Opening Words:
The years are unforgiving, and time is old.
Life is like a dream, always inadvertently, on the whip to rush forward; the world in a hurry, always in the "a sigh", it is difficult to find the way back.
SAN MAO once said:
People, walk through the youth of ignorance, through the middle age of the confusion, a shake to the age of retirement.
Walked through the years, but also in the memory, lit the lamp, but also in the hands, fell through the valley, but also want to climb up again ...... but more and more understand that the past will not come back.
How many people, busy busy, children grow up, away from home; how many people, walking, parents old, need you to take care of. The first thing you need to know is that you can't go back and forth, and you can't go back and forth.
Always nostalgic for the joy of childhood, nostalgic for the despondency after the campus, perhaps, then you thought no longer need to hold a large part of the book every day to read word by word, but look back, only to find that the most beautiful life of the youthful time, has been in the moment you say goodbye to the reading era, a go no return.
These years you, whether you also experienced some ditches and difficulties? Whether it is also in the bewilderment and helplessness of the edge of the wandering over? Whether also bitter, tired, heartache, but still wipe the tears, continue to run with a smile?
Life is a long way, when you retire, you will understand that everything in the past is nothing but child's play. Most people, are in the world of things, learn to be calm, in the human warmth, learn to be at peace.
But there are many people, it is difficult to enjoy the happiness of retirement, even after retirement, or live in panic, very uneasy. May you read this article well, do not panic, so live, the most comfortable, the most comfortable.
Perhaps, in the past, you have tasted the sweet and sour of life, experienced the world of smoke and fire, the heart has long been like a rock, any thunder can not be shaken.
But, people live, or let the heart soften a little.
Lin Ching-hsien once said: "For the sake of light, darkness is necessary.
The meaning of this sentence is that people, only through experience and realization, can even if the more wretched, and then restless, and then down, but also in the suffering out, but also from the desert to blossom.
So, no matter what you've been through, it's all in the past, and it's the current life that you're seriously considering for the future.
Learn to be soft, learn to enjoy life, make every day a little more happy, let those people and things that make you worry, go away, don't think about it.
We came to this world, do not owe anyone, only owe themselves. How much money you have, how much money you have to live, don't suffer yourself. Don't always compare horizontally, everyone has their own difficult, some people show off in front of you, don't take it seriously, don't worry about it, others are just looking for a sense of existence in you, contentment, can look at the mountain is the mountain, look at the sea is the sea.
Perhaps once you, in order to work, in order to home, rarely go out to see, then take advantage of the moment, the body is still good, legs and feet, can be more turn more turn, the motherland's great mountains and rivers,
eat well, sleep well, not to be influenced by other people, do not give birth to idle gas, do not give themselves to find a sin, is to live in the natural course of life; The first thing you need to do is to talk to the people you want to talk to, and if you can't talk to them, then you should stay away from them, because they'll be able to understand you.
Life is short, retired, remember: the enjoyment to enjoy.
Lin Yutang once said:
Perhaps, after reaching the middle age, the most able to realize, people in this life, most of them are stop and go, life sea sea, to be able to family reunion, peace and quiet is the best happiness.
So, when you are old, you don't want to be rich and famous, but you want to be with your family and be happy together.
Children are the continuation of their own flesh and blood, do not give them pressure, and do not want to let them how to return you. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty and get out of the way, and then you'll be able to get out of the way.
The only thing you can do right now is to take care of your own health, worry less, and meddle less in their family affairs.
Some people are old, but always children encountered a little bit of small things, on the worry, eat bad, sleep bad, you have to be clear, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren blessed, the time when the hands of the hands of the hands of the hands of the hands of the hands of the hands of the line you do not loosen the hands of the hands of the hands of the hands of the children to let them fly freely, let them go out to the world, they will never grow up.
Think about when you were young, whether it is also looking forward to less bondage, more freedom. So, there is no river that can't be crossed, no bridge that can't be built, and letting them be independent is the best growth you can guide them through.
You know, when you are young, you have an ascetic experience, and when you are old, what you get, you will know how to cherish more.
People this life, accompanied by your longest days, is your pillow people.
The so-called juvenile couple old to accompany, over a lifetime, perhaps you have a lifetime of noise, but noisy, you are still the same as before.
When there is something wrong, the first to find a partner to discuss; when you are sick, the old partner accompanied by the side; when the heart is depressed, it will be the first and the old partner to talk about ......
This life, you have gone through the spring flowers, autumn and fall, storms and winds have broken through. When I was young, I had a flower in front of the moon, romantic and boundless; with a child, I have shed tears of excitement about being a parent; I have also put each other on the tip of the heart, held in the heart of the hand; there have been arguments, there has been a cold war,...... no matter how it once was, retired, it is more important to understand: the old companion, that is, the biggest dependence on you in this life.
Don't dislike each other, don't complain to each other, to know, away from the side of this accompanied by your life, your days will be very lonely.
Cherishing him is truly cherishing the present day.
Whenever you have nothing to do, you can go to the park and dance together, sweat; go to the park together, listen to the birds, look at the flowers; go to do some volunteer activities to solve the problem of loneliness; think about the health of the people, cook a pot of soup, make a pot of tea, so that the day to add some interest ...
Whenever you have something to do, you can do it together. ...
A good life is one that is lived with the people around you. Who said that people are old, can not be romantic, retired, days of leisure, more time to romance, more time to spend.
Play, make the day more interesting, not belonging to the young, but also belonging to the elderly, so that the physical and mental pleasure, is to live a good retirement life.
Good health is the capital of everyone who lives well after retirement.
Patriotism, love of home, love of children, are not as good as love of health. If health is gone, everything is gone. So, you must exercise every day, eat three meals a day on time, let the mood happy, happy and happy.
In this life, there are always some desires that are hard to fulfill. Luck may seldom favor you, but it's up to you to decide whether to live a happy life or not.
Living a happy life, comfortable mood, is to establish a guarantee for your health. The world is full of people, there will be a variety of definitions of life. The first thing you need to do is to get a good understanding of what you are doing and how you are doing it.
So, regardless of the moment, the days are good or bad, should always give yourself a smile, so that you live free is your creed, so that you live happy, is your pursuit.
Life, but a hundred years, to know, people this life, the wide range of thousands of buildings, night sleep but seven feet, delicacies, daily food but three meals.
When depressed, find an old friend to chat, don't hide the boredom, the said to say, want to sing a few lines, hum out, want to come to the two wine, drink a little bit of wine once in a while, the mood is natural, relaxation, that is, you live a long time magic weapon.
People are old, good health, good mood, in order to make the days live easily.
Eat well and sleep well is the best life you can have at the moment.
Mr. Tsai Lan once said:
Perhaps, once you, do nothing, or perhaps once you, enjoy the high official salary, no matter what kind of model you were once, after the retirement, there is only one kind of: to live a happy, happy.
You know, we have been looking for our true selves all our lives.
Retired, more free time, more addicted to their favorite things, more free time to read the books they want to see, more time to think about their own interest in the thing, so the life after retirement, there is no standard answer, to find things that make you happy, is the answer.
Days, is busy looking for calm, is in the rough tea, looking for stability.
Living well is the most meaningful thing you do after retirement.
May every retiree, after reading this article, be a wise old man, are able to enjoy life, live well in the present, no regrets.