Osamu Dazai said in "Lost on Earth," "I know someone who loves me, but I seem to lack the ability to love people."
In modern society, it seems to be easy to love and not to love, and true feelings are hidden in the heart, and having been hurt and shedding tears, one says outright that one is no longer capable of loving others properly.
Every sentence "I love you", the next moment may become "I hate you".
For every "live well", the next moment may be "not live".
I admit, the world is not so beautiful, used to the world, human nature is thin, used to social injustice, fate, people become more and more numb, more and more cold, like a perfect machine, in order to live and live.
Just ah, in a lot of unknowing, you have and the world of good things meet and pass, they and you do not know, but through the cracks in your life, to bring you into the sunshine.
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Yesterday, I came across an old video, and although it was an advertisement at the end, it still moved me to the corner of my eye.
In just over four minutes, it tells six short stories.
Every line in the opening credits is a bereavement. The reversal at the end, in turn, makes you inexplicably red-eyed and raise the corners of your mouth.
Whenever we think that this society is cold and impersonal, in places we can't see, certain people are quietly loving and caring for us behind the scenes.
I know that the city is too hard to fight, life is not easy, careful to live has done its best.
The world is too big, so big that everyone has to take care of themselves, the crowd in a hurry, no one will care about your feelings all the time.
Just ah, between people is so marvelous, in your most need of help, to extend a hand is often those you have not cared about the strangers.
In your disappointment when you want to end your life, it is they turn the corner to make you happy, let you live well;
In you are about to encounter pickpocket theft, it is they secretly for you to block off the harassment of the bad guys, but on the surface but did not say a word;
In you for the work of the anxieties of the distressed, it is they quietly push you a hand to help you move forward, so that you can feel the love of the warmth of;
The people who are the most important part of this story is the people who are the most important part of the story. p> ......
These people who don't know each other, don't care about your ability, don't care about your status, just genuinely want to help you.
Maybe a lot of people have felt that the world is not a lovely place at all, because it is unfair and full of coldness and ruthlessness.
It is true that there is injustice in this world, and it will always owe people something, but we can't be like it, and owe all the people who have loved us, can we?
After all, in the place we can not see, there are always people in their way silently care about us.
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There is a line written in Lonely Planet that I have always loved:
"In this world, some people are as cold as others are warm, and I hope that you will always meet those who are warm to you. "
Even in the world of indifference of the human heart, everyone has nowhere to run, the coldness of society, you and I have more or less encountered.
But the world, really will not be better?
No, there is a lot of love, just you have not found.
The old grandpa had trouble walking because of his leg disability, and he was caught off guard by the sudden rainstorm, and couldn't avoid the rain.
At a time when he was at his wits' end, the old man had an umbrella over his head, and it was a girl in simple clothes who held it for him.
She favored the old man's side completely, not caring that her whole body was wet by the rain.
Girl, the most beautiful is not the rainy day, but the sky you hold up for others.
At the train station, an old farmer wanted to take the train to visit his daughter, but unexpectedly did not bring enough money, ID card also forgot to bring, stranded in the station square, bewildered.
The police found, to help the old man for a temporary ID card, out of their own money to help buy a ticket, and all the way to escort the old man on the car, instructed the conductor along the way to take care of the old man.
The old man was unable to repay, afraid of the goodbye, and then no time to thank, near the station, kneeling on the ground to the police to express their gratitude.
The endless flow of the intersection, a lower limb paralyzed disabled, lying on the homemade scooter moving slowly, just traveled to the intersection of one-third of the red light in front of the prohibited, both sides of the green light on.
But the vehicle should have passed, suddenly all tacit, quiet waiting in place, until he safely through the intersection.
Perhaps for this disabled person, life is too miserable, the world is too harsh on him.
But some moments, strangers for him, there is a silent understanding without words, the bridge of love in the silent escort for him.
Waiting room at the train station, the chair of the elderly unfortunately died suddenly.
Waiting monks spontaneously for the old man to supersede, he held the hands of the deceased, silent mourning.
The master gave a great love, not about the state of life and death, only about the person, only wish the old man can rest in peace.
80-year-old granny is too hungry to bear to come to the restaurant to eat, but only 2 dollars in the pocket, and the waiter said he wanted a bowl of soup.
