My husband and I got married and realized that my mother-in-law is a typical feudalistic rural woman. The first time I saw her was when I was young, and she had to work hard to bring up her two children, and she thought that the two children were already married and had families, and that the task of the two old men had been accomplished, and that she should be able to play with her children when she was old, and that she should be able to enjoy herself when she was old.
These are some of the most important things you can do for your family and your children. The husband is the pride of the in-laws ah, college students, educated, good job, looks also a talented. In my mother-in-law's mind, I don't think there are many women under the sun who are good enough for her son.
My husband and I were free to love each other, I didn't think he was that good, I just thought he was honest, he worked hard, I thought he would do something in the future. I was so impressed by his character that I agreed to his advances.
After I got married, my mother-in-law didn't see eye to eye with me, and spoke to me in a condescending manner. It's like she thinks I'm climbing up her son's ladder. In order to avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, we bought a house in the county mortgage, although not too far from the in-laws, but after all, not under one roof, the contact is less, the natural peace and quiet.
Married less than half a year I was pregnant, the initial reaction is quite big, what to eat what to vomit, that period of time I was waxing and waning, physical condition is very poor, there is no way to work. The husband is concerned about me, thinking of asking my mother-in-law to take care of me for a period of time, but she is not coming, saying that what can not rest assured that the father-in-law, the building is not accustomed to live, in fact, I know that he is also busy with square dancing, playing cards, playing mahjong.
After five months of pregnancy, I quit my job and stayed at home to take care of my mother-in-law, who not only didn't come to take care of me, but also came to me to criticize me. She said she was working in the field two days before she gave birth to her son, so why are you being so melodramatic? I didn't want to talk to her, so I went into the house by myself and went to sleep, and my mother-in-law knew that she was not interested, so she stayed for a while and then left.
From then on, my mother-in-law seldom came over for a few months, until I gave birth to my daughter. What makes me cold is that after my mother-in-law knew that I had a daughter, she showed up once after five days in the hospital, and my husband asked her why she didn't come to see her granddaughter. In front of my parents, she said, a girl, what to see? I'm not sure if you're going to be able to get a good deal on a new one," she said.
Because of what my mother-in-law said, my parents were so upset with her that they disliked her and my mother-in-law left in a huff. After being discharged from the hospital, my mom stayed here to take care of me, and my mother-in-law never came. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to get out of this, but I'm sure I'm going to be able to get out of this, and I'm going to be able to get out of this, and I'm going to be able to get out of this.
When I heard this, I was furious, and my mom was furious. I'm not sure what I'm talking about. I'm not going to be able to get the money to pay for it, but I'm going to be able to get the money to pay for it, and I'm going to be able to get the money to pay for it. I'm not going to go, I'm in my first month of pregnancy, I shouldn't go out.
It's a good thing I'm still in labor," she said. The mother-in-law said, "What's wrong with being in labor? I was still working on the ground when I was pregnant. I was upset, you are you and I am me, I am not the same as you. Besides, what did you do when I had my baby? What you did to me, I will do to you, courtesy, we are even!
In the end, my husband stayed with my mother-in-law in the hospital for a day, but he was a man and it was not convenient for him to take care of my mother-in-law. So I called my sister-in-law to take care of my mother-in-law for a few days. For me not to take care of my mother-in-law, my husband didn't say a word and didn't complain to me because he knew how my mother-in-law treated me at the beginning. I did not do too much, I myself have a clear conscience on the line.