2, big things are not confused, small things do not care, not to make things difficult for others.
3, like to read and learn, the writer Jiang Fangzhou said: if you do not go to the book, your three views can only be decided by your friends and family around you.
4, outside of life and death is no big deal, can be put on the heart of a few people and things.
5, can enjoy the world's best, but also can withstand the worst, do not hate the poor, do not look down on anyone.
6. Don't say what you can't do, and say what you have to try to do.
7, have an independent economy and personality, not dependent on any one person.
8, lovers need to love themselves first.
9, learn to make choices, have their own ideas and insights, know what they want what they do not want.
10, accept their own good side, but also accept their own shortcomings, and to correct, never take their own weaknesses and other people's strengths compared.
11, the most direct way to make life happy is to work hard!
The most powerful passage I've ever read: whenever I encounter difficulties that I dare not look at directly, I will close my eyes and imagine myself as an 80-year-old man, remorseful for the countless times in my life that I have given up and run away from suffering, and I'll say to myself how good it would be to be young again, and then I'll open my eyes: bang! I'm young again! You will have the answer in your mind as to how you really choose.