I don't want to use this word for my daughter and son-in-law, but they did, and they don't have any backbone of their own. If they keep on chewing old age, when can they grow up?
My daughter is an only child and my son-in-law has a younger sister, so I'm really worried about my daughter.
The daughter found a son-in-law, he is a poor village, the place is particularly poor, he simply can not afford to buy a house in the city, I guess even the bride price can not afford. I've been to that place and it's probably the kind of place you go to once and never go back a second time. It was because of this that I was so determined to buy a house for my daughter. Originally, I did not agree to this marriage, but my daughter was determined to marry, so I had to do what I could to help her. I don't want my daughter to get married in that poor village and suffer from the pain of being a village girl," he said.
In the city, I bought my daughter a loan house. I paid the down payment, half of it, and the remaining half was loaned in my daughter's name, and they just paid back 1500 bucks a month. And the wedding is also I paid for them to do, they do not have to pay anything, all I do is hope that they can live a good life.
I didn't realize that after the house was renovated, they didn't go to live in the new house, but rented it out to someone else for more than 2500 dollars a month. I told them that the furniture in the house is new and it would be too much of a loss to rent it out, but my daughter wouldn't listen to anything she said and insisted on living with us. I'm not sure how much I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm sure I'll be able to do it," he said.
After my daughter and son-in-law moved in, I didn't have to pay a penny for my living expenses. I can say that I managed to keep my children in my care, while the two of them, like nothing else, went out on a date, ate Western-style food, and watched a movie all day long. Don't they know they are under pressure, how can they be so laid back every day?
I expressed my dissatisfaction with them, and I hoped that they could pay some living expenses to the family, but they said that they didn't have enough money to spend, so how could they pay living expenses to the family. I am quite angry, these two children are spoiled by me, no responsibility at all?
I was so upset that I couldn't spoil them any more, and I threw them out. When I left, my daughter cried, very aggrieved, and my son-in-law kept urging me not to throw them out. My heart was hardened, and no matter what they said, I didn't change my decision. I told them, "Are you still justified in nibbling at your old age? It's not honorable to nibble on the old, live your own life, we old couple want to be quiet and calm."
Daughter and son-in-law's family left, my world is quiet, but quiet after a little boredom, in order to enrich their lives, I went out to dance, went out to learn to play sweater, people are also a lot more cheerful.
I can give selflessly for my children, no matter how tired and difficult it can be, but I want my children to grow up on their own, can not always rely on their parents, can not always nibble the old. To put it mildly, if we old folks are gone one day and the kids still can't do anything, then I really think that would be pathetic.
Do you have old people around you? Are you one of them?