Saw a video: a two-year-old baby, square dance, not only the sense of rhythm all closely followed, and even the posture is not wrong at all, living a dance little genius, delightful and technical expertise, a look is the old man raised children! The people around us are constantly praising the child, thinking that grandma has accidentally developed a folk dance talent!
When it comes to intergenerational education, a lot of people keep swinging their heads, and in the eyes of many, the old man with children are unreliable, because they do not have a scientific and reasonable parenting experience, and too much spoiled children. In fact, sometimes the old man with children than parents with children are reliable, especially the following four categories of elderly people, bring out the children will be better, can catch up in a line are your blessings!
A knowledgeable old manChildren in childhood are most likely to suffer from the nutrients of the surrounding things, waiting for him the longest is the person who is more harmful to him. Learned people, bring out the child's body aura are different, quite cultural flavor. No matter what the child why the problem, the old man can talk about, so that the child since childhood, outstanding vision, broad-minded.
Two, can communicate well with the daughter-in-law of the elderlyIntergenerational education, treasure mother is most afraid of encountering the old man sticking to the old rules, would have been parenting common sense has long been outdated, but also do not want to listen to loved ones are exhortations, so that the mother-in-law-daughter-in-law relationship divergence continues. Good at accepting new things of the elderly, the idea is wise, she will actively grasp a new common sense of parenting, can communicate with the daughter-in-law, communication and exchange of parenting education advice, the child handed over to this old man with sure peace of mind!
Three, not spoiling the children of the elderlyMost of the elderly love spoiling children, children like to eat what they buy, even if they are cavities need to give the child to eat sweet, the child spoiled a problem. If you love children at home, but not spoiled, can teach children the basic provisions, then congratulations, picked up the treasure!
Four, love to go out and activities of the elderlyChildren are by nature cheerful and active, if the elderly at home love string of Siemens, often take the child to walk around, the child is often the eye of new things, and in this case know how to deal with people. The old man who loved the theme of the event, brought out the children's social skills are generally not bad.
The child is born a blank sheet of paper, want to let him become what he is, from the daily life will need to slowly guide and jeopardize him, so the person who brings up the child is not suitable for the vital. Your family with children of the elderly by the above four characteristics