Then the waiter served a bowl of soup and rice, the granny saw that there are eggs inside, anxious to cry, "I do not want meat, I have no money, I only have two dollars."
The waiter comforted: "Granny, this is not money, you eat slowly..."
- You see, there is always such a group of people, in their own capacity, to help those who do not know people.
- Maybe these actions are just a small thing, but for those who have been wandering in the valley of hopelessness for a long time, it's just the dew that can moisturize all the things.
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What is worse than death?
In the movie In Search of a Dream, there's this line: "To be forgotten is the real death."
I think that's proof enough that what's worse than dying is living alone and dying unattached.
When the huge wave of life, step by step to push you into the abyss, do not forget to look back, perhaps in your heart to stare at the abyss, behind the back of the people are silently holding you.
A girl feels hopeless, want to jump off a building to end the short life, onlookers clamor.
And a gray-haired old man, but since the beginning of the downstairs, silently shaking his hand, eyes showing endless sadness.
When you want to give up, think of the strangers in the crowd who silently love you.
Similarly, in a street, a lower limb disabled beggar kneeling on the wheel board, to the top of the 14th floor of the intention to light man loudly persuade:
"Big brother, you have to think of a little bit of ah, your mom and dad are very worried about you."
In the end, the light man was saved by the police, safe and sound.
Whose life is not bumpy all the way over?
Disabled beggars can still survive tenaciously and persuade others, what reason do we have to be entangled with death?
If you feel that life is hard, feel lonely and helpless, full of disappointment in the world, and even want to escape, think about those who love you.
Maybe you don't realize it, but they never want to give up on you for a moment, they are always there, always secretly love you.
You'll realize it when you get through the toughest times, when you're back with the sunshine, when you're fondly breathing in a world full of life.
It's really good to grit your teeth and hang in there, and it's really good to have someone who still loves you.
4
Life is a lonely life, and the time spent in between is life.
I know, a person quietly look at the world, easy to desolate to the bone, especially after seeing life, found more are full of pale.
Just if you insist on some longer, with a magnifying glass to see the small landscape of life, perhaps you will find:
It turned out that the world is still so kind and warm, more than just a lot of people around, there are many small creatures in the company of you.
In a fire, the firefighters rescued a mother dog carrying a baby, and then rushed into the blazing fire.
After running back and forth, the fire was extinguished, and the firefighters were exhausted and sat on the ground panting, the mother dog silently came over, gently, kissed the firefighters head.
A disaster, search and rescue dog Feixiong shuttle in the debris to save people, accidentally buried by the collapse of the slate hit. When the warriors dug it out, it was already powerless, and its internal organs were almost smashed.
The trainer gently hugged it like a child, tears streaming down his face.
To end its suffering, the trainer had no choice but to jam his hand around Feixiong's neck, and after a while, Feixiong didn't move, and the seven-footer trembled to the point of crying in pain.
You see, in fact, love has always been in the ring, just tired of survival of most people, ignored its existence.
Just like a lot of people, they also must be in a corner of the world secretly love us, we do not find, they do not say, just this love, it has always been there.
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I know that not everyone is lucky enough to be born with a golden key, and many people have struggled to the point of exhaustion just to have a better tomorrow.
I know that the way forward will encounter a lot of frustration and disappointment, a lot of heartache and unbearable.
I also know that the world has let you disappointed and tired, once let you lonely and helpless, let you lose your mind.
But you have to remember, in sadness, may wish to slowly turn around, turn back to look at the world behind you.
You will realize that in fact, love has not given up on us, it has been quietly pulling us forward.
Maybe it's the silent vigil of someone in the dark night;
Maybe it's the umbrella over your head in the rainstorm;
Maybe it's the paper that comes to you when you're crying;
Maybe it's the warmth of someone's arms when you are powerless to do anything about your life.
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These people give a little bit of strength, dispersing the haze that roams the borders, helping you to cross the difficulties and obstacles, and walking through the wind and rain.
There are always people in this world who love you and guard you secretly. As long as you keep going step by step, the scenery you see will definitely be bright.
The love of strangers will eventually become a vibrant sea, accompanying you to the end of the world.
So yes, you have to believe, never give up smiling at the world, because, the world will certainly return the warmth.