First, habits and traditions. Most Chinese families have the virtue of being thrifty and frugal, and thriftiness, carefulness, and meticulous budgeting are the qualities of most older people born in the 1950s, 1960s, and before. In those days, people praised thriftiness and diligence, and they praised studying to get a job, and as for the tidiness of the family, it was already ignored, and it was even a disgrace to anyone who threw things away to keep the family tidy. People grew up in such an environment from generation to generation, and the concepts of thrift,
hard work and accumulation of wealth have been engraved in their minds, and they do not have a deep understanding of what neatness is, and we have not been able to learn from our elders how to be neat and keep it neat. Many families do not have the habit of cleaning regularly, at best once a year in the year before the cleanup. My mom was also fairly clean and tidy, but it was just a face-saving exercise.
Second, not realizing tidiness. Given the first one, we don't acquire neatness and its methods from our elders. Most people don't realize that tidiness should be a part of our lives, and "not realizing" it is a terrible thing. Nowadays, self media is prevalent, various platforms po out a lot of videos every day, but you observe, dressed up to go out of the country, their home background is really hard to say, dirty and messy there, why, because they do not have a sense of home cleanliness, and even the home of the very famous artists are not clean.
Third, there is a sense of neatness but not to the point. Five years ago, Japan, Eiko Yamashita's break away, Kondo Marihui's organizing magic into our country, many people are obsessed with organizing, but after a period of time and give up, as a child did not have the habit of organizing, no organizing consciousness, there is no organizing method of inheritance, coupled with the difference in the habits of life between China and Japan, the Japanese style of organizing is inevitably incompatible with the soil and water, and many people are just according to the books, videos, after organizing the chaos and then back again, time after time so that the neatness becomes difficult to sustain and have to give up. The first is that it is not possible to make a book or a video, but it is possible to make a book or a video.
Fourth, some people think that tidiness is useless. The first one is that the whole thing is a bit of a joke, but the second one is that the whole thing is a joke, and the third one is that the whole thing is a joke.