Life, the need to sow the sunshine of wisdom, and beauty is precisely derived from living wisely, so that we can experience the fullness of the process to bring us the cleansing of the mind and the pleasure of the spirit . The bright lights need wisdom to lead the life, and the desperate need to use wisdom to life and death competition.
The wisdom of life that is the face of challenges can be more courage to overcome it, less timid mood; wisdom of life is the face of opportunity can be more confident full of charm, less give up the idea; wisdom of life is the face of the process can be more to experience the passion of it, less to look forward to the feelings ------ and it is the wisdom of life, we can enjoy in the wisdom of the The beauty and happiness. So that we can enjoy the "a glimpse of the mountains" of the magnificent, experience "born to be useful" of the bold, to share the "willow bank dawn wind and moon" of the mood. At this point we no longer seem to be concerned about the number of gains and losses, but more importantly, we have a history of sensational struggle and the dashing ambition.
Beauty, from the wisdom of life.
People will win. The heart-wrenching Sichuan earthquake has brought people the destruction of their homes, the separation of loved ones and the trauma of their hearts. However, the ruins also show the charm of life. That is the miracle of survival, is the wisdom of life's magnificent song. 104 hours, 109 hours, 140 hours ------ Perhaps they have long been without the material support of life, but the wisdom of the green umbrella of life for them, they use the source of wisdom in the edge of the struggle between life and death, did not give up, and will never give up - life! respect is too noble. Accordingly, they also realized that the value of life lies in the experience, the experience of the life and death of the competition of hardship and suffering, and more experience of life is how valuable and time is how important. Perhaps gain or loss is no longer important, life and death is no longer panic. But the strength of their struggle gives people the inspiration of the heart and the shock of the spirit. Perhaps some of them have long been happy to enter the paradise, in their own conscience, not in vain, even if wandering between life and death also chose to use wisdom to fight with the god of death, this is a kind of happy people and strugglers!
Beauty, from the wisdom of life.
How can we experience this beauty in our lives?
Life requires us to ignite passion with confidence, gain hope with effort, and impress the heart with sincerity. Wisdom is synonymous with all the beautiful emotions, do not be low-key but should be introspective, not pessimistic but should be calm, not complacent but should be confident, not inferior but should be self-awareness, so that the wisdom to dominate the life of the free life, enjoy the beauty.
Live with wisdom. Friends, with love to light up the future, with love to impress the world, so that you can experience the life process of the beauty of the moment. Enjoy the beauty, and more importantly, enjoy life! Believe that beauty comes from a life of wisdom.
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The wisdom of life
What kind of mind a person has, what kind of world he has. Man is a slave to his own perceptions. The success or failure of a person's life, honor or disgrace, gain or loss, all because of their own ideas and play a huge role. To make yourself happy, mental relaxation, we must change their minds those wrong ideas, paranoid thinking inertia, learn to give up, learn to let go, but also learn to forget.
1, fantasy ----- the giant of thought, action of the dwarf
When people encounter frustration or difficult to solve the problem, they will be detached from the actual, think of the wrong, put themselves into the world of imagination, trying to cope with the frustration of the fictional way to get satisfaction. Daydreaming is a kind of fantasy. If daydreaming replaces meaningful action, it will become a means of escaping from reality, and it may also become a sign of perversion of the heart and develop into fantasia. Fantasy is beautiful, reality is cruel. Fantasy is just a feeling, if you want to be successful in life, you should be based on reality, especially when dealing with people, not to be unrealistic, otherwise you will not be able to solve the problem practically, and seek change and development.
2, negative ----- on the reality of the retreat in the escape
Negative people tend to give a kind of false impression of fame and fortune, in fact, their hearts are extremely empty, and to treat things is also negative. This kind of people do not want to do anything, nothing to do, even if there is a strong ability, life will be nothing. Negativity and positivity lie in the difference between perception and realization. Walking in a road with too much information, too much desire and too much competition in life, we always have a few worries, a few more uncertainty, and often some helplessness. But in order to succeed in business and live a happy life, we must establish a positive mindset. Give yourself a hope every day, you will have a good mood, your mind is often your real master.
3, conceited ----- ignorance of the self-expansion
Confidence is very important, there is no doubt, but if the "excessive" confidence will become "conceited". There is a degree between "self-confidence" and "conceit", but many people have been so successful and self-inflated that they have fallen into the trap of conceit. Conceit sometimes takes the form of arrogance, believing that one can do anything, overestimating oneself, and looking down on those around one. As a result, conceited people often fall into a manic state, and ultimately lead to failure.
