need to do is to get together with your friends and family, and then you will be able to get to know each other.
The following is my judgment standard, often in line with these characteristics of the partner, basically, are not suitable:
1. The character of the two people are relatively introverted, do not like to express, not willing to show their inner thoughts. Often such two people together, after having an opinion is not willing to say it directly, the two people's contradictions will only continue to accumulate under until one day completely broke out.
2. At least one person, for the feelings is very indifferent state: for each other encountered problems have no patience, for each other's emotional changes and sadness and pain did not respond, have been doing their own things. This kind of relationship from the beginning, the other person actually just need a person to play the role of their other half, not at all care about the relationship.
3. two people's feelings, there is a person's variables are particularly large: for example, students at school, such as just entering the community of newcomers to the workplace, such as a person may be a long time to go to the field to work and study ....... In the relationship, the most afraid of a person full of variables, variables often mean instability, it is easy to let the other party can not embrace the change, then the relationship is very easy to collapse.
4. A person is very self, never willing to do anything to change for the other party, they only think about running their own life. The other half of the differences between the two people, they tend to say "I'm this way" "I've never been this way" ...... There are inevitable differences between the two people, but the other side is not willing to change for you, it can only show that your inappropriateness is hopeless, the other side is not even willing to repair.
5. two people between the door is not right, but the two sides have always been aware of, but also do not pay attention to this issue, resulting in the end of the real face of reality, because before not seriously think about this issue, resulting in the collapse of this relationship.
6. two people, if there is a person's family of origin is very unhappy, if there is a person has a growth shadow caused by mental illness, then this relationship must be difficult to long - often psychological defects in the person, if you can't in time to self-healing, then it may be in a relationship in the half of the other half to spend time with the other half is also pulled down. The other half of the relationship may be pulled down as well. There are too many cases where a person has an inner disease and repeatedly punishes his or her partner with the disease inside him or her.
7. If the two people have been together for too long, for example, the guy has been pursuing the girl for a year or two before she got together with him, then the relationship is not going to last long because the other person has been trying to retain the relationship with "touch", with "obedience", and with "love". The reason for this is that the other person has been trying to stay in the relationship by "moving" and "obeying" to keep the other half of the family by their side.