There is a very hot topic on the Internet called "How to avoid becoming a greasy middle-aged man".
It lists all the characteristics of a "middle-aged man", such as: fat, talking about sex in public, full of foul language, vulgar behavior, etc.
These are the characteristics of a "middle-aged man".
It's no coincidence that there are middle-aged men and there are middle-aged greasy women.
Middle-aged greasy women you in a few?
1, WeChat avatar is a child, the nickname is xx mom, when the child is older, it will be changed to a flower, well, or a large close-up.
2. Ahem, the body shape is like a Michelin tire.
3. Either you're vegan or you're wearing lipstick like you just drank blood.
4, can not control remember a few, with the rhythm of the music of the square dance twist thick waist.
5, see people persuade marriage persuade life persuade endure.
6, often say: when I was young...
7, fear of divorce is better than fear of death.
8, wearing pajamas to take out the garbage, buy food, and meet acquaintances still show special frank.
9, obviously finger wide fat, have to plug the gold ring and do not know what quality of green bracelet.
10, to travel must buy local specialties.
Ahem, noble sister would like to say, in the 3 people, congratulations, greasy middle-aged woman.
I don't know since when we live the life of the middle-aged woman we used to hate in our mouths.
Outside wearing bright colors of the girl boy called you "big mother" "aunt", a few years younger than you called you "big sister", colleagues called each other as "The first thing you need to do is to get your hands dirty.
It can't be denied that in front of the years, no matter what kind of woman is powerless, not more than a few boxes of masks, more than a few cups of bird's nest can be turned into a minor girl.
What's even more horrifying is that the modern middle-aged woman is taking on more than just the two identities of mother or employee.
They also have to be good wives, good daughters-in-law, good daughters, and so on.
You think middle-aged women are superhuman?
Lin Ai's daughter is in the middle class of kindergarten this year, and she just added her daughter's class group and was shocked...
Tap the group information, parents' avatars are basically small children, and nicknames are also basically xx mom, Lin Ai look at their own WeChat introduction poof a laugh.
"I am love mom I am proud."
Five seconds in, the phone automatically locked itself, and seeing the blackened phone screen, Lin Ai retracted the smile on her lips.
In the screen, a veiled face with big bags under the eyes and messy hair was the current Lin Ai.
Lin Ai is not married before the front desk of a medium-sized enterprise, all know, the front desk is the face of the enterprise, good-looking needless to say, the quality of the quality has to be extraordinary, daily dress and makeup must be very good.
Free time, and partners chatter about lipstick, powder puff, eyeshadow, formal dresses, etc., the movie theater, coffee shops, shopping malls is a must-go place on weekends.
Now what? Lin Ai thought about it, the last time I went to the movie theater was when I was in love ah.
Now it's like fighting a war at three o'clock every day. Besides kindergarten and work, it's just home, it's too tiring.
"Sister Lin, what are you staring at?"
Lin Ai suddenly came back to her senses and realized it was Ling Ling, who was two years younger next door.
The 30 year old Ling Ling had just gotten married last year and hadn't had any children yet. It didn't look like 30 at all.
Meticulous makeup and demure demeanor.
Lin Ai thought to herself as if she had never seen Ling Ling's plain face before.
"It's nothing, hey, Ling Ling, do you usually wear makeup even when you're at home and not going out?"
"Yes, I'm not afraid to laugh at you, but if I do, my whole body will be full of strength."
"That's right, you're feeling very positive."
At ease with the status quo, lazy and ignorant, you really resigned?
Which woman who do not want to do better! Every woman wants to do every role well.
But how to balance? Noble sister thinks, women in this society, if you can not do passive acceptance of the role of the role of the play, it is better to openly accept each role gives us the mission, from stumbling to swim with ease.
After all, the effort is commendable and admirable.
Wang Yueqing has been reading a book lately, Wang Shuo's A Letter to My Daughter.
She says she particularly likes one of the lines: You must remain rich inside to avoid the superficial similarities of this life.
She added:
"I'm not at the age where I can do whatever I want in my early 20s, there's a lot of pressure on me, not only at work but also at home."
"I'm trying very hard to balance all of that and to keep up with the changing times."
"I have to keep learning the current internet buzzwords so I don't get ostracized out of the conversation by the younger people in the company."
"I'll also have to try to smile so I don't get fired by companies that promote overtime above all else."
"I have to go above and beyond so I don't get dumped by my man."
She said she is learning flower arranging for emotional fulfillment.
"There is no woman who doesn't like flowers, and the process of flower arranging makes one's mood very quiet." Wang Yueqing said, "In times of stress, wouldn't it be nice to find a sunny afternoon and spend half the afternoon being a woman of flavor?"
What you really care about, even if you are busy, you will not feel tired.
Noble sister would like to say, whether it is a middle-aged lewd man, or a middle-aged greasy woman.
This kind of "labeling group ridicule" is just the young people's mockery of the middle-aged, but don't forget, everyone has a middle-aged, the young people's mockery is just talking about themselves in advance.
What can you do as a middle-aged woman, dislike each other? Might as well just come right out and say, you'll have your day!
Small noble