4, hasty ----- the root cause of the losers
Life is often the case, some people do not think when encountering things, hasty decision and then regret, and sometimes even cause irreparable situation. However, there is no medicine for regret in this world, we can't predict tomorrow, so the success or failure of many things often depends on whether we are prudent and careful or rash and reckless. The reason why some people fail may be their lack of thinking and preparation, while those who are sensible are always after careful consideration before taking action, so such people are most likely to succeed.
5, arrogance ----- unsupported dignity
Often said: "The sky does not say since the high, the ground does not say since the thick." Generally speaking, the more people know something will be more modest, and know less, the smaller the volume of people will be more arrogant, so we can say that arrogance is a combination of vanity and half-knowledge. Excessive arrogance of the people to put a "high and mighty, can not be worldly" attitude, which often make them by other people's resentment, so that they are everywhere in the wall, difficult to move forward.
6, suspicious of ----- the shackles of the mind from nothing
Ancient saying has it: "know each other, do not know each other", in fact, this sentence can be reversed to say, do not know each other, in order to know each other. But suspicion is one of the weaknesses of human nature, and has always been the root of the trouble. Doubtfulness will make people habitually think of every thing around them in a bad and negative way, once a person falls into the trap of suspicion it is easy to be paranoid about everything, so that other people also have doubts about themselves, which is unfavorable to normal interpersonal relationships, and suspicion will eventually put themselves into tension and anxiety.
7, extravagance ----- when you have money to swing, no money to starve
Luxury is a poison, once dabbling in it, it will continue to spread out, and spread very quickly, the ripple effect is very wide, a person began to pursue a life of luxury, then, the people around them will soon be extravagant. Waste is the greatest crime, if you waste time, it is consuming life; if you waste money, then you are on the road to perdition.
8. Self-isolation ----- draws a prison, shutting the world out
Close yourself up, you can hide from the wind and rain, but the sun can't come in. A person who can open his heart to the sun is never autistic. If you have a sunshine-like mentality, you will not lose yourself in depression and loss, and you will not lose your direction. Correctly assess their own value, and let themselves continue to "value-added", which is a positive attitude, so that your life will not be in vain, will feel that every day is meaningful.
9, paranoia ----- favoring self-obsession
It is undoubtedly a commendable quality to have an opinion, to have a brain, not to follow the voice of the world, not to be with the world of the floating, but it should not be paranoia, not paranoia and obstinacy as a prerequisite. Whether it is to do or to do, the mind should have a dialectical point of view, die in a corner, sitting in a well, take their own prejudice as the truth, and to the death, this is a great taboo in the world, if we can not correct this attitude in time, it is likely to be into the dead end of the life of the wrong, can not be extracted from the body.
10, quick success ----- do not think long-term "myopic eye"
Short-sightedness of the quick success of the short-sightedness of the people, a blindfold, do not see Mt. as long as the smell of sesame, will forget the watermelon sweet. The vision can only see the immediate, the so-called "headache, treat the feet", is the way of behavior of the people who have always been eager to get close to profit. In order to get rid of the immediate situation, these people can disregard the interests of the future, only to seek a momentary pleasure, but not long-term consideration. The results often outweigh the losses.
11, greed ----- poverty of the mind, the root of the disaster
People live in reality, it is impossible to live without desire, desire, the desire for money, so that many people become greedy. It is true that money is the basic security of people's lives, but after solving the needs of life, can not be greedy. As the old saying goes, "More greed is better than less." People should have a degree of desire for money, if more than the degree should find a way to make themselves stop, not because of excessive greed in exchange for the regrettable results.
12, unprincipled ----- discarded morality
Interests in life are often sought after, and even some people like to put their own all the norms are equated with interests. When dealing with one's loved ones, friends and other people, one's own interests are always at the forefront of one's mind at all times. Admittedly, for many people, interests are very important, but if the interests of their own work as a criterion, then in the end, the people who do so can only be lifting a stone to stone their own feet. Interests can sometimes be a trap for others to lure them into, and those who take interests as their criterion have a much greater chance of falling into the trap than of jumping over it.
13. Jealousy ----- denigrates the achievements of others and exposes one's own incompetence
Jealousy is a tumor on the human heart. Jealousy can make a beautiful person become ugly, can make a passionate person become cold as ice. Jealousy is a kind of hateful feelings, people with jealousy, see others better than themselves, better than their own luck, will hate to gnash their teeth; and see others worse than their own luck, not as good as themselves, will be smug. Such feelings, interpersonal relationships will have an extremely negative impact. People should look at the world with an open heart, because jealousy can only send people to the edge of madness, collapse, and will not allow people to get good and happy.
