Why do you want to visit relatives more and more during the Spring Festival? Besides spending money, why?

When I was a child, I was most looking forward to the Chinese New Year, not only because there were many delicious foods and drinks, but more importantly, I could visit my relatives and receive red envelopes beautifully. The happiest thing for children is to receive red envelopes. However, as we grow up, we don't want to visit our relatives, and even we are disgusted with some relatives. Nobody feels the way they used to. First, to smash things means that there is still this relative.

One: the feelings between relatives are weak.

I still remember that there was a good relationship between relatives and neighbors. Everyone is simple and doesn't care too much. People are sincere. Maybe this society is too realistic, or maybe everyone lives far away and buys a house in the city and needs to be maintained. If you don't contact your feelings for a long time, it will definitely fade.

Two: There is nothing to talk about or the psychology of keeping up with the joneses between relatives.

We are grown up now, and there is a generation gap between us and our elders. Sometimes we really don't know what to say together, and we will feel embarrassed. Other relatives love to compare with each other, compare their children's grades, compare how much money they earn from their work, and show off their skills, which is really uncomfortable. But I can't say anything, so I don't want to meet.

Three: being nagged by relatives.

Nowadays, many young people don't want to visit relatives because they are really enthusiastic about meeting each other. They ask about their jobs, their salaries, and especially their life events. The most terrible thing is to give yourself a blind date and lead a red line. Although they said they knew it was for their own good, they were really helpless inside.

The times have been developing, but the distance between people seems to be getting farther and farther. Maybe it's people's indifference, and they have lost themselves in this noisy society and become stronger gradually.