There are many ways to avoid the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. The first is that distance produces beauty. There will be many contradictions when two generations live together, because of different lifestyles and concepts; So try not to live together, which can reduce the occurrence of contradictions. The second is that sons should have a sense of responsibility. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have one thing in common, that is, they all love their sons very much. On the one hand, mothers love their children, and on the other hand, wives love their husbands, which inevitably leads to collisions. If the sons can be reconciled, then this contradiction will not exist. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law mostly comes from the son's irresponsibility, and not mediating from it will aggravate this contradiction.
It is also artistic for mother-in-law and daughter-in-law to get along, so we should consider it from each other's point of view. For a daughter-in-law, as a junior, treating her mother-in-law should be respectful; Take care of her mother-in-law like a biological mother and know how to be filial; When you encounter problems, you should consider and communicate from the perspective of your mother-in-law; Maybe some old ideas of the old people are wrong, so we should explain them patiently to avoid conflicts. For the mother-in-law, the daughter-in-law is a member of the family and should not be treated differently; Even if you don't like it, you should respect your son's choice; I also treat my daughter-in-law like my own daughter. She is the pride of her parents at home, and there is no need to boss around when she is married.
Although the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is complicated, it is not yet insoluble. If the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is handled well, the family will be more harmonious; We are all a family, and nothing can't be solved; Think from each other's point of view and reduce contradictions.