? Everyone has their own way of life, everyone's choices have her unique insights. You don't need to be told what to do in your own life.
1. You have the right to give me advice, but not the right to interfere with my life
? Yesterday a home mom solemnly called me over. She began as she did last time, "I'll tell you something!" I didn't wait for her to continue, I just saw my mom's squirming look I knew what she was going to say. As expected, the first sentence she started with was, "An aunt is going to introduce you to a person, who is good in every aspect, so you have to think about it!" I frowned and did not comment, mom looked and glanced at me again ready to continue. Did not wait for her to speak, there came a knock on the door to interrupt her, she had to stop, I thought I could take advantage of the situation to escape, but who knows that the knock on the door is the dad, I know that the dad will certainly help mom to come back to add oil and vinegar to say that teaching a lot of people, so as to show that their women sing with their husbands. Dad did not lecture like mom, the first to come is to express his views, and even my future blueprint for a happy life have been drawn up. I couldn't bear to interrupt him, and when he finally finished his speech after an hour or so, I sighed and said, "Oh, let it be!" I thought that the meeting, as if to complete the task entrusted to me by Mom and Dad is, in the future do not contact can be.
? But then this somehow called me an aunt knew, she ran to my house to teach a good: "You have to think carefully, his family conditions so good, can not miss, your own conditions are just average do not have to be too picky, people if you look at you, that's your luck, you can also let me these relatives stain light ah! " I don't know whether the aunt's words are for my sake or for her own future planning.
But the choice is left to me, the life is my own. Onlookers have the right to give advice but not to interfere in my life.
2. What you think is beautiful is, don't worry too much about other people's eyes
Auntie Liu is the most fashionable auntie in our area, she is almost 50 years old, and her figure has become more and more greasy in the middle age. But in her skillful dress but looks her body is not so bloated, but has a kind of chic "rich beauty". Generally speaking, aunts of her age prefer to wear casual, dark-colored clothes with flat, comfortable shoes. But she is different, she likes the brighter the better, red, green are her standard. She's also particularly good at being fashionable. Sweatshirts, trench coats, umbrella skirts, these young people sought after fashion she is not willing to lag behind all the equipment.
? Although I don't see how she puts on makeup, but lipstick is basically a must-have for her. If it is to go to the square dance, then she must step on her four or five centimeters of small high heel to go. I thought she lived a refined and elegant life like that, so I've always revered her. Until one day she counted out Auntie Wang next door to me, saying that Auntie Wang couldn't match her clothes and dressed old-fashioned. Auntie Wang is an honest person, the family condition is not very good, a heart for her children, so usually do not pay attention to dress up, but Auntie Liu said that when she, she just smiled awkwardly did not say anything. At that time I think: look beautiful or which seem fashionable and beautiful people inside is not necessarily how noble.
? Maybe some people because of the weight of life can not wear beautiful clothes. But her heart is full, often you feel beautiful is, do not have to care too much about the eyes of others.
3. I love you, and it's not important what others say
Before my sister married my brother-in-law, my family was strongly opposed to it, and my parents didn't support it, and I didn't think it was a good idea. In the sister to know brother-in-law before a lot of people on my home to matchmaking, said those people conditions are good, but the sister every time is one by one to see after politely refused. Until she met her brother-in-law. Brother-in-law's family conditions are not good, no car, no house, even the deposit is not enough to pay and a down payment of the house. However, my sister was still determined to him, my parents could not resist my sister's persistence or reluctantly agreed to this marriage, which almost no one is optimistic about. With the financial support of my parents, my brother-in-law was able to pay for the down payment of a house, and the gift money that my brother-in-law rushed was only a few tens of thousands of dollars. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that.
On the day of the wedding, the relatives and friends were not too enthusiastic, and at the dinner table, my aunts and uncles were still saying that the marriage was not worth it. At that time, I was still young, for their words are acquiescence, is with the indignation of the state of mind to express approval.
? Later in the years. I finally understand why my sister had to marry a man who had nothing, because material abundance can only bring you material enjoyment, and only two souls who know each other can live a boring life with flavor.
? Everyone is sure to think long and hard when they make a choice about something. You can talk about it, but please don't "tell me what to do" with other people's lives.