14, stubborn ----- chair coiled in the mind of the root of the stupidity
Stubbornness is a kind of adhere to the stereotypes, do not know how to adapt to the psychological phenomenon. The people's perception of things, as well as the value of things to judge through their own values to complete, which itself is with extremely strong subjective color. If one's perception of a thing is wrong, but one is unwilling to accept the opinions of others for effective correction, one will add to one's mistakes. Stubbornness is not a close synonym for persistence. In fact, to open the shackles of stubbornness is not a difficult thing, as long as you can correct their own wrong views in a timely manner, and effectively accept new things, it is easy to open the shackles of the mind of stubbornness.
15, light promise and little faith ----- light promise and little faith, more easy will be more difficult
Integrity for the foundation of the body, to achieve integrity, the important point is not easy to promise, so as to avoid treachery. If you promise someone something without thinking it through, and then fail to do it afterward, such a person will not be able to gain the trust of others. If you promise someone something, you have to do it, and you have to keep your word. Confucius said, "The people cannot stand without faith." One's words and deeds should be based on honesty.
16, Zhang Yang ----- shallow friends
With the Zhang Yang character of arrogance, overbearing, sharp, too exposed, words and deeds are easy to attract criticism, hurt people hurt themselves, so do be careful with their words. "Modesty gains, fullness loses." Whether it is full of talent or full of ambition, should not be high, proud and arrogant, but should give full play to their own talent at the same time put away the sharpness, low-key in the world. "Laozi" said: "do not see, so bright; not since is, so manifest; not since the logging, so successful; not self-promoting, so long." Even if you have talent and ambition, no need to be pessimistic or complain about the unfairness of life, to do so in a calm manner, with a low profile.
17, vanity ----- all the evils around vanity
Vanity is the pursuit of personal glory and the surface of the halo, in order to win the admiration of others, the performance of respect. People who love vanity have a strong inferiority complex, they do not know that the inner emptiness and ignorance, the appearance of bright people instead of attracting people to be bored. Gas real, everyone more or less will have some vanity, it should not be expanded and upgraded, but should be through vanity to see their own shortcomings and shortcomings, strengthen learning and improvement, and constantly upgrade, motivate themselves and move forward.
18, gold worship ----- for their own shackles of gold
Undoubtedly, money plays an important role in people's lives, but money is not the whole of life. Money is something outside of life, do not be money and their own greed or lost eyes, should be appropriate. Stop being greedy so that you can be content and unshackle yourself from the shackles that bind you. Beyond that, don't be stingy; it is a blessing to be able to help others. Do not take money too seriously, learn to give up, in order to grasp the opportunities and destiny of life.
19, impulsive ----- trapped in the whirlpool of remorse and self-blame
In daily life, there will indeed be many things that make us angry, very helpless, but no matter how impulsive their own emotions, can not lose their heads, and moreover, can not be recklessly taken to overreact. "The solution to any problem is the result of reason and fairness, and impulsiveness is not only unhelpful, but often results in consequences that are difficult for us to bear. Because of this, it is wise to use reason to control one's behavior when encountering a dilemma.
20, blindly follow the ----- loss of self-pity
Many people will blindly pursue the popular trend, which is the psychological characteristics of many people have, but also a very dangerous mind trap. Because everyone's outlook on life, values, and morals are different, the direction of choice should be different for everyone. Because of blind obedience, we tend to lose ourselves, lose our individuality, lose self-judgment and self-confidence.
21, self-limitations ----- kill your potential ability
"God only saves those who can save themselves". Success belongs to those who are willing to succeed. Narrow-mindedness is an obstacle that prevents people from moving forward, many times, a person's failure is not affected by the objective environment, but the self-limiting psychology has been destined to not succeed. Self-limiting narrow-mindedness of a person's heart is not broad, so that a person's eyes are not open, so that a person's short-sightedness and even make a person to produce a serious narcissistic complex, with this kind of psychology, it is difficult to get along with him, and easy to hurt others. Such people are born losers, because of self-enclosure and self-limitation, they fall into spiritual barrenness and panic.
22, retaliatory ----- chickens belly, Jairi
The retaliatory mind is a bottomless black hole, originating from the anger of hatred. If you can not control the retaliatory mind in time, and let the retaliatory mind devour the self, you will lose your mind, make reckless and even make their own regret. Retaliation strong people are easy to take matters into their own hands, once the fire, often just venting the emotions of the heart and do not listen to the advice of others. They can not face the frustration, will not forgive others, often in order to greed for a moment of speed and hurt themselves, the result is both the loss of popularity, but also pushed themselves into the trap of trouble.
23, fluke ----- self-deception indulgence
Fluke is a very unhealthy psychological, this psychological so that people's minds are blinded, so as to do not make the right judgment, and even lost their way. Over time, people's minds will change without them realizing it. In fact, serious consequences are formed by the accumulation of small things one by one, so it is necessary to start preventing from small things. Once in a while a fluke may lead to achievement or some kind of benefit, but one day one will fall. At all times, we should discard the fluke heart, improve our own moral cultivation, step by step to realize the ideal. We must know that "the sword from sharpening out, the fragrance of plum blossoms from the bitter cold," the only way to embark on the road to success is to be practical and diligent.
24, forcing the perfect ----- low self-esteem and self-confidence of the freaks
Chinese have an old adage: gold is not red gold, people are not perfect. The famous Russian philosopher Chernyshevsky said, "Since there are also black spots on the sun, it is even more unlikely that things in this world are without flaws." There is no perfect leaf in the world, but in real life, there are always people who pursue perfection. They not only have perfect and harsh requirements for themselves, but also hold the same attitude towards people and things around them. Because of their excessive pursuit of perfection, they have lost a lot of pleasant and happy life, and even their own lives.
25, the loss of goals ----- fighting spirit of the lost
Failure is not need to plan, and success requires a well-planned and step by step to practice it. In ancient and modern times, all career achievements have two points: one is their own clear career goals; the second is towards the goal of non-stop struggle. There is no goal of people like a blind sailing ship, for which any direction of the wind is a headwind; and if a person has a goal, and firmly towards the goal, then the whole world will make way for it. Therefore, if you want to succeed, you have to start from a little bit, set yourself a clear, long-term, specific goals, make full use of the time, take the goal on the road, and you will reach the destination.
26, mid-life crisis ----- emotional storm under heavy pressure
The curve of human life falls from the peak, while the burden curve of work and family goes up, the intersection of these two parabolas is precisely the middle age. People to the middle age, will be dissatisfied with the work, career, that there is no challenge in front of you is worth going all out, will become dead, moody, pessimistic and negative; people to the middle age will encounter career and family double pressure, the heart and the body on the signs of decline, which aggravates the mid-life crisis as well as confusion. Caught in the trap of mid-life crisis mind will appear a series of negative emotions, triggering problems in the heart, and accompanied by physical reactions. Only those middle-aged people who set up a positive mindset and cope with it with confidence will be able to get through this period smoothly.
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The jumping pot lid brought the world the age of steam power, and the apple falling from the tree pushed modern physics to a brand new level. Life has inspired skilled craftsmen and wise seers and given them the power to pry the world apart.
And life is fair, he also gave me wisdom. If I am a clear channel, life is the spring, the wisdom of the living water into my blood; if I am a tree, life is the soil, the wisdom of the minerals into my roots; if I am a rainbow bridge, life is the sun, the wisdom of the pigment on my body. The wisdom of life that I have realized is not enough to change the world, but it is enough to perfect myself.
As a child, I liked to squat in the corner to watch the ants, at first just out of curiosity, and then as I grew older, I gradually realized. Once, I saw an ant climbing up a short section of the wall, perhaps because the wall is too smooth, it climbed close to half of the slide down, and then gradually groped higher and higher, but never reached the top, look impatient, I turned to observe the other ants. After a period of time, I was about to get up and leave, but I was surprised to find that the ant was ambling on the wall leisurely tending to its antennae. From then on, I understood the meaning of "perseverance is the key to success" and the truth of my mother's saying that "an iron bar is sharpened into a needle". So, over the years, I have never been broken by the difficulties, but firm goals never give up.
Life not only teaches me to be firm in adversity, but also teaches me to be calm in good times. Often heard people say "boiling water does not ring, ringing water does not boil", in order to confirm this statement, I have guarded the stove staring at the kettle. When the kettle began to agitation, the sound of crackling peeling, the sound is getting louder and louder, giving people a sense of cracking. Then the agitation calmed down, and there was only the slightest sound left, as if it were a poet's murmur. Thus, I realized that the truly talented people will not be sharp, claptrap, as the saying goes, "big words are rare, big elephants are rare". Life has given me the wisdom to be a human being and the wisdom to live in the world. The field to enjoy the flowers, found a moonflower delicate, can not help but sprouted the idea of picking, but just reached out for a sharp pain and shrink back - I ignored the sharp thorns on the flower stem, so I realized: everyone is like the moonflower, the character of which you appreciate, but also you can not tolerate, in the interaction with others, both to avoid being stabbed, but also to prevent the stabbing of their own cherished, but also to prevent the stabbing of the moonflower. And also to prevent stabbing the people you cherish.
Life is like a calm philosopher, it writes wisdom into my every day, teaches me to correctly deal with the world, and leads me to a brilliant tomorrow.