Will you kiss your partner every day?
When you're in love, a kiss between a man and a woman is one of the ways to pass on your feelings, and it's a sweet way to enhance the relationship between two people.
However, after entering into a marriage, with the age, many couples have become strangers under one roof, if not for the sake of the children, may not even say a word.
The intimacy between husband and wife is even more formalized, which makes a lot of women feel that they married a man who does not love them, and the man is no longer to the woman to express their love, would rather lie on the couch to play the phone, but also do not want to listen to the woman nagging about the trivialities of life.
Why is this happening? Is it really true that when love becomes affection, intimacy is no longer needed?
No, everyone desires to be loved, it's just that some people get tired of this day-to-day lifestyle in their marriages and neglect even the loved ones around them.
The longer two people get along, the closer they are to each other, but people have the mentality of liking the new and hating the old, and tend to ignore the person in front of them, to pursue those flashy things.
People to forty, why men do not love? The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty. wife anymore? Come and see the truth from people who have been there.
@Tiger: I stopped kissing her after my wife said she never really liked me
My wife is my college classmate, she is my senior sister, we met in the same city, I began to pursue her, and after a year of dating, we got married.
I love her very much, I bought a house written in her name, spent her salary to her custody, the family is also her say, I think I gave her what I can give within my ability, but she is getting more and more like to quarrel with me.
After each argument, she would first say sorry to me, saying that she was in a bad mood to argue with me. After ten days and half a month, she took the initiative to look for me to quarrel, I found that she is not right, and after chatting with her, she said that she never really liked me, just think I am a good man to marry me.
Her words really hurt, I love her, but I feel like I'm hurt, and for the sake of my son, I'm not as good to her as I used to be, but I can say the same thing, but I don't kiss her anymore.
I wish I could wait until the day she falls in love with me, but I know I can't, so I'll get by.
Wife doesn't like to kiss, I brush my teeth first, I can't, I'm used to it
When I was in love, my wife didn't like me to kiss her, she let me kiss her cheeks or forehead at most, and I thought she was reserved.
After marriage, I realized that she just didn't like kissing, and every time she engaged in a sneak attack, she washed her lips again and again, as if I was dirty. I don't eat smelly food and brush my teeth to get her to accept me, she just won't let me kiss.
People have self-esteem, and as time went on, I lost interest in chasing after her and stopped kissing her, and she seemed to enjoy the fact that I kept my distance from her.
We have intimacy between us, we just don't allow kissing, she said when she was pestered by me that she just hated kissing and felt uncomfortable inside.
Love her, we have to accept her shortcomings, I do not know if there are people who have the same situation as me, I sometimes wonder if she has psychological problems, so that she will be so averse to kissing.
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@Alpine: the couple's feelings fade, look at each other, simply do not want to kiss her
We are working, busy at work during the day, and at night, after dinner, each play each, she went to dance, I watched TV at home, and do not want to say more than one word.
In her words, she looks at me enough, I look at her enough, say less than three words she will dislike me, I will also be ridiculed, this kind of day is actually quite meaningless.
But we have not mentioned divorce, think marriage is actually a look, and how many people can truly love to old age, is not a partner life.
The intimacy between us is also a few, I took the initiative to find her, she either said that she was not comfortable, that is, not in the mood, for a long time, I do not want to this thing.
This kind of marriage is torturous for me at times, but I haven't thought about divorce and I don't know what will happen in the future.
@Lao Huang: working outside all year round, want to kiss can't kiss
My son is going to college, my wife in the hometown to take care of a family of young, I know that she is more than I have to work hard, I earn money every month will be handed over to her safekeeping, in order to let her rest assured.
We have a good relationship between husband and wife, every time I go back, between us is a little rusty, but less than half a day, between us will return to the intimate look, she for me to do good food, I give her to tell her what I saw outside, and then go outside together to buy daily necessities, feel very happy.
While I seldom kiss my wife, I think she should understand me, and when I have money, I will go back to her side to watch the sunset together, together to face the hundred flavors of life.
In the eyes of some men, his wife has become the most important person in his life, he will take the initiative to kiss his wife, telling his love, so that his wife can feel happy.
And some men, but in the marriage of laziness, no matter what the reason does not want to kiss his wife, are not want to heart to run the marriage, but hope that the other half of the first to make changes.
A good husband and wife relationship is one that is run by each other, not by waiting. Only if you know how to run your own marriage, can you make the relationship between two people more intimate.
May everyone know how to express their love and maintain the relationship between two people!