Definitely believe in love.
If a girl tells you that my mom got divorced 5 times, my grandma got divorced 2 times, I got divorced too, and that none of the marriages in my family were happy, do you still believe in love?
Then I would definitely tell you that of course I believe in love. Because there are many, many reasons why couples get divorced while ****ing together to run a marriage. Everyone initially gets married with the attitude of growing old together, no one says I'll get divorced if I get married.
But why are there such instances of grandmothers, mothers, and even themselves getting divorced in families? It's not because they don't believe in love or marriage. It's because the environment she grew up in gave her too much influence. After their own married life encountered problems, did not communicate with each other, to solve the problem, but with the attitude that my life is not happy big deal I also divorce.
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Because the girl who thinks this way grew up in a family environment with a broken marriage, the influence of the family led to her not believing in marriage, and the "big deal is divorce" is the attitude of this kind of person towards marriage.
So, childhood is very influential in one's life, and the family atmosphere at an early age is crucial.
If one grows up in a family that is harmonious and full of love. If all you see is a beautiful world and a happy marriage, you will be more likely to believe in the beauty of love and hope that your married life will be as loving and beautiful as your parents'.
If a child grows up in a family that is not in harmony, where the parents often fight, have cold wars, are violent, and are even separated or divorced, this will leave a shadow on the child's young mind. Low self-esteem, loneliness, disbelief in marriage and fear of marriage will accompany her throughout her life.
But we still have to believe in love.
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Yesterday I watched a video, the boy in order to give a gift to his girlfriend in 520, hidden from his girlfriend after work to deliver takeaways as a part-time job, and the girlfriend is also in a milk tea store part-time job. When the boyfriend had a chance encounter with his girlfriend while delivering takeaways, the girlfriend didn't dislike or complain, but hugged the boy without any hesitation. In this materialistic world, what reason do you have not to believe in love when you see such a scene.
First of all, love is beautiful. What love does to you lies in your attitude toward it. You treat it with skepticism, it returns you the same skeptical love. So, to have good love, change your mind and set your attitude.
Secondly, it is true that the life of the ordinary talk is true. How romantic love, it has to return to the plain family one day. Therefore, we do not need to pursue a variety of romantic life every day, and do not pursue a variety of ways to express love, as long as each other care, care, care, is the existence of love.
Lastly, love is not a person's business, is built on the basis of equality between the two sides of the family, to understand each other, trust each other, mutual tolerance, mutual respect, and have each other's space. This will have a long-lasting love marriage life.
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Finally, children boldly go to believe in love! The vast majority of families in this world are still happy than those with unhappy marriages. As long as you believe that your love and marriage is good, love will return the same life to you. Two people hold each other's hands, do not forget the beginning of the heart, *** with the same efforts, tolerance, want to love walk